Character Development
8 Reasons You Won’t Attract A Conscious Man (As You Currently Are)
Think you're ready for a relationship with a conscious man? The truth might surprise you.
If you have been single for years, and yet you have the desire to be in a committed relationship with a man who meets you on all levels, there could be some unconscious blocks that are keeping you from attracting...
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9 Ways To Improve Your Marriage Using Inversion Thinking
I’ve written before about cognitive biases, and today, I’m going to speak to a different one and help you use it to improve your marriage (or any romantic relationship you’re in).
Us humans have what is commonly referred to as a 'negativity bias.' Which is a fancy way of saying that we’re better at...
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14 Lessons Learned In 11 Years Of Business
On January 26th, 2013, I officially launched this business of mine.
Whether you're a self-employed business owner and looking to shortcut some of my hard-earned wisdom, or just a reader of my work who is curious about peeking behind the curtain of a different aspect of my process, there will be something...
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7 Popular Concepts That I Just Don’t Believe In
There are a handful of concepts that are so popular… so everywhere… that every time I see them, I just want to shoot myself in the fucking face.
Both the frequency of how often I hear about them and the degree to which people believe in them without question really grinds my gears.
So, welcome...
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21 Things To Do When Your Sex Drives Are Different
Imagine this: you would love to have sex with your partner five times a week, and yet your partner is fine with once or twice a month.
For many individuals, they don't have to imagine this scenario - because they live it every day.
Over the years, I have met countless men and women who were stressed...
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5 Types Of Compliments That Melt A Man’s Heart
Men need compliments too.
And yet, most men were more-likely-than-not raised in a way where they were fairly compliment starved.
Think about it...
It's easy to imagine a woman complimenting another woman.
It's also easy to imagine a man complimenting a woman.
But when we do an honest audit...
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‘Why Are Men Always Intimidated By Me?’: What’s Actually Happening
I recently worked with a woman we’ll call Jennifer.
Jennifer came to me because she had been single for over 10+ years, and she stated that she no longer wanted to be.
She told me that men always found her 'intimidating' and that they just didn’t know how to relate to her (which is far from the first...
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Hope Is A Terrible Plan
In the quest for love, hope, while comforting, often falls short as a strategy.
The truth is, love seldom knocks on doors uninvited. It's found in the midst of life's hustle, in the laughter shared over a coffee, in the serendipitous encounters at a bookstore, or in the electric air of a social gathering.
When...
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9 Things To Do When Life Gets Hard
There will always be times in life that just suck.
Nothing is going according to plan, everything is getting harder, and situations keep popping up that only make it more and more difficult for you to make significant progress on the ever-increasingly challenging mountain of things that are staring...
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Engagement Anxiety: Why Am I More Afraid Than Happy?
Congratulations! You've taken the step of saying "Yes" to a lifetime of love and commitment. The proposal was perfect, the ring was beautiful, and your heart soared with happiness. And yet, amidst the excitement and joy of being engaged to the love of your life, you find yourself grappling with an unexpected...
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