Looking for the world’s most comfortable blowjob positions? Look no further!
As the old saying goes… ”Blowjobs… they blow him away, but they’re a job for you.”
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
When you find the right comfortable blowjob positions for you, the entire act takes on an entirely different energy.
Depending on what position your normally go for, and which part of your body tends to get sore first (jaw, neck, back, knees, etc.), there’s a position below that will help you out in a massive way.
Some positions take the pressure off of your neck. Others take the pressure off of your core/abs/back. And others still take the pressure off of your legs (so you don’t have to hold yourself up at all).
Whatever way you’re looking to be more comfortable during blowjobs, the following positions have you covered.
The seven positions are presented buffet-style. So pick whichever ones appeal to you the most, and leave the rest.
The 7 Hottest And Most Comfortable Blowjob Positions
Alright, let’s get into it!
Ready to end a blowjob session with zero pain, soreness, or stiffness in your body?
Pick your favorite comfortable blowjob positions from the following list, surprise your man with it, and he will be singing your praises in no time.
1. The Edge Of Bliss Blowjob
For the Edge of Bliss blowjob, the woman lays on her side, near the edge of the bed. The man stands with his feet on the floor, and brings his penis to her mouth.
The man can either put one knee on the bed, or just stay standing upright on both feet.
This position is a total winner for a few reasons.
If the woman doesn’t want to angle her head at all, move her head back and forth at all, or even use her hands, she can literally just lay on her side near the edge of the bed and have her man fuck her face. As in, zero motion-based effort required on her part. She can just lay there and keep her mouth open. From there, how physically involved she gets is entirely up to her.
For him, there’s a sexy this-is-all-about-my-pleasure feeling, and the view is great too.
If you want a position that is easy on the neck, hands, arms, etc., this one is right up there on the list.
And if it feels almost ‘too lazy,’ that’s fine! Go with it! Just lay there and let him have his way with your face. It can truly be that simple.
2. The Resting Embrace Lie-Back Blowjob
For this position, the woman lays on her back on the bed, and the man straddles her torso on his knees. Then, he thrusts into her mouth. It becomes even more comfortable if the woman props up her head with one or multiple pillows.
Similar to the Edge of Bliss position, this position is so great because (as the minimum effective dose) you can literally just lay there with your mouth open and have your man do all the work.
You don’t need to put your hand on his penis. You don’t need to put your hand on his testicles, butt, or torso. This position is easy on the everything because you just lay back and let him enter your mouth.
Anything you add past that (based on your energy levels and physical capabilities) is up to you.
3. The Lean-In Lounge Blowjob
For the Lean-In Lounge blowjob position, the woman lays on her side, with her hip resting on her man’s hip.
From this comfortable blowjob position, she can either use both of her hands on his penis and testicles, or she can lean one of her elbows across his body and use one of her hands to prop up her head to take some strain off of her neck.
For the man, this position is a winner because he gets to lay back and rest, while also getting great physical and visual access to touching his partner’s hip, butt, and thighs.
4. The Kneeling Pillow Pile-Up Blowjob
For many women, the least favorite aspects of their default blowjob position are that they either need to hold themselves up somehow (with their forearms or core strength), or that their neck gets stiff after a while.
In the Kneeling Pillow Pile-Up blowjob position, both of these issues are alleviated.
The woman stacks up several large, fluffy pillows underneath her knees (don’t hold back – the more the merrier!), and services her man from a kneeling position.
Her legs are supported, she doesn’t have to use her arms to hold herself up, and her neck gets to be in a more relaxed, straight position, because she can bring her man’s penis to exactly where it needs to be so that it’s easier on her.
This position also adds in a bit more of a Dominant/submissive, overt service aspect to the act, which will appeal to some couples more than others.
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5. The ‘Upright Delight’ Chair Blowjob
For any women who hate having to hold themselves up, or put their necks in uncomfortable positions, the Upright Delight is a total game changer.
In this position, the woman sits in a chair, and the man (standing up) brings his penis to her mouth.
As always, whether you decide to use your hands or not, or even move your head back and forth or not, is entirely up to you. At a minimal level of effort, you can simply sit in the chair and let your man thrust into your mouth until he finishes. And, if you feel so inclined, you can use your hands to stimulate him as well.
In terms of ease of implementation, this comfortable blowjob position might be in the number one spot for minimal necessity of energy expenditure. If that’s your thing, you can just sit back, and let him have his way with you.
6. Side-69
For some women, the thing that makes blowjobs the most comfortable is simply receiving direct stimulation at the same time. If that’s you, you’re going to love the Side-69.
In the regular 69 position, it can be a lot to be on top of your man (holding yourself up with your arms, trying to not put too much of your weight on him, etc.). But in the Side-69, many of those concerns are non-factors. You simply lay on your side, have him work his magic on your lady-parts, and gently move your head back and forth at the same time.
Plus, all of that direct, full-body contact produces a lot of oxytocin (often referred to as the ‘cuddle hormone’), which is always a nice side-benefit.
7. The Swoon Spoon Blowjob
Last but certainly not least, the Swoon Spoon blowjob position!
In this blowjob position, you both lie down on your side. The woman lies on her side further down the bed. Both of them use pillows to prop up their heads for maximum comfort.
This blowjob position is easier than most because, again, you can choose your level of engagement. You don’t need to use your hands (at all, if you don’t want to) and you also don’t need to hold yourself up or move your head back and forth. Your man can just thrust into your mouth from where you both lay, and if you want to do anything more than that, you are free to do so.
I’ve heard from many women that this position is one of their favorites because it feels ‘decadently lazy.’ Like a cozy Sunday morning cuddle, turned sexual.
This position is deceptively simple. If you haven’t tried it out before, I highly recommend giving it a go.
Where To Go From Here?
Alright, you made it to the end of the article!
I hope you have some exciting ideas of positions to try out with your man in the near future.
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Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
Ps. If you enjoyed reading this article on the most comfortable blowjob positions, you’ll also love checking out:
– Inside The Male Mind (video series for women)
– Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head
– The 12 Sexiest Positions For Blowjobs
– 5 Types Of Blowjobs You Can Give To Blow Him Away
