Character Development

101 Things I Love About My Wife
Today is my wife's 30th birthday.
Happy birthday Demetra!
And so, to celebrate, aside from the usual presents and cards and cuddles (which she is also getting), I decided to write down some things that I love about her.
If you've been following her work for any length of time, many of these...
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How I Met My Wife
In October of 2017, a 24 year old university student, with two names that I wouldn't dare to try to pronounce upon reading them, hired me for a coaching session through my website.
When we hopped on the call, she seemed to be someone who was wanting to break free from doing what she was told was the...
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How To Rest (A Guide For Type-A People)
For as long as I can remember... I've always been a bit of a high-strung workaholic.
On one occasion, I worked myself into total burnout - where I could barely stand for more than a few seconds without feeling dizzy. And mustering up the energy to walk to the sink to pour and drink a glass of water...
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Exploit These 3 Cognitive Biases To Fall More Deeply In Love
Everybody needs love and connection. It has been repeatedly proven to be the biggest defining factor in long-term happiness.
In an 80-year-long study, scientists at Harvard University tracked 268 students as they carried on their journeys—hoping to collect hard data on what really makes a great, satisfying...
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10 Ways To Be Deeply Devoted To Your Partner
How is your relationship to relationships?
For most people, it’s highly selfish and egoic.
It’s all about what they can get, versus what they can give. They operate more like entitled, co-dependent children than responsible adults.
Here’s some general advice for life: Don't be like most...
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4 Ways To Fully Receive Feminine Nourishment
Growing up, I experienced a lot of wounding with the feminine.
Bullying, break ups, being emotionally decimated at my most vulnerable...
At the age of 20, I felt like I'd had enough.
I didn't want to be vulnerable with women anymore.
I wanted to armour up. Shut them out. Punish them for how...
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I Used To Think That Men Who Got Married Were Idiots
I used to think that men who got married were idiots.
Or, if they weren't idiots, they were at least undesirable enough that they just had to settle for whoever chose them... because why else would you tie yourself to someone for life if the reason weren't that you didn't have any other romantic options?
I...
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Does Polyamory Ever Work?
Does polyamory ever work?
I received the following letter from a reader the other day.
"I’ve been struggling for the better part of several months dealing with leaving my ex for the second time (who came back early last year love bombing me for months, then completely shifting saying he wants to...
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3 Ways Men Energetically Castrate Themselves
For nearly any man, having their balls chopped off is one of the most terrifying scenarios imaginable.
If you have a scrotum, just reading that probably made it flinch.
But if it’s such a scary idea, then why do so many of us do it to ourselves every single day?
To understand energetic castration, we...
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How To Handle The Pain Of Sexual Rejection From Your Partner
Ever been sexually rejected by your partner?
If you've ever been in a relationship that's lasted longer than six months, the answer would be yes.
I recently got this email from a reader, and I decided to answer it in a long-form article, as I know that others would benefit from it.
Here's the letter,...
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