Mar 3, 2024

Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head

Do you want to give your man the best blowjob of his life, and make him sexually obsessed with you? Enter: blowjob dirty talk!

A long-time client of mine recently emailed me the following question:

“My husband loves it when I dirty talk during blowjobs. I know that this is one of his favorite things, and yet I can only ever think of a small handful of things to say. His birthday is coming up and I want to surprise him with some new phrases! I am not particularly shy, I guess I’m just not that creative and don’t know what else to say beyond the most basic, standard things. So… any advice on blowjob dirty talk to kick things up a notch?’

I thought to myself, ‘Wow! What a loving and thoughtful intention. I would love to help this woman.’

So I went ahead and wrote up a list of 55 things she could say, and now I am passing them on to you.

So whether you’re new to the dirty talk game, or you’re a seasoned pro, there’s something for everyone in this blowjob dirty talk guide.

Enjoy!

Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Spicy Things To Say While Going Down On Him

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If this is your first time engaging in any kind of dirty talk (during a blowjob or otherwise), know that some amount of nervousness is totally normal.

‘How will it go? Will I embarrass myself? What if I stumble on my words? What if I say the wrong thing at the wrong time?’

If you have a loving, caring, supportive partner (who, by the way, is about to receive a world-class blowjob from you), then believe me when I say that you can’t mess this up.

Anything that you say (yes, even if you fumble your words a bit) will be appreciated and arousing. You are not aiming for perfection – you’re aiming for participation. In other words, just the fact that you’re attempting to engage in dirty talk during your blowjob will mean a lot to him.

Got it? Good.

Onwards.

Remember, Calibration Is Key

When it comes to talking dirty during a blowjob, you always want to make sure you’re using words that feel correct for you.

For the genitals themselves? Some women feel more comfortable saying penis. Others prefer dick. Others still lean towards cock.

As for what you call your man? You might lead with ‘my love,’ ‘baby’, ‘daddy’, or simply your partner’s actual name. Or any other nickname that feels most loving, or erotic, for the both of you.

Whatever words you choose to go with, make sure that you feel comfortable saying them… and that you know your partner loves hearing them.

Okay, ready for the specific dirty phrases you can say during blowjobs? Let’s get into it.

I have broken up the blowjob dirty talk into four separate categories. Things you can say before the blowjob, things you can say during the blowjob, things you can say leading up to the end of the blowjob, and things to say right after the blowjob.

It’s important to note that you don’t need to say things during all three phases. You can pick and choose your favourite dirty talk phrases, and you will likely also lean towards speaking more during one of the three phases of the blowjob. Which is all good! Follow your intuition for what feels most natural for you, timing wise.

Blowjob Dirty Talk: What To Say Leading Up To A Blowjob

The main benefit of dirty talking leading up to a blowjob is that it makes the act that much more exciting. This is like the foreplay of warming up his mind (with excitement) before you even physically touch him.

Pick a few of your favourite phrases from the following list, and bring them to your next blowjob session.

– I can’t wait to put your cock in my mouth.

– I’m looking forward to wrapping my mouth around your cock.

– I want to feel your cock in my mouth.

– You really have the most perfect cock.

– I’m really hungry for some of your cum.

– Can you take out your perfect cock for me? I want to admire it before I take it into my mouth.

– I’m getting wet just thinking about putting your cock in my mouth.

– I know I’m supposed to be working/watching this show/enjoying this meal (whatever activity you’re doing), but all I can think about is how much I want to suck your cock tonight

– I want to taste your cum so badly.

– We’re not leaving here until I have your cum in my mouth.

– We’re not done here until I have your cum in my mouth.

Blowjob Dirty Talk: What To Say During A Blowjob

Dirty talk during a blowjob is an amplifier of arousal.

However turned on he is… however much he is aroused by the physical act you’re doing, it will be multiplied when you throw in a few sexy phrases here and there. You want to think of your blowjob dirty talk like a spice in a meal. Just a little bit goes a long way.

Here are some things you can say during the blowjob.

– Do you like it when I go slow like this?

– I love hearing you moan.

– I love the sounds you’re making.

– Mmm… I love the way you taste.

– I love the way you feel in my mouth.

– Does that feel good?

– I can barely fit your big cock in my mouth. I wish I could fit it all.

– I’ll let you do whatever you want to me.

– I love sucking your cock so much.

– You can fuck my face as much as you want.

– I love the way you look at me.

– You can make me gag as much as you want.

– I’m such a little whore for you.

– You have such a perfect cock.

– This is my cock. Mine alone.

– I love feeling your hard cock in my mouth.

– You own my mouth.

– Show me who owns this pretty little mouth.

– This mouth belongs to you.

– My mouth is all yours, forever.

– You can fuck my mouth for long as you want to, baby.

– Mmm, I love this… I could do this all night.

– Do I look like a good little slut with your cock in my mouth?

– I love how much you love watching me suck your cock.

– I’ll let you cum wherever you want to.

– Where would you like to cum today, my love?

– I can’t wait to feel you shoot all of your cum into my mouth.

– Whenever you’re ready, I want you to shoot your entire load into my mouth. And then don’t worry about a thing, I’ll take care of it all.

Blowjob Dirty Talk: What To Say Near The End Of The Blowjob

In the minutes or seconds leading up to the climax of the blowjob, you have extra permission to kick it up a notch and be extra explicit.

His body and mind will be in a state of peak arousal, and so you’ll want your dirty talk to match the intensity of feeling that he’s experiencing.

Try on a few of the following explicit phrases, and see how well he reacts.

– I want you to feed me all of your cum.

– I want to taste it.

– Please, give it to me.

– I want you to fuck my face until you cum.

– I want you to jerk off all over me like you own me.

– Yes, I want you to cum.

– Yes, cum all over me.

– Give me your cum, daddy.

– Yes, just let it all go.

– Give me every last drop.

Dirty Talk To Say Right After A Blowjob

You might think that after he ejaculates, the opportunity for dirty talk is over. But that isn’t necessarily the case.

Like the cherry on top of an ice cream sundae, you can give him one last boost of pleasure after he’s cum. I’ve heard many men say that a few of the following sentences are the hottest they’ve ever heard from their partner, so I’m passing them on to you.

For this part of the blowjob, less is definitely more. Choose one (maybe two) of the following phrases, and bust it out after the next blowjob you give your man. I promise you he’ll never forget it.

– Yum!

– Mmm.. thank you.

– That was fun.

– That was delicious.

– Your cum tastes so good.

– That was perfect. Thanks for letting me do that.

That’s It! You Did It!

Congratulations! You made it!

Remember, there’s a lot of potential options to mix and match with on this page, so the best thing you can do is keep it simple.

Pick your handful of favourite lines, write them down on a notepad (or on your phone), or simply bookmark this page for later and keep coming back and reading it, and in no time at all, your blowjob dirty talk skills will be on a whole new level.

If you want to dig into a deeper resource and really take your holistic blowjob game to the next level, I highly recommend checking out the Queen of Blowjobs course that my wife and I recently created together. Over 1,000+ women from all over the world have been through it and experienced amazing benefits as a result.

Wishing you (and your lucky man) all the best in the coming days!

Dedicated to your success,

Jordan

Ps. If you enjoyed this article, you will also love checking out:

Queen of Blowjobs (video course for women, on how to give a life-changing, love-increasing, world-class blowjob)

Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners

83 Dirty Talk Phrases That Drive Men Wild

The Ultimate Sexting Guide: 100+ Sexy Texts To Turn Them On Like Crazy

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