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The Ultimate Guide To Thigh Jobs (& 11 Sexy Thigh Job Positions)
Jul 22, 2024
Jordan Gray
The Ultimate Guide To Thigh Jobs (& 11 Sexy Thigh Job Positions)
Thigh jobs...? You've heard of handjobs and blowjobs... but thigh jobs? For many people, they are a foreign concept. Also referred to as thighing, thigh sex, and intercrural sex, in a subset of kinksters, explorative couples, and people saving themselves for marriage, thigh jobs are all...
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18 Sexiest Handjob Positions To Blow His Mind
Jun 24, 2024
Jordan Gray
18 Sexiest Handjob Positions To Blow His Mind
A handjob's a handjob. I mean... he can basically do it himself, amirite? Nope. Wrong! Comparing a guy jerking himself off to him receiving a masterful handjob is like comparing looking at a black-and-white image of a sunrise to waking up in a world-class resort overlooking the ocean with an elaborate...
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The Big Test Before You Leap
May 28, 2024
Jordan Gray
The Big Test Before You Leap
In 2019, my now-wife/then-love-interest Demetra and I were engaging in multi-hour Skype dates and inching ever-closer to the point of saying "Hey, we should meet up in person and see if our chemistry translates to the real world." Our rapport was phenomenal. The synchronicities were everywhere. It...
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5 Kinds Of People To Avoid
Apr 24, 2024
Jordan Gray
5 Kinds Of People To Avoid
Ever found yourself in a relationship that drains your energy faster than water pours out of a busted fire hydrant? In a world full of diverse personalities, there are a few you might want to avoid. While by no means an exhaustive list, the following are a collection of some of the worst offenders. If...
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11 Thoughtful Things I Do For My Wife
Mar 27, 2024
Jordan Gray
11 Thoughtful Things I Do For My Wife
When it comes to sustaining a thriving, healthy marriage, I believe that grand gestures are overrated. In a world of choreographed, flash-mob proposals and Pinterest-perfect breakfasts-in-bed, it's easy to get caught up in the grand gestures of love, but I think it's the little things that truly keep...
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7 Women Who Used To Hate Giving Blowjobs, But Now Love It
Mar 25, 2024
Jordan Gray
7 Women Who Used To Hate Giving Blowjobs, But Now Love It
Have you ever wondered if you can go from hating blowjobs to loving them? Not just tolerating. Not getting through. But truthfully getting to a place where you adore giving them? Ever since my wife Demetra and I released our video course, Queen of Blowjobs, my email inbox has been flooded with...
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5 Types Of Blowjobs You Can Give To Blow Him Away
Mar 23, 2024
Jordan Gray
5 Types Of Blowjobs You Can Give To Blow Him Away
At face value, blowjobs might seem like they're all the same. Erect penis, meet mouth. But once you graduate from the adolescent groping that happens in the backseat of your car, you might realize that there is a whole other realm of blowjob mastery to be had. You can incorporate dirty talk...
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Why I Will Never Be A Matchmaker
Mar 9, 2024
Jordan Gray
Why I Will Never Be A Matchmaker
On a weekly basis, for the last 15 or so years, I have had someone ask me some version of: "Can you just introduce me to a healthy partner / Can you start a matchmaking service so that I can meet the people that follow your work?" Literally, every week. Here's the thing... We've all...
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Loving Dirty Talk: Loving Words To Say During Sex (55 Phrases)
Mar 4, 2024
Jordan Gray
Loving Dirty Talk: Loving Words To Say During Sex (55 Phrases)
Looking for loving words to say during sex? Enter: loving dirty talk! Some of my long-term readers might be surprised to learn that several of my highest-ranked articles of all time are all around the theme of dirty talk. Dirty talk for beginners, dirty talk that men love to hear, how to dirty...
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Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head
Mar 3, 2024
Jordan Gray
Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head
Do you want to give your man the best blowjob of his life, and make him sexually obsessed with you? Enter: blowjob dirty talk! A long-time client of mine recently emailed me the following question: "My husband loves it when I dirty talk during blowjobs. I know that this is one of his favorite things,...
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