Want to give your man the gift of a morning blowjob, but you’re not sure where to begin?
You’re not alone.
It might seem as simple as “When it’s morning time, but his penis in your mouth.” But there’s actually a lot to consider when it comes to giving a world-class morning blowjob.
And really, there are two kinds of morning blowjobs.
Morning blowjobs that you wake him up with, and blowjobs that just happen to occur in the morning.
Today, I’m going to give you every tool you need to ensure it’s the best experiences he’s ever had. And not just by a little, but by a lot. Truly, you will be in a category of one.
Ready to become a morning blowjob sex master?
Let’s get into it.
The Necessary Precursor To Any Amazing Morning Blowjob
Before we dig into all of the sexy tips, we have to touch on a vital aspect that has to take place before any morning blowjobs can go down.
That necessary ingredient… *drum roll please*…. is consent.
With the default societal messaging about men being what it is, it would be easy to assume that any man would be thrilled with getting his penis surprise-sucked by his loving girlfriend/wife/partner.
And while that assumption is likely based in a lot of truth (the majority of men probably would love for this to happen), it isn’t something to take for granted.
Before giving out any morning blowjobs, you want to make sure that this is something that appeals to your man, individually.
For some men, there could be no greater gift!
But for others, this surprise gift could register as stressful, or even unwanted.
So whether you’re in a long-term relationship or marriage with your man, or you’ve been dating for a few weeks, you want to make sure that you have the conversation first.
It can be nice and simple. Just ask him, point blank, “Is me waking you up with a blowjob something that sounds fun? Would you like that?”
If his eyes light up and he enthusiastically says, “That would absolutely make my day… yes, you can wake me up with a blowjob literally whenever you want to,” then you’ve officially got your green light.
Now, even with blanket consent like this, there are still specific things to consider, day to day. But we’ll get more into that below.
The Two Main Types Of Morning Blowjobs
There are two primary types of morning blowjobs.
There’s the morning blowjobs you wake him up with, and blowjobs that just happen to occur in the morning (after he’s already awake).
Further on in this article, I’ll give you all of the tools you need to make both of these two morning blowjob pathways as sexy as possible (because yes, there are different things you need to consider for each one).
Benefits Of Morning Blowjobs
Morning blowjobs offer many benefits. Some of the biggest ones are:
– Depending on his age and hormonal health, he might already be erect (morning wood) when you go down on him.
– Connecting sexually early in the day will put both of you in a great mood.
– It’s a huge boost of oxytocin (the closeness hormone, aka the cuddle hormone) for both of you to be sexual early in the morning.
– It gives him a super sexy visual to keep thinking of throughout the rest of his day.
– Orgasms are a huge stress reliever, so no matter what he faces throughout the rest of his day, he’ll be in a better position to meet his challenges head on and slay the metaphorical dragons for you.
Challenges With Morning Blowjobs: Things To Watch Out For
When it comes to morning blowjobs, there’s also a few things you need to be mindful of.
– You might wake up with a full bladder and need to excuse yourself to the bathroom first.
– If your man is a light sleeper, you might need to move slowly and gently as to not wake him up before the act begins.
– If your man defaults to sleeping on his stomach, you might have to wait for a few days until you can do the deed and simply pray that you’ll wake up when he’s on his back or side (and facing towards you).
– Morning breath! But don’t worry, I have a few tips for managing this further on in this article.
– If he always wakes up for you/is more of a morning person than you are, you may need to get creative about ensuring that you wake up before he does (again, no need to worry, as I have some tips for this below).
Alright, with our more well-rounded awareness of the things to watch out for, let’s get into the brass-tacks tips of how to take your morning blowjob game into the territory of legend-status.
How To Prepare Yourself For A Morning Blowjob
Okay, now, regardless of whether this is a blowjob you’re waking him up with as opposed to a blowjob that just happens to be in the morning, there are some things you’ll want to make sure are in place.
First…
Consider Your Timing
Make sure he isn’t hungover. Make sure that he isn’t going to be in a rush that morning. Weekends are usually best because those mornings tend to be the most spacious.
If your man tends to go to bed with clothes on (underwear, pajamas, etc.), you might want to encourage him to try going to bed naked for the week. Morning blowjobs are far easier when you don’t have to shimmy any clothing off of his sleeping body. A flirty, innocent bat of the eyes with a simple, “Hey babe, remember that thing we talked about the other day? Maybeeee you should go to bed naked this week and just see what happens.” He’ll know what you’re referring to, and he will love the positive anticipation of knowing what’s coming to him.
If he tends to wake up before you do, you may need to either set a super quiet alarm (or an alarm that just vibrates near your side of the bed) to wake up before him.
And if you have kids who stay up late and/or wake up early in the morning, you might need to wake him up in the middle of the night with the blowjob. Yes, middle of the night sex (while it’s still dark out) can be incredibly hot.
It’s also important to note that there may be a lag between when you want to do it and when you can do it – based on his horniness levels, based on you knowing he has a few minutes and you’re not super rushed that morning, based on you waking up first, based on him laying on his back or his side as opposed to laying on his stomach.
Next…
Notice How You Feel
It is possible that you might not feel the sexiest in the morning (morning breath, full bladder, crusties on the sides of your half-open eyes, dried drool on one of your cheeks, hair a mess, etc.). The solution? Have a few quick interventions on deck to help yourself feel better.
If your man’s a light sleeper, have a glass of water on your bedside table, and/or a breath mint to take the edge off the morning breath without having to leave the bed. Also, you can have a nearby hair-tie, scrunchy, or something cute to hold your hair back with.
And bonus points, if he’s a heavier sleeper and you think you can get away with it without waking him up, make a quick trip to the bathroom first to gussy yourself up a bit. You can brush your teeth, empty your bladder, do a light version of your hair and makeup routine. The sky’s the limit!
Finally…
The Approach
Generally, you want to approach your man as slowly and gently as possible, so that by the time he’s fully woken up, he’s already in your mouth.
As he starts to wake up more and realize what’s happening, go slow, to make sure he’s into it. Even if he gave you blanket consent, it is a possibility that this isn’t the best timing for a morning blowjob for him (for example, maybe he doesn’t want to cum right now because he’s got a big presentation tomorrow and he wants to save his energy for it). If you notice him being hesitant, you can verbally check in with him. A simple “Good morning, my love,” or “How are you this morning?” can be enough of a check in to make sure he wants you to continue.
Whether he’s hard or not to begin with doesn’t matter, just put him in your mouth and start doing your thing. Unless he’s the world’s heaviest sleeper, believe me, he’ll wake up.
Next, we’ll dig into different advanced considerations based on the kind of morning blowjob you’re carrying out.
5 Ways To Master Morning Blowjobs That You Wake Him Up With
For a morning blowjob that you wake him up with, these are some of the sexiest things you can do as options for different sex-sessions.
1. The Generous Stranger
For this experience, you go under the covers and stay there for the entire duration of the blowjob.
One of the most erotic aspects of this is that he knows that it’s you, but it feels naughty and slightly anonymous because he doesn’t have any visual of you. Similar to how blindfolding our partners can heighten their sense of pleasure because they can feel it but can’t see it.
In terms of your comfort, this one will most likely be a lot easier if it’s either fairly cold in the room (and so you warming up under the covers for 5-10 minutes isn’t an issue), or you have airflow by lifting the covers at his feet.
2. Easy Does It
If your blowjobs tend to be quicker, you can experiment with going slowly, gently, and leading with more of a teasing energy.
From his perspective, being woken up with a blowjob (at a pace that he isn’t normally used to from you) will have an almost dream-line quality to it, and letting it build up longer than you normally do will kick his pleasure into high-gear.
3. The Double Surprise
This one is a real doozie, and will be especially relevant if your man is a heavier sleeper (or, at least, not an overly light sleeper).
For the double surprise, you go under the covers and start blowing him, and when you can tell that he’s definitely awake (by his movements, his breathing, the fact that he’s speaking or moaning, etc.), lift the covers off of yourself and reveal the sexy visual thing you’ve done to yourself. This could be the fact that you’ve done your hair and makeup in a way that he likes, or you could even be in a sexy outfit or lingerie set that he’s never seen you in before.
From his perspective, not only has he woken up to incredible oral pleasure from his favourite person, but she has also put in the effort to have a new look that you know that he loves!? It’s simply too much for words. Watch up trip over himself for the coming weeks to find a million ways to do any and every nice little thing for you, his captivating, cherished woman.
4. The Voracious Vixen
For this morning blowjob, you want to start off slow and gentle until you know he’s awake, and then, when you know he’s awake, go at it vigorously. Be wet and sloppy and do whatever it takes to make him cum as quickly as you can.
Do this, and you (the cum-hungry, voracious taker of his penis) will have him melt into a puddle in no time.
5. Two Ships Passing In The Night
If you rarely wake up before him, or have kids that are up late/early, this one’s for you.
Morning blowjobs don’t have to take place exclusively in the morning. For the majority of men, it isn’t the fact that he’s being blown in the morning that matters. But rather, it’s about being woken up with his penis already in your mouth.
So for this one, you simply wake him up in the middle of the night (think 2am, 3am, etc., aka, while it is still dark out) with a blowjob.
For some couples who have children, this can sometimes be the only time they can guarantee uninterrupted sex. So take advantage of it! Sure, you might both be a little sleepy the next day, but it’ll be completely worth it.
7 Ways To Master Morning Blowjobs That Just So Happen To Be In The Morning
Here are some next-level morning blowjob tips for blowjobs that just so happen to occur in the morning. In other words, you don’t wake him up with these ones. They are just in the morning.
And don’t worry. These blowjob tips are just as (if not more) powerful. And your man will absolutely adore you for doing any of these.
1. The B&B Special
Move over bed and breakfast… it’s time for blowjob and breakfast!
When he emerges from his slumber into the kitchen, you surprise him with an already-made breakfast (his favourite!). Then, you invite him to sit down and start eating it, while you go down on him.
I promise, he won’t soon forget this amazing gesture.
2. Beat The Clock
Make him his favourite hot breakfast and as it cools, suck his cock before he starts eating.
Can you imagine someone making you your favourite breakfast, orally pleasuring you, and then right after you cum, you begin eating? Yeah, neither can your man. He’ll say things like, “What is even happening right now,” and “Have I died and gone to heaven?” while it’s happening.
3. Blow N’ Go
First, have him sit down on the coach/in a comfy spot. Then, give him a quick blowjob. And then right after he finishes, you get up and start making him his favourite breakfast.
The less of a big deal you make of it, the more of a mind-melter it will be for him.
4. Rise And Shine
Did you know that getting sunlight on your skin within the first hour of waking is good for us? Well, it is!
You can take advantage of this fact by doing the following.
Do you and your man live in a more rural setting and/or don’t have any neighbours? If so, this one is for you. Lead him outside and give him his morning blowjob while you both get the rising sun on your bodies. Obviously, do this at a time of year where you can both be comfortably naked without getting too hot/cold.
5. Wash, Wash, Oh My Gosh!
Is your man a morning shower person? Great!
If he showers in the morning and isn’t in a rush one day, surprise him by joining him.
Shower sex can be challenging to pull off. You don’t want the water flowing down his body, over his cock, and into your mouth. But if you can position it so you both stay warm, this is a sexy option for both of you.
6. Towel Service
If your man showers in the morning, time his morning blowjob to happen right after he’s gotten out.
Position yourself just outside of the bathroom so that you can you hear the shower door open. That way, you’re primed and ready to enter the room, and surprise him by taking him into your mouth.
And if you’re really a thoughtful, loving overachiever? You can time a warm towel to come out of the dryer so that when he exits the shower, you enter the bathroom with the toasty-warm towel, hand it to him to drape over his shoulders, and then give him the hottest, most surprising blowjob of his life.
Whatever he originally had scheduled for the rest of the day, it’ll be overshadowed by continuously thinking thoughts of you being the best girlfriend/wife/partner that has ever existed.
7. Oh Please, Don’t Let Me Distract You
Does your man work from home? Can he do some of his work remotely? Or, does he often plan his day ahead of time? If you can say yes to any of these three questions, great!
Lead him somewhere comfortable, tell him to start planning his day/doing his work, and then do your thing.
Tell him you see how hard he’s been working lately, and that you want to help him destress.
But encourage him to actually focus on doing his task. There’s a sexy Dom/sub energy you want to flirt with as you tell him to focus on the task at hand, while you offer him up the most distracting thing possible (an incredible blowjob).
You Did It!
Alright, I hope that you enjoyed this article on becoming a next-level master at morning blowjobs.
Whether you’ve already given a fair share of morning blowjobs, or you’re dipping your toe in for the first time, I trust that you learned something new and useful from this resource.
If you haven’t already, I recommend checking out Queen of Blowjobs, a video series my wife Demetra and I created.
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I look forward to hearing about the success you have with it once you’ve gone through it, too.
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Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
Ps. Did you enjoy this piece on morning blowjobs? Great! Then you’ll also love checking out the following resources:
– Queen of Blowjobs (video series for women, on how to give him the best blowjob of his entire life)
– 47 Best Blow Job Tips That Make Him Worship You
– The 12 Sexiest Positions For Blowjobs (With Photos)
– 18 Sexiest Handjob Positions To Blow His Mind (With Photos)
