Since 2009, I have made it my life’s mission to help as many people as possible create their most fulfilling, passionate, love-filled lives.
My way of doing this has been through publishing books and hundreds of articles, coaching clients one-on-one in deep-dive sessions, leading weekly men’s groups, and teaching at seminars.
I originally started this website in order to have my thoughts reach a larger audience, and I am proud to say that my writing has reached over 80 million readers since its inception.
I have always been a sensitive, intuitive, big-hearted person. When I was growing up, this was taken advantage of.
I was bullied relentlessly from the ages of 5-15 and I came to think of relationships as something to fear and avoid. I learned to walk on eggshells and play small… making sure that I never truly relied on anyone but myself.
After years of shutting off my heart and protecting myself from the world, I decided that enough was enough. I was going to reclaim all of the parts of myself that I had abandoned, and become fully myself once more.
I launched myself head first into years of challenging inner-work. I studied with world class teachers and gave it my all. And eventually, I came out the other side of the tunnel.
I’m now in the most fulfilling relationship of my entire life, and I can say with total ease that I love myself, and love my life, more than I ever thought possible.
My hope is that my thoughts, offerings, and insights help you to know that you are not alone. That you are not broken. That there is nothing unloveable about you. At all.
And I care as much as I do about others because life has not been particularly easy on me.
I have struggled with addiction. I have been depressed, had panic attacks, and once tried to take my own life.
I have walked the path, and I know, deep in my bones, that healing is possible.
And really, while it’s fun for my ego to think about all of the places that my writing and my ideas have been featured, what I am the most proud of are the accomplishments and the progress of all of my clients over the last decade.
I’ve helped clients go from single to married. From depressed to thriving. From stuck in old limiting beliefs to expanding into their full potential.
In short, I have supported people in healing themselves. That is what I am most proud of.
At the end of the day, I hope to be a conduit of inspiration, healing, and love. And if I can help to encourage you along in your journey, then I feel absolutely honoured by that.
I am a five-time #1 Amazon best-selling author, public speaker, and relationship coach with more than a decade of practice behind me. My work has been featured in The New York Times, BBC, Forbes, The Huffington Post, Self, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Business Insider, Yahoo!, Entrepreneur, Women’s Health, YourTango, Thought Catalog, Elephant Journal, The Good Men Project, and countless other publications around the globe. I have made it my life’s mission to make thriving relationships attainable to everyone.
Within two years of starting my website, I had five #1 best-selling e-books on Amazon and, since launching, my writing has reached an audience of well over 80 million people from around the world.
I have worked with over a thousand clients privately in the past decade and have helped people of all ages, orientations, and backgrounds have more deeply fulfilling love lives.
The most fulfilling moments of my career are when I can watch (or even officiate) someone I’ve helped getting married, or get a thank-you letter from someone who is living their best life since working with me.
When I’m not coaching clients or writing a new blog post, I love spending time with my partner Demetra, zipping around town on my electric skateboard, and savouring slow-motion hang outs with my closest companions.
Check out some of my most popular articles over here.
Want something even more in depth? Check out my video courses on reclaiming your sexual self, connecting with your body, finding your ideal partner, and improving your intimate relationships exponentially.
If you’d like to contact me personally for a media interview or speaking engagement, you can email me at [email protected] (but please don’t email me asking if you can submit a guest post as I do not accept those on my site, and if you’re looking for relationship advice or to be mentored/coached by me directly, that’s what my coaching page is for).
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No matter what level you are ready to involve yourself with what I offer at Jordan Gray Consulting, I look forward to helping you reach your highest success.