If you’ve been reading my articles for any length of time you’ll likely know that I’m a huge fan of self-reflecting… especially when it comes to our sex lives. One exercise that I have a lot of my clients go through is setting aside an hour and writing down what their ideal sex life looks […]Read more
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When people find out what I do for work, they tend to assume a few things about me. “You’re a relationship coach? So you must be like the perfect boyfriend then, right?” “What a fascinating job. So I guess you and your girlfriend never fight.” “You’re basically a therapist for intimate relationships… so you must […]Read more
“How do I get my partner to initiate sex with me more often?” This is one of a handful of questions that I get asked on a weekly basis that makes me internally cringe. Why? Because, while I empathize with how bad it can feel to not have a sense of sexual connection with your partner, […]Read more
We are more wild, and more tender than we allow ourselves be in bed. Regardless of our gender, the range of our sexuality has been repressed, limited, and shamed into a corner since we were young. We are simultaneously tantalized and chastised. We are taught to suppress sexual desire… hide our bodies… and don’t even […]Read more
I recently received a message from one of my readers that sparked my interest. – “My wife is (what she labels as) a “highly sensitive person” or HSP. Quite often, things that I don’t see as a huge deal can make her go running for shelter for hours on end. I love her to bits […]Read more
Here’s to the emotionally strong women… The women that have done their work. The women that know the value of self-love and self-care. The women that hold themselves, and others, to higher standards. The women that have felt grief, and received the grief of their loved ones. The women who turn towards their partners instead […]Read more
The majority of my private coaching clients are abnormally high functioning people. They’re self-employed and loving their work, they’re in good shape, and they have relatively conquerable issues in their love life. Over the past few years I’ve noticed a specific trend in the character traits of my clients that made me take notice. Each […]Read more
This article goes out to all of my (hetero) female readers… On average, I get about ten messages per week from my female readers around the world along the lines of “Where have all of the good men gone? Where are the guys who will open the door for you? Why do men only want […]Read more
Sexual desire for your partner ebbs and flows depending on your mood, the season, and how much effort you’ve been putting into your relationship lately. It’d be all too easy to blame waning sexual desire on the fact that you’ve been together for X number of months/years/decades… but really, sexual desire only drops in relationships […]Read more
Whether you want to profess your love to someone special, or you want to re-affirm your love to your significant other, words are a massively powerful tool. The problem is that most people aren’t as eloquent as they would like to be when it comes to putting pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard). If […]Read more