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How I Met My Wife
In October of 2017, a 24 year old university student, with two names that I wouldn't dare to try to pronounce upon reading them, hired me for a coaching session through my website.
When we hopped on the call, she seemed to be someone who was wanting to break free from doing what she was told was the...
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How To Rest (A Guide For Type-A People)
For as long as I can remember... I've always been a bit of a high-strung workaholic.
On one occasion, I worked myself into total burnout - where I could barely stand for more than a few seconds without feeling dizzy. And mustering up the energy to walk to the sink to pour and drink a glass of water...
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10 Ways To Be Deeply Devoted To Your Partner
How is your relationship to relationships?
For most people, it’s highly selfish and egoic.
It’s all about what they can get, versus what they can give. They operate more like entitled, co-dependent children than responsible adults.
Here’s some general advice for life: Don't be like most...
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12 Romantic Proposal Ideas For You To Steal
So you’re ready to get down on one knee and tie the knot with the love of your life…
Before we get to talking about ways to do it, let me grab my trumpet and set off some confetti cannons…
Because that is amazing! (*Cue explosions and marching band*)
The fact that you’re at a place in your relationship...
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Thank You For This
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you to the trees, and stars, and hot salty tears,
And my childhood guardians who let me hold on to their thighs so that I got my daily
touch.
Thank you to the women who held me through my pain.
To Libby and Linnea and Laura and Allison and Amy and all of...
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I Used To Think That Men Who Got Married Were Idiots
I used to think that men who got married were idiots.
Or, if they weren't idiots, they were at least undesirable enough that they just had to settle for whoever chose them... because why else would you tie yourself to someone for life if the reason weren't that you didn't have any other romantic options?
I...
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The 3 Biggest Obstacles Impeding Men’s Development Today
If you’re a modern man, you’ve probably noticed how hard it can be to make real progress on your most significant goals.
Do you feel like nothing is changing in your life, despite having good intentions?
Or like you’re just crawling along in first gear, and not feeling enough traction or aliveness?
Or...
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10 Ways For Men To Sharpen Their Sword
If you want to become a more effective and powerful man, it will require methodical training and conquering challenges.
Now, if you’ve been reading my other writing on integrating your masculinity and becoming a stronger person, you’ll find that I might often stress the inner work, or, more specifically,...
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3 Tips For A Better Relationship With Your Man
Want to inspire your man’s deepest love and commitment? And see just how romantic and emotionally available he can be?
Or, if you’re single: Do you want to set yourself up to attract the man of your dreams with total ease?
If you do the following three things I’m about to explain, you just might be...
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Suicidal To Successful To Self-Loving: The First 33 Years Of My Life
The following is a summary of the first 33 years of my life. Kind of like a thus-far-autobiography.
It should be noted that I am an unreliable narrator... as all narrators are. Because my perspectives are only my own. I'm sure some facts are muddied by my highly fallible human memory, especially...
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