Attraction
Engagement Anxiety: Why Am I More Afraid Than Happy?
Congratulations! You've taken the step of saying "Yes" to a lifetime of love and commitment. The proposal was perfect, the ring was beautiful, and your heart soared with happiness. And yet, amidst the excitement and joy of being engaged to the love of your life, you find yourself grappling with an unexpected...
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How To Optimize Your Dating Profile If You’re A Catch
Congratulations on being a catch! Now, let's make sure your online dating profile is as awesome as you are.
In this guide, we'll dive into the art of crafting a profile that screams 'I'm the one you've been swiping for!' Get ready for practical tips, counter-cultural tweaks, and an appropriately finessed...
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‘Why Am I Still Single?’ 5 Reasons + What To Do About It
One of the most common questions that I get from people sounds something like…
“I’ve been single for so long even though I deeply want a relationship. What gives?”
Over the last 15+ years of working with thousands of clients, I’ve noticed some patterns.
Here are five reasons that people stay single...
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How To Not Feel Like Roommates
Over the last 15 years of working with people on their relationships full-time, one of the most common sets of questions I get is around 'How do I bring the spark back to my relationship that sometimes feels like we're just roommates with responsibilities?'
And this is a valid question.
As the...
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101 Things I Love About My Wife
Today is my wife's 30th birthday.
Happy birthday Demetra!
And so, to celebrate, aside from the usual presents and cards and cuddles (which she is also getting), I decided to write down some things that I love about her.
If you've been following her work for any length of time, many of these...
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Exploit These 3 Cognitive Biases To Fall More Deeply In Love
Everybody needs love and connection. It has been repeatedly proven to be the biggest defining factor in long-term happiness.
In an 80-year-long study, scientists at Harvard University tracked 268 students as they carried on their journeys—hoping to collect hard data on what really makes a great, satisfying...
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12 Romantic Proposal Ideas For You To Steal
So you’re ready to get down on one knee and tie the knot with the love of your life…
Before we get to talking about ways to do it, let me grab my trumpet and set off some confetti cannons…
Because that is amazing! (*Cue explosions and marching band*)
The fact that you’re at a place in your relationship...
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Does Polyamory Ever Work?
Does polyamory ever work?
I received the following letter from a reader the other day.
"I’ve been struggling for the better part of several months dealing with leaving my ex for the second time (who came back early last year love bombing me for months, then completely shifting saying he wants to...
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7 Powerful Ways For Men To Revive A Dead Bedroom
In a long-term relationship and your sex life has taken a nosedive? You're not alone.
Nobody gets proper training in how to sustain connection and sexual desire in a long-term relationship or marriage, so why would we know how to keep the erotic home fires burning after the initial spark wears off?
The...
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4 Things That Keep Men From Committing To You
For a man to place two feet fully into a relationship, he needs to feel that certain key boxes are checked in his life.
When they aren’t, he won’t be able to feel a clear “Yes,” which may cause him to feel ambiguous and resistant around committing to a woman.
Based on the title of this article, you...
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