His Devotion in the Palm of Your Hand:
Handjobs that Addict Him to Your Love
Jordan & Demetra, man and wife, discovered this hidden psychological secret that turns simple handjobs into not just mindblowing orgasms… but deep intimacy, heart healing, and transformational breakthroughs for the relationship. Women who master this become absolutely irreplaceable to their men, and inspire lifelong commitment.
🔥 SHOCKING TRUTH : Right now, you’re sitting on the most powerful intimacy tool in the world… and you have absolutely no idea.
While you’re worried about giving the perfect blowjob… or moving your body the right way for sex… you’re overlooking the one sexual act that gives you more power over his heart and mind than your mouth and vagina ever could.
That’s how powerful handjobs are.
Yes, handjobs.
When most women hear this, they think, “Handjobs? Isn’t that just foreplay?” Some women even leave handjobs for when they’re too tired for “real” sex.
This is exactly the mindset that’s keeping you from creating unbelievable intimacy and devotion with your lover.
What so many women (and even relationship experts) miss is this: When you give a man a handjob the right way, you’re not just jerking him off.
Instead, you’re literally holding his sexuality, his self-esteem, his vulnerability, and his deepest capacity for emotional bonding… in the palm of your hand.
99% of women think handjobs are just a warm-up act.
But if you’re in the 1% of women that understand this… you have the fastest way to make a man unbelievably committed to you.
The 5 Handjob Myths that Rob Your
Relationship of Incredible Intimacy
Do any of these phrases sound familiar to you? Maybe you’ve heard girlfriends say them, and maybe you’ve thought them yourself.
❌ “It’s just something to get him warmed up”
❌ “It’s what I do when I don’t feel like giving a blowjob”
❌ “He can do it better himself anyway”
❌ “It’s not as intimate as other sexual acts”
❌ “It doesn’t really matter if I’m good at it”
Every single one of these beliefs is not just wrong – it actively sabotages your relationship.
Keep reading, and you’ll see why.
Why Handjobs Connect You to Your Partner
More than Sex or Blowjobs Ever Could
Want to know the huge difference with handjobs and why they give you so much sensual power?
Think about what happens during other sexual acts:
During intercourse: He’s penetrating deep inside you, so you are flooded with all the feelings, sensations, and thoughts that come with that. Your attention is split between his pleasure and your own intense sensual experience.
During blowjobs: You are fully immersed with him being in your mouth. You’re managing your technique, breathing, jaw comfort, gag reflex… AND all your emotions, sensations, and complex beliefs about the act you’re doing.
But during handjobs? You are free. Completely, utterly FREE.
- Free to focus on HIM
- Free to welcome, accept, and nurture his every pulsation, moan, and reaction.
- Free to be fully present to the almost invisible emotional cyclone that he experiences every handjob. (This is right under the surface and almost all women miss it.)
- And let’s be real… you’re free to be incredibly powerful with your pleasuring techniques, since your own vulnerability is out of the way.
This is the one sexual activity where he is entirely at your mercy for your love and care.
He is completely vulnerable, and you can now attend to his needs with your full presence, love, and feminine radiance.
I bet you didn’t know you had this kind of power.
And it gets even deeper…
His Vulnerability Portal:
How Your Handjob Heals His Deepest Wounds
& Opens Him Up to You
Do you want to know a secret about men that almost no women know?
Here it is.
Throughout a man’s entire life, he’s been carrying guilt, shame, and conflicting thoughts about masturbation.
As a teenager, he had to hide and not get caught. And often in places where there was barely any privacy.
He’s heard religious sermons about how it’s “dirty” or ”wrong.”
He’s been told masturbation is what men do when they are not attractive or adequate enough to find a “real” sex partner.
And most likely he has been caught doing it… whether it was from a family member, a roommate, or a romantic partner. And when a boy or man is caught, it is not a positive experience. It’s awkward at best, and crushingly shameful at worst.
Even when an adult man is caught masturbating by his female romantic partner, he might be scarred by the experience. Some women mistakenly believe that if a man is masturbating, it means she’s not satisfying him. This causes a lot of women to lash out at their lover if they catch him. (And if that’s been you, I am not judging. It’s extremely common, and happens because of so many other issues and stigmas in society.)
The bottom line is this: Every man carries this sexual baggage.
He probably doesn’t say it out loud. He probably laughs at the masturbation jokes in those raunchy Hollywood movies along with you.
But underneath all of this… is insecurity, pain, and fear. Even on an unconscious level.
And that’s where you come in… to aid him in his sexual healing, and show you accept him as he is.
All without even a word about the subject. He never has to know that you know.
When you take control of this intimate act… and do it with love, skill, and awakened feminine energy… something magical happens.
✨ You give him permission to enjoy his sexuality without shame
✨ You heal years of guilt and negative self-talk
✨ You become the source of his sexual acceptance and freedom
✨ You create a safe space for his complete vulnerability
This isn’t just physical pleasure. This is the deepest emotional healing. This is profound spiritual connection.
Do you want to be the one woman who can give him this incredible gift? It’s a lot of responsibility… but the rewards in intimacy with him are forever.
How to Create Unshakeable Devotion
Through “Intimacy Momentum”
What happens next, when you have helped him heal?
He starts rapidly bonding with you.
Now just to be clear… you’re not being a “therapist” here, and you’re definitely not weakening any of his masculine power in the relationship. If anything, you’re deepening it, because now he can take the proper masculine role and ravish you better than you’ve ever imagined.
Because he knows he can be himself with you.
Now that you’ve mastered this methodology for handjobs…
🔥 He trusts you with his deepest vulnerability
🔥 He knows no other woman could make him feel this safe and accepted.
🔥 He can speak what’s on his mind… including his thoughts, feelings, and fears. He can now be fully authentic with you
🔥 He is now fiercely committed to treating you as his queen, and making sure all of your needs are taken care of. He wants to protect you, comfort you, and delight you.
This is why you have to be very careful with what you learn here. You have an immense amount of power and it is tempting to use it to take advantage of someone.
When you know how to do this…
You have become emotionally irreplaceable.
Our Story: From “Boring Foreplay” to
Irresistible, Beautiful Connection
Hi, I’m Jordan Gray, relationship coach and bestselling author. This is my wife, Demetra.
A few years ago, Demetra made a discovery that completely transformed our understanding of intimate touch and male psychology…
Here’s how she describes it:
“I used to think handjobs were… dull. Both for me and for him. I knew girlfriends who would do them just if they weren’t in the mood for sex… or as a stop on the “foreplay train” that we might as well skip if he was hard already.
I would just kind of… stroke up and down a few times. Maybe add some spit. It was all mechanical, and honestly boring.
But then one night, everything changed.
Jordan was stressing about work, and I started rubbing his shoulders to comfort him. I didn’t even really think about sex at the moment. But while comforting him and rubbing his body, I somehow arrived to putting my hand down his pants and stroking his penis.
My goal here wasn’t to get him off… or even to “foreplay” our way to sex. It was just to be there for him. To be fully there for his needs.
I was totally focused on him. His breathing, his body warmth, his skin. I slowed everything down.. and witnessed how his body responded to different touches.
In that moment, I felt so connected to him… more than I had been in so long. I felt so blessed that I could have this much impact on him with just my hands, my love, and my awareness.
And that’s when it happened.
He orgasmed… but it wasn’t like any orgasm I’d had with him before. It was a full-body, emotional release. I could see his body going through so many movements and vibrations. When he gasped, I could literally feel all this tension leaving his body. It was in the energy of the air.
Afterward, he teared up… and said it was one of the most intimate experiences he’d ever shared with me.
I realized I had completely underestimated the power of what I could do with my hands. And I wanted to continue to use this gift for our whole lifetime together.
It’s hard to explain what happened that night. It was beyond physical pleasure. It was as if Demetra was seeing straight into my soul, and just loving all of me. I felt completely safe to let go, in a way I never had before.
The level of trust and intimacy we built in that single experience changed our relationship forever.. I started opening up to her about things I’d never shared with anyone. Our emotional connection deepened in ways I didn’t know were possible.
Our entire sex life was transformed. Blowjobs, vaginal sex, and even basic massages were improved tremendously.
And so were little things, like when we took walks in the park, hand in hand.
When you experience that level of intimate attention and care together, it creates a template for deeper connection in everything else you do as a couple.
Real Women Who Transformed Their Relationships
and Opened Their Men Up with Amazing Handjobs
“He had his first full-body orgasm last night. Ever. In his entire life. This technique has completely transformed our marriage. Thank you so much. Forever grateful.” – Joan
“Well, I tried out the things I learned, and it has opened his heart wider than I ever thought possible. And surprise surprise, last night he brought me home a bouquet of flowers on a random Tuesday, “just because.” This stuff really works!” – Susan
“Our relationship has never been deeper or felt more connected. Thank you times a million.” – Vanessa
When you experience that level of intimate attention and care together, it creates a template for deeper connection in everything else you do as a couple
Why Most Handjob Advice Misses the Point,
And Can Make Your Relationship Worse
Now, a lot of women who come to this page have previously looked on Reddit, Youtube, blogs and asked their friends for help.
And this is where things go wrong.
Here’s what happens.
These online resources, or well-meaning friends, treat handjobs like a skill to master. Like driving a car or baking a cake.
“Do this with your wrist.”
“Apply pressure here.”
“Use this motion for 30 seconds.”
And this isn’t necessarily bad technique. In fact… you may even try some of this out and think things are getting better.
But it’s really missing the point. Here’s why:
Intimacy isn’t mechanical. Connection isn’t choreographed.
Picking up a nifty technique and using it without the intimacy & connection gives a stimulating but empty experience for the man.
It can make a woman feel like a bootycall at best or a hooker at worst.
It can make you feel like you’re servicing him… and make him feel like you’re just doing him a favor.
Is that what you want? I don’t think so.
And that’s only if the techniques actually work for your man.
Men can be so different in what turns them on and gets them off. Some men love a lot of “head” attention, while other men feel overstimulated and need more pressure on the base.
So using the wrong techniques can actually cause your lover to feel uncomfortable or even in pain. And if you don’t have the intimacy & connection tools to resolve that, you start making your physical relating more and more awkward.
The bad news is that no technique or set of techniques will transform your relationship.
The good news is that you can build incredible intimacy & commitment through handjobs… without even changing how you use your hands.
And if you learn good techniques PLUS the emotional & spiritual method for giving amazing handjobs, you will be a sensual goddess with your hands.
You will use handjobs as a gateway to building deep trust, creating profound connection, and even healing your lover emotionally.
Why He Won’t (or Can’t) Tell You How to Stroke Him
If you’re like a lot of women, you’ve asked him to “Tell me what you like.”
And most women report that they get very vague information at best.
That’s because most men are almost completely cut off from openly discussing intimacy. Beyond all the stigma and shame, there’s also society’s role in urging men to cut themselves off from their feelings.
That’s why so many women have come to me for advice for how to get inside the male mind.
So you need to be able to do two things:
- Be able to read what he needs sexually without him telling you.
- Make him feel so comfortable, loved, and safe that he is able to tell you exactly what he feels and what he needs.
And when you have this special method for giving handjobs… you learn to do both at once.
You start understanding what men want in general, and you start knowing what he needs personally.
This is why my past students who have learned this end up becoming the woman that all friends ask for sexual advice.
The “Presence-Touch Fusion” Method:
How This Actually Works
If you left this page right now, you’d still know more about the real truth about handjobs than 99% of women.
But you wouldn’t know how to use it.
If you stay with me here, you will learn what Demetra and I discovered.
You will learn the “recipe of”
✅ Understanding his psychological relationship with this act
✅ Creating emotional safety for complete surrender
✅ Approaching this as healing work, not just pleasure
✅ Using your feminine presence as the primary tool
✅ Letting intuition guide technique, not the other way around
When you understand these deeper principles… when you approach handjobs as an opportunity for profound connection rather than just physical release…
That’s when you access the power I was talking about.
That’s when you become the woman who doesn’t just touch his body – but brings him closer to you, and awakens the most sweet, kind, deep masculine power inside him.
This is how you unleash the man that can fiercely protect you, and also be fully present and devoted to all your emotional needs.
When Demetra and I discovered all of this, we worked very hard to systematize it in a way where any woman could learn this… and get results fast.
We call it the Presence-Touch Fusion Method.
Here is how it works:
Step 1 – Become present with yourself.
Step 2 – Become present with him/
Step 3 – Allow your intuition to guide you to what he needs most right now.
Step 4 – Create a safe, loving space where he can truly be himself.
Step 5 – Let yourself “play” and channel spontaneous, smoldering sexuality to create amazing experiences.
When you’ve gone through all 5 steps, you are in a place where you have truly mastered not just handjobs, but intimacy, connection, and communication. You can use “techniques” where they make sense. But you also can let your body spontaneously try new movements that come from the depths of your soul.
Then handjobs aren’t planned. They just happen as an outpouring of your love.
And every aspect of your relationship gets better and better.
INTRODUCING: BRING HIM TO GOD
Advanced Handjob Mastery for Unbelievable Devotion
This is the video course that Demetra and I created to give you all the magic I described above:
Unbelievable commitment from your lover, amazing sexual experiences, and a profound intimacy in your relationship that’s beyond what you ever could have imagined.
You’ll watch him open up and surrender to your love… communicating openly with both what he needs from you and what he’s always wanted to tell you but just didn’t know how.
And because your transformational handjob is so healing & nurturing for him… you’ll see beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are the only woman he could ever see himself with… for life.
As you can imagine, this isn’t a “technique” course filled with mechanical instructions… but you will learn plenty of techniques.
Instead, Bring Him to God is a complete, transformational system that teaches you how to naturally & intuitively create unbelievable experiences for you and your lover… bonding you together in beautiful romantic bliss.
NOTE: All techniques are demonstrated on a plastic “model” penis. There is zero nudity in this program. I would not call this “safe for work,” but it’s nothing X-rated.
Here’s what you’ll master:
PHASE 1: THE PRESENCE AWAKENING
Becoming the Woman He Can Fully Surrender To
- The 3-second “soul connection” technique that instantly drops you into complete presence (even if you’re normally distracted or anxious during intimacy)
- Why most women accidentally create “performance anxiety” in their men… and the simple mindset shift that makes him feel completely safe to be vulnerable with you
- The “Feminine Radiance Activation” – how to channel your natural feminine energy so powerfully that he feels it before you even touch him
- The breathing pattern that syncs your nervous system with his (this creates an almost telepathic connection that will dazzle you both)
- Erase the mental chatter that kills intimacy… using an ancient Tantra technique.
PHASE 2: THE HEALING GATEWAY
Becoming His Safe Harbor for Sexual Acceptance
- The hidden psychology behind male masturbation shame… and how to become the woman who heals decades of guilt without ever saying a word about it
- Why religious men often have the most intense responses to this approach (and how to navigate this sensitively if your man has a faith background)
- The “Permission Protocol” – how to give him unconscious permission to enjoy his sexuality fully, without shame or apology
- What’s really happening in his mind when he’s getting a handjob (this will completely change how you approach the entire experience)
- The vulnerability signs that tell you he’s ready to surrender completely… and what to do when you see them
PHASE 3: THE INTUITIVE TOUCH MASTERY
When Your Hands Become Extensions of Your Heart
- The “Body Wisdom Activation” that lets your hands know exactly what to do next
- Why “technique-first” approaches kill the magic… and how to let your intuition guide your movements for mind-blowing results
- The difference between “servicing” him and “loving” him with your touch (once you feel the difference, you’ll never go back)
- How to read his body like a roadmap to his deepest pleasure… including the subtle signs that most women completely miss
- The “Fascination Focus” method that takes you from “giving a handjob” to exploring his pleasure with genuine curiosity.
PHASE 4: THE COMPLETE ANATOMY MASTERY
Know His Body Better Than He Does
- The pleasure map of male anatomy that reveals “hot” and “comfort” zones most women never discover
- Why the head of his penis might not be his most sensitive spot… and how to find his unique “pleasure signature”
- The arousal phases that change everything about how you should touch him (get this wrong and you’ll overstimulate him into anxiety or even fear!)
- Hand positioning secrets that drop fatigue and give you maximum control (so you can focus on him instead of your cramping wrist)
- The “two-handed symphony” approach that creates sensations he’s never experienced before
PHASE 5: THE FOUNDATION TECHNIQUES
Essential Skills Every Goddess Must Master
- The 5 basic stroke patterns that form the foundation (master these and you’re already better than 95% of women)
- Pressure, speed, and rhythm mastery – the “trinity” that determines whether he has a good orgasm or a life-changing experience
- Lubrication secrets that most women get completely wrong (including the mistake that can actually make him less sensitive)
- The “arousal ladder” method for building intensity systematically without overwhelming him
- How to maintain perfect technique even during longer sessions (without your hand going numb or losing effectiveness)
PHASE 6: THE TRANSCENDENT TECHNIQUES
Taking Him Beyond Physical Pleasure
- The “Transcending Touch” technique that creates full-body orgasms and emotional releases (this is what happened to Jordan the night we discovered this)
- Advanced stroke patterns that build impossible intensity… then release it in waves of pleasure
- The “Edge of Heaven” method for keeping him right at the peak of pleasure for as long as you want
- Temperature and texture play that adds completely new dimensions to his experience
- How to create the “worship experience” that makes him feel like the most desired man alive
PHASE 7: THE PSYCHOLOGICAL MASTERY
Getting Inside His Mind and Heart
- What he’s actually thinking during each phase of arousal (and how to use this knowledge to drive him wild)
- The power of eye contact during handjobs… and why most women avoid it (missing out on the deepest intimacy possible)
- How to use anticipation as a weapon of mass arousal (the pause that makes him literally beg for your touch)
- The verbal techniques that amplify physical pleasure by 300% (without sounding fake or performative)
- Reading his non-verbal cues like you have a direct line to his nervous system
PHASE 8: THE POSITION AND SCENARIO MASTERY
Creating Perfect Environments for Connection
- The 7 best positions for handjobs and when to use each one (including the position that gives you maximum control and him maximum vulnerability)
- How to create comfort for extended sessions that last 30+ minutes (without either of you getting sore or tired)
- Spontaneous handjob scenarios that surprise and delight him (turning ordinary moments into extraordinary memories)
- The “whole body involvement” approach that makes handjobs a full sensual experience
- Advanced positioning for couples with physical limitations or challenges
PHASE 9: THE CLIMAX ORCHESTRATION
Creating Earth-Shattering Finales That Bond You Forever
- How to recognize the approach of climax 2-3 minutes before it happens (giving you complete control over the timing)
- The “Explosion Amplification” technique that makes his orgasm 500% more intense than anything he’s experienced
- Multiple climax methods that let you take him there again… and again… and again
- The emotional release protocol for when he cries, shakes, or has an overwhelming response (this is actually a beautiful sign you’re doing it right)
- Post-climax care that deepens your bond and creates the afterglow he’ll think about for weeks
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Remember: When You Master This, You Become Irreplaceable
Here’s the truth no one talks about:
The woman who can give a man profound intimate experiences through loving touch becomes the emotional center of his universe.
You’re not just learning techniques. You’re learning how to create the kind of deep, vulnerable connection that most couples never experience.
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Jordan & Demetra Gray
Relationship Coaches & Creators of BRING HIM TO GOD