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Why I Will Never Be A Matchmaker
Mar 9, 2024
Jordan Gray
Why I Will Never Be A Matchmaker
On a weekly basis, for the last 15 or so years, I have had someone ask me some version of: "Can you just introduce me to a healthy partner / Can you start a matchmaking service so that I can meet the people that follow your work?" Literally, every week. Here's the thing... We've all...
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Loving Dirty Talk: Loving Words To Say During Sex (55 Phrases)
Mar 4, 2024
Jordan Gray
Loving Dirty Talk: Loving Words To Say During Sex (55 Phrases)
Looking for loving words to say during sex? Enter: loving dirty talk! Some of my long-term readers might be surprised to learn that several of my highest-ranked articles of all time are all around the theme of dirty talk. Dirty talk for beginners, dirty talk that men love to hear, how to dirty...
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Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head
Mar 3, 2024
Jordan Gray
Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head
Do you want to give your man the best blowjob of his life, and make him sexually obsessed with you? Enter: blowjob dirty talk! A long-time client of mine recently emailed me the following question: "My husband loves it when I dirty talk during blowjobs. I know that this is one of his favorite things,...
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8 Reasons You Won’t Attract A Conscious Man (As You Currently Are)
Mar 1, 2024
Jordan Gray
8 Reasons You Won’t Attract A Conscious Man (As You Currently Are)
Think you're ready for a relationship with a conscious man? The truth might surprise you. If you have been single for years, and yet you have the desire to be in a committed relationship with a man who meets you on all levels, there could be some unconscious blocks that are keeping you from attracting...
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9 Ways To Improve Your Marriage Using Inversion Thinking
Feb 28, 2024
Jordan Gray
9 Ways To Improve Your Marriage Using Inversion Thinking
I’ve written before about cognitive biases, and today, I’m going to speak to a different one and help you use it to improve your marriage (or any romantic relationship you’re in). Us humans have what is commonly referred to as a 'negativity bias.' Which is a fancy way of saying that we’re better at...
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14 Lessons Learned In 11 Years Of Business
Feb 26, 2024
Jordan Gray
14 Lessons Learned In 11 Years Of Business
On January 26th, 2013, I officially launched this business of mine. Whether you're a self-employed business owner and looking to shortcut some of my hard-earned wisdom, or just a reader of my work who is curious about peeking behind the curtain of a different aspect of my process, there will be something...
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7 Popular Concepts That I Just Don’t Believe In
Feb 23, 2024
Jordan Gray
7 Popular Concepts That I Just Don’t Believe In
There are a handful of concepts that are so popular… so everywhere… that every time I see them, I just want to shoot myself in the fucking face. Both the frequency of how often I hear about them and the degree to which people believe in them without question really grinds my gears. So, welcome...
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21 Things To Do When Your Sex Drives Are Different
Feb 21, 2024
Jordan Gray
21 Things To Do When Your Sex Drives Are Different
Imagine this: you would love to have sex with your partner five times a week, and yet your partner is fine with once or twice a month. For many individuals, they don't have to imagine this scenario - because they live it every day. Over the years, I have met countless men and women who were stressed...
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4 Man-Melting Phrases That Make Him Fall In Love
Feb 17, 2024
Jordan Gray
4 Man-Melting Phrases That Make Him Fall In Love
Words are powerful. With a simple sentence we can bolster, boost, encourage, or strengthen someone…. And with a different choice of words we can shame, crush, undermine, destroy, or decimate.  After releasing my article 5 Types Of Compliments That Melt A Man’s Heart, a few women reached out to me...
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4 Things To Never Say To A Man 
Feb 15, 2024
Jordan Gray
4 Things To Never Say To A Man 
In the delicate dance of communication, some missteps can lead to a full stop.  There are some words that, when said, rapidly destroy connection. What are they? You might be able to guess one of them. Possibly two if you’re already a serious student of the intricacies of men. But if used in conjunction,...
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