Attraction

4 Man-Melting Phrases That Make Him Fall In Love
Feb 17, 2024
Jordan Gray
4 Man-Melting Phrases That Make Him Fall In Love
Words are powerful. With a simple sentence we can bolster, boost, encourage, or strengthen someone…. And with a different choice of words we can shame, crush, undermine, destroy, or decimate.  After releasing my article 5 Types Of Compliments That Melt A Man’s Heart, a few women reached out to me...
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4 Things To Never Say To A Man 
Feb 15, 2024
Jordan Gray
4 Things To Never Say To A Man 
In the delicate dance of communication, some missteps can lead to a full stop.  There are some words that, when said, rapidly destroy connection. What are they? You might be able to guess one of them. Possibly two if you’re already a serious student of the intricacies of men. But if used in conjunction,...
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‘Why Are Men Always Intimidated By Me?’: What’s Actually Happening
Feb 6, 2024
Jordan Gray
‘Why Are Men Always Intimidated By Me?’: What’s Actually Happening
I recently worked with a woman we’ll call Jennifer. Jennifer came to me because she had been single for over 10+ years, and she stated that she no longer wanted to be. She told me that men always found her 'intimidating' and that they just didn’t know how to relate to her (which is far from the first...
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Hope Is A Terrible Plan
Jan 27, 2024
Jordan Gray
Hope Is A Terrible Plan
In the quest for love, hope, while comforting, often falls short as a strategy. The truth is, love seldom knocks on doors uninvited. It's found in the midst of life's hustle, in the laughter shared over a coffee, in the serendipitous encounters at a bookstore, or in the electric air of a social gathering. When...
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6 Ways To Meet Someone Without Online Dating
Jan 15, 2024
Jordan Gray
6 Ways To Meet Someone Without Online Dating
I was recently speaking with a client who felt exhausted by online dating. The endless swiping... the sub-par dating pool... the lack of intrigue for anyone that registered as anything more than a (totally generous) 5 out of 10 on the excitement scale. And hey, honestly, I don't blame her. Back...
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Engagement Anxiety: Why Am I More Afraid Than Happy?
Jan 13, 2024
Jordan Gray
Engagement Anxiety: Why Am I More Afraid Than Happy?
Congratulations! You've taken the step of saying "Yes" to a lifetime of love and commitment. The proposal was perfect, the ring was beautiful, and your heart soared with happiness. And yet, amidst the excitement and joy of being engaged to the love of your life, you find yourself grappling with an unexpected...
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How To Optimize Your Dating Profile If You’re A Catch
Jan 2, 2024
Jordan Gray
How To Optimize Your Dating Profile If You’re A Catch
Congratulations on being a catch! Now, let's make sure your online dating profile is as awesome as you are. In this guide, we'll dive into the art of crafting a profile that screams 'I'm the one you've been swiping for!' Get ready for practical tips, counter-cultural tweaks, and an appropriately finessed...
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'Why Am I Still Single?' 5 Reasons + What To Do About It
Jul 19, 2023
Jordan Gray
‘Why Am I Still Single?’ 5 Reasons + What To Do About It
One of the most common questions that I get from people sounds something like… “I’ve been single for so long even though I deeply want a relationship. What gives?” Over the last 15+ years of working with thousands of clients, I’ve noticed some patterns. Here are five reasons that people stay single...
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How To Not Feel Like Roommates
May 8, 2023
Jordan Gray
How To Not Feel Like Roommates
Over the last 15 years of working with people on their relationships full-time, one of the most common sets of questions I get is around 'How do I bring the spark back to my relationship that sometimes feels like we're just roommates with responsibilities?' And this is a valid question. As the...
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101 Things I Love About My Wife
Nov 27, 2022
Jordan Gray
101 Things I Love About My Wife
Today is my wife's 30th birthday. Happy birthday Demetra! And so, to celebrate, aside from the usual presents and cards and cuddles (which she is also getting), I decided to write down some things that I love about her. If you've been following her work for any length of time, many of these...
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