In this article, you’ll discover 171 examples of submissive dirty talk phrases you can use in your sex life.
Some phrases are more gentle, vanilla, and soft (easier for beginners), and others are more advanced and naughty. Regardless of if you’re brand new to Dom/sub play or if you’re an experienced veteran, there’s something for everyone on this page.
And remember, just like there isn’t just one kind of D/s play or dynamics, there isn’t just one way of utilizing submissive dirty talk.
Some subs are more sweet, loving, and sensual. And others are more bratty, intense, and fiery. So no matter what, some calibration will need to be done.
For instance, some of the phrases below use names like daddy, sir, or master. Whatever default name you and your Dominant use for each other is entirely up to you, so feel free to swap out certain words so that they work ideally for you and your partner. Calibration is key!
Treat it like a Vegas-style buffet… take what you need, and leave the rest.
Remember, the best thing about dirty talk is that the right words can turn up the heat like nothing else.
Without further ado, let’s get into the submissive dirty talk phrases, so you and your Dom can start supercharging your sex life!
Submissive Dirty Talk: 171 Things To Say To Your Man During Sex
Submissive Things To Text Your Man
While it is super sexy to say things during the moment, it’s just as sexy to build anticipation by alluding to things you will be doing (or want to be doing) later on that day.
Get your daddy / Dom / master’s engine revving by texting him any of the following phrases before you meet up in person.
By the time he sees you, he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you.
– I can’t wait to please you tonight, sir
– I can’t wait to serve you
– I’m so excited to wrap myself around your beautiful, thick cock
– I’m all yours tonight
– I can’t wait to get on my knees for you later tonight
– You can do whatever you want with me tonight
– I’ve been a bad girl today. I need you to spank the naughty out of me.
– I’m turning myself on… thinking about all of the bad things I want you to do to me later
– Nothing pleases me more than pleasing you / satisfying you completely
– I belong to you
– You own me
– I’m at your mercy tonight
– I’m all yours to play with
– I crave your discipline
– I’m so excited for you to do whatever you want to me tonight
– I can’t wait to feel your cock pounding into me tonight
– I’m desperate to feel your cock throbbing inside me
– I can’t wait to be spread open and used by you
– I can’t wait to feel your weight on me tonight
– Is there anything special you’d like from me tonight, master?
– I’m ready for my instructions
– I’m ready for your instructions
– Anything in particular you want me to wear for you tonight, daddy?
– I’m ready for whatever you decide for me
– I’m touching myself, thinking of you…
– I want to do such a good job for you tonight, sir
– I trust you daddy
– I’m ready to obey
– I’m aching to be your naughty little slut
– I’ll do my best to make you proud
– I love the thought of kneeling before you and slobbering all over your gorgeous cock
– My holes are aching to be filled by you
– I live to please you
– I’ve been a bad / naughty girl, haven’t I?
– I’m going to take such good care of you tonight
– I can hardly wait for tonight
– (With photo) Do you like these panties on me?
– (With photo) Do you like this outfit on me?
– I’ll be naked and ready to please you when you get home
– I won’t cum until you say I can
– I’m trying to focus on (whatever it is you’re doing in the day time)… but all I can think about is your gorgeous cock and how excited I am to please it tonight
– I’m so excited to serve you tonight, sir
– How can I please you today?
– Use me however you please
– My pussy / neck / ass is trembling thinking about what you’re going to do to me later
– I’m lying down on the couch… soaking wet… ready for you to come home and fill me with cum
– I love pleasing you so much. It is my favorite thing in the entire world.
Submissive Dirty Talk Phrases To Say Before Sex
Want to kick things up a notch right before the act?
Whether you’re teasing him with your outfit or just wanting to add a bit of unexpected spice to the mix, use any of the following phrases leading up to sex in order to really blow his mind.
– Am I your good girl?
– Please tell me I’m your good girl
– Do you like my outfit, daddy?
– Do my breasts please you, daddy?
– May I please you?
– How may I please you?
– I am in your hands
– I want to earn your praise
– You make me feel so safe
– I feel so safe with you
– Your pleasure / happiness / satisfaction is my reward
– I submit to your will
– I want you to make me beg for it
– Your wish is my command
– I am yours to command
– I’m just X (a dirty little slut, a naughty whore, a little brat)… and I’m only good for Y (coming in, bringing you pleasure, being stretched open by your big cock, etc.)
– Please? (when asking for anything)
– I’m here to serve you
– May I…?
– Please, please, please put your cock in me… I promise I’ll be good / I’ll behave / I will please it well
– I’m here for your pleasure
– Thank you for guiding me
– Please tell me how I can improve for you sir / daddy / master
– I’m desperate to taste you
– I hope I can please you
– I love being in this pose for you, sir
– You’re in charge, sir / daddy / master
– I feel honored to serve this beautful cock
– Am I worthy of your perfect cock?
– I just can’t help but get wet around you, daddy
– You’re so much smarter than me, sir / daddy / master
– I’m such a messy little slut for you
– I’ll behave
– I’ll do whatever you say, master
– Sorry for being so naughty, daddy
– I’ll do better
– I love worshipping you
– I’m just your little fuck toy
– I trust you completely
– I am entirely yours
– As you wish
– I need you
– I’ll try harder
– Yes sir / daddy / master
– I only exist for your pleasure
Submissive Dirty Talk Phrases To Say During Sex
Alright, now we’re getting into the naughtier stuff.
Maybe you’re on your knees. Maybe you’re servicing him manually or orally. Or perhaps he’s already inside of you.
When you’re in full-on being sexual with each other mode, it’s time to pull out the big guns.
Use any of the following phrases and see his head spin with delight.
– Am I pleasing you, sir?
– I love pleasing you
– I love servicing you
– I’m yours
– Use me
– I love serving you
– Take whatever you need from me
– You own me
– I want it so badly, sir
– Thank you for punishing me
– I deserve to be punished
– I’m your dirty little cock slut sir / daddy / master
– You own my pussy
– I love it when you choke me and call me your little slut
– These are your holes
– My holes belong to you
– My pussy belongs to you
– You are stretching me out so good
– Tell me I’m a good girl
– Yes, fill me up
– Yes, fill me all the way up
– I’m taking you all the way in… are you proud of me sir / daddy / master?
– I don’t know how to do that / I’ve never done that before… can you teach me how/tell me what to do?
– Are you proud of me, sir?
– Look at how good I am at taking your cock
– Yes, make me your dirty little cum slut
– I want to please you forever, daddy
– I’ll only cum when you say so
– I’ll only cum when you tell me to, daddy
– Do whatever you want to me
– Will you let me touch my pussy?
– Does it please you when I touch myself?
– I’m such a dirty little whore for you
– I’m so wet for you
– Sorry for trying to cum before you told me to… I’m such a greedy little slut
– Forgive me
– I’m your greedy little slut
– Forgive me for being such a greedy little slut
– I won’t stop until you tell me to, sir
– I’m daddy’s / sir’s / master’s whore
– My worthless little holes only exist for your pleasure
– My pleasure belongs to you
– The only thing I’m good for is taking your cum
– My slutty little pussy only exists for you to fuck, sir
– I want to feel your hot cum inside of me
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Submissive Things To Say When He’s Coming
If he’s about to cum soon, you’ll want to try out some of these submissive dirty talk phrases.
Depending on your man, there’s likely somewhere between a 10-60 second window where you can throw in some really next-level dirty talk.
So pick your favorites from the following list, and surprise him with them the next time he’s mid-climax.
– Yes, daddy, give me all your cum
– Give it all to me
– Yes, all over me
– Yes baby, that’s it
– I want to be filled with your cum
– Yes, take it
– Thank you
– Cum in me, please
– Yes, fill me with cum
– Get me pregnant
– I’m such a good slut for daddy
– Yes, cum for me, I’m your good little whore
– Give me every last drop
– Yes, milk your balls empty all over me
– Yes, let it all go
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Sexy, Submissive Things To Say After Sex
Alright, so he’s had his orgasm. Hopefully you’ve both had your orgasms. Now what?
In the post-coital after-glow, when you’re all tangled up and blissed out, what should you say?
Depending on if you’re trying to go for sweet, sassy, loving, or naughty, there’s something for every sub in the following list.
– Mmm… thank you
– That was perfect
– Please sir / daddy / master, may I swallow your cum?
– I love the way you taste
– I love the way your cum tastes
– You really do spoil me, sir / daddy / master
– You spoil me so well
– Can I polish you off?
– May I taste myself on your gorgeous cock?
– That was amazing
– Wow, that was incredible
– I love it when you cum hard inside me… makes me feel completely owned by you
– May I clean you up?
– I’ll be your good little slut for life, daddy
– I feel so lucky to get to be fucked so well by you
– That was so hot
– That was one of the strongest orgasms I’ve ever had
– I’m speechless
– Did I make you feel good, daddy? Do you need anything else?
– Are you pleased, sir?
– I’m yours forever
What Now?
Well, congratulations! You made it!
With this new and improved arsenal of submissive dirty talk at your disposal, you’re just moments away from an even hotter sex life.
If you’re the kind of person who’s always searching for the next level in life and looking for more to dig into, I’ve got you covered.
There are a few things I have for you to check out.
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Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
Ps. Did you enjoy this article on submissive dirty talk? Great! Next, I would highly recommend checking out the following resources:
– Queen of Blowjobs (video program for women, on how to give him the best blowjob of his entire life, guaranteed)
– Bring Him To God: Advanced Handjob Mastery For Women (course for women, on giving him life-changing handjobs)
– Eternal Glow (program for women on how to experience the best sex of your life)
– Blowjob Dirty Talk: 55 Sexy Things To Say While Giving Head
– Handjob Dirty Talk: 97 Sexy Things To Say During A HJ
– Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners (116 Examples)
– Loving Dirty Talk: Loving Words To Say During Sex (55 Phrases)
