Have you ever worried about being (or becoming) a loser? One of my email subscribers recently sent me this question: “I am currently in a downward spiral of becoming a…
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The majority of modern relationships are based off of fear. Marriages that are more about possessiveness than about love. Unspoken codependent social contracts abound. Jealousy, game playing, and manipulation are more…
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Today, more than ever, people are psychologically soft. We have been raised in a time of unprecedented ease, comfort, and convenience. We are, on a daily basis, guarded from the…
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Over time, it’s not uncommon for the passion, sexual tension, and romantic energy to dwindle in a relationship. Now, this isn’t an inevitability of being in a long-term relationship (I…
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Humans are finite beings. The energy we have is finite. The number of days we have on this planet is finite. The number of people we can truly care about…
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Butt Stuff. Tushy titillation. Rousing the rump. Fanny shenanigans. Whatever you want to call it… anal play is a hugely misunderstood treasure trove of sexual pleasure. Like many people, you might…
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All of my life, I have loved tending to fires. When I was a little boy, one of my grandparents owned a small cabin a couple hours drive from my…
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I want to make you a sweaty, bloody mess Sink my teeth into shoulder and tear off the flesh Leave marks on you that last for weeks Passion rushed, limbs…
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When I was in early elementary, every day I came home from school, I would immediately tear off all of my clothes (down to my underwear) and latch on to…
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We are in the middle of a loneliness epidemic. Nearly half of Americans reported (sometimes or always) feeling alone, and over 40% said that they don’t have any relationships that…
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