Want to make him so turned on he’s biting his lip and squirming? Implementing these super sexy blowjob positions is a quick way to do exactly that.
A blowjob is a great sexual tool to stoke his arousal, or your own, and create a specific energy. But like any tool, it can be used ineffectively and not achieve maximum results. To get the most out of it, it helps to bring some tactical intention into your approach and focus on the bigger picture of the experience. This is where these blowjob positions come in.
Here’s a blowjob secret:
On blind sensation alone, blowjobs don’t feel THAT amazing.
If your focus is purely on stimulating his cock, you’re missing out on key factors that hold most of the potential in making blowjobs phenomenal (this is where these blowjob positions come in).
The biggest thing that makes blowjobs hot for him is the energy you bring to it. But a close second is the shape, curves, and appearance of your body. He wants to visually admire you, and see you and touch you in all your beautiful, naked glory.
Many of these blowjob positions will serve the purpose of providing a feast for the eyes, as well as the hands, since sight and touch are important triggers to get his engine revving.
A few other positions will emphasize the power dynamic of blowjobs, which is another crucial ingredient in what makes certain blowjobs erotic. Depending on the position, blowjobs can put the man in an energetic place of power, and the woman in one of servitude.
Call it old-fashioned, but there’s something undeniably sexy about this feeling. I know even more women than men who are vocal about loving it.
12 Sexy Blowjob Positions That Will Take His Breath Away
Use this list as a bread-and-butter base from which to explore other shapes and positions. Experiment, explore, and invent. Just remember: layer the arousal factor by finding ways to show off your goods and provide touchable areas in the process.
With that, here is my list of the twelve sexiest blowjob positions.
1. The Standard Blow Job
This is the ‘missionary’ of blowjob positions. The man lies on his back and the woman is between his legs, facing him directly. While it’s not acrobatic or wildly novel, it is downright sexy in the right moments. In this position, he can’t touch much of you besides your head. But this emphasizes the feeling of being intentionally serviced, rather than mutually stimulated. If you want your partner to feel more like it’s just for him, this is a good option.
The woman can accentuate her curves and turn up the visual arousal by taking a variation of the yoga position “child’s pose” (yeah, not an ideal name for this context, I know). Rather than laying down on her belly, she can start from a kneeling position, then lean all the way forward, lifting her ass up in the air to show off the curves of her butt, hips, and waist.
This visual will drive him wild and make him wish he was behind you with his face buried in you, or penetrating in doggy style. Chances are, he will jump up and pounce you from behind at some point shortly after. Being able to quickly transition to cowgirl or doggy style when he reaches his boiling point is another benefit to this shape.
2. The Pivot
Starting from the standard position, the woman pivots 90 degrees in either direction, so her body is perpendicular to his. This brings the rest of her body within arms reach. He can more easily access her breasts, arms, ass, back, or even manually stimulate her, if he so desires.
This extra layer of visual stimulation turns the notch way up on the hotness dial. It shows off your body from a whole new angle and gives him a feast for the eyes.
This position can also be used strategically to tease and incrementally build his arousal, step by step, to increase the impact of the experience. Like a striptease, it slowly reveals more and more, and closes the distance between the two of you over time.
Starting in The Standard position creates space between the two of you and the opportunity to build up from there. Transitioning into The Pivot brings you a little closer and brings more of your body into view, while offering a little bit more tactile sensation by touch and playing with what is accessible. To continue the trend, take it one step further by moving into the next position…
3. 69’ing
The 69 is the crème de la crème of mutual oral pleasure. Most often, the man lays on his back with the woman on top of him, inverted, with her knees above his shoulders and her head at his cock. This way, each person has oral access to the others’ genitals.
This can also be flipped so the man is on top, or rolled over so both people are laying on their sides. Every person and couple will usually find one variation hotter than the others. Find your preference and dive in!
This position has it all. If I could choose to die in any situation, this would be it. If he’s also an ass man, he’ll be on cloud 9. Seriously… he gets to lap up your pussy while encased in a juicy set of thighs.
He can squeeze and stroke your ass, grab your breasts, AND gets his dick sucked at the same time. Repeatedly, I’m rendered speechless by just how fucking hot 69’ing can be.
That said, you have to be set up well for maximum impact.
Squeeze all the potential juice out of 69’ing as possible by gradually working up to it.
There’s a LOT happening here. Capitalize on that by working up to it in sequence from the last two positions, rather than diving right in. Transitioning through these first three positions on the list is a perfect 3-step process to gradually get him worked up to maximum arousal.
If you have a favourite vibrator or dildo, this is an ideal opportunity to let him use it on you. Feeling you panting and squirming will create an upward spiralling feedback loop and shoot the hotness factor through the roof.
4. King’s Chair
This position adds the nice element of a subtle power dynamic. The man sits up in a chair, with the woman on her knees between his legs. Like The Standard, this position doesn’t offer as much to touch and explore (although, arguably easier access to touching your breasts). But the arousal factor comes much more from the look and energy of the position.
The woman kneeling lower down subtly but palpably emphasizes the feeling of service from the woman to the man. It makes him feel powerful and catered to – like a king. If you’re in the mood to honour your man, this blowjob position is a good way to do it.
Like 69’ing, this position is also another one where the woman using a vibrator at the same time is especially incredibly sexy. Explore his thighs and chest with your hands at the same time for additional holistic pleasure.
5. Standing Service Blowjob
Like King’s Chair, this position leverages a subtle power dynamic. The man stands fully upright, while the woman is on her knees in front of him. This is a good base from which the man can provide direction and further amplify the implicit Dom/sub polarity.
He can choose to alternate between passively receiving stimulation and actively creating it by thrusting into her mouth. Of course, you would have to consent to this, and how aggressively you’re comfortable with him thrusting is up to you.
I commonly hear women say they feel this is the most erotic and sexy position for them. There’s something about feeling used for his pleasure that is a massive turn on for certain women.
He will likely enjoy this one for the same reasons. On his end, it feels like a powerful position, and the view is great from above. Focusing on maintaining eye contact will drive him extra wild. Having him ejaculate on your chest (or face, but careful with the eyes) is extra hot from this vantage point too.
6. Doggy Style
This is essentially the classic doggy style position for full penetration, but with the woman turned around to use her mouth instead of vagina. The man is on his knees with the woman on her hands and knees in front of him.
A doggy style blowjob is a good pit stop between penetration to mix up the energy. It provides a humping break, and top up the charge of arousal.
If he moves his hips back slightly, he will also be able to switch to a more active, thrusting mode, (if you’re into it).
7. The Lie Back
This is the first position on the list where the man really has full control, and the woman has a more passive role. Here, the woman lies on her back, with her head hanging off the side of the bed. The man stands at the edge of the bed and basically penetrates her mouth and throat as if he was fucking her normally.
Of all of these blowjob positions, this one is the best for deep throating. But it may not be for you if you have a particularly sensitive gag reflex. That said, you can still communicate and enjoy this position with him just staying in the front area of your mouth.
Many women tend to say they feel vulnerable in the Lie Back position, and will only fully let go and enjoy it with someone they deeply trust. Let him know up front what you’re open to, and communicate how you’re feeling in the moment.
Pro tip: by keeping one or both of your hands on his thighs, you can also guide the depth of his penetration and/or communicate non-verbally about your moment to moment comfort level with what’s happening. Tactile feedback is a good workaround for communication during this more vulnerable position.
8. The Lazy Pivot
This is another shape that accentuates the woman’s curves – especially her hips and ass. The man lays on his back with the woman laying perpendicular to him, on her side. It’s similar to The Pivot, but with her laying down and facing away from him (or towards him).
In this blowjob position, he can easily grab your ass, see the curve of your hip, and enjoy the shape of your body from behind (you can either face him or face away from him).
In the occasion that you don’t feel sturdy or comfortable balancing on one hand, or simply want to use both your hands to stimulate his cock, or any other area, lying on your side allows you to relax your body while opening up more options to add layers of stimulation.
9. The Full Moon
Of all of the blowjob positions, this is one of the most butt-featuring ones. If your man loves your butt, definitely keep this on your go-to list.
For this blowjob position, you simply kneel on either side of his body, with your face pointing towards his feet and your butt close to his face.
10. The London Bridge
For this position, your man props himself up on his knees, with some space between his legs, and you lay yourself underneath him, with your face underneath his genitals.
In this pose, you have easy access to his balls which you can lick or suck while you touch him.
This position also makes it super easy for your man to ejaculate on your breasts and/or stomach when he cums, so if that appeals to either/both of you, then that would also be a benefit of this particular position.
11. The Milking Table
This is the only one of the 12 blow job positions that requires specialized equipment. You can purchase a milking table for a couple hundred dollars to several thousand dollars from any high end sex store or specialized online shop.
The milking table is essentially like a lay-down glory hole, but it allows him to relax more fully while you blow him from beneath the table.
As the blowjob-provider in this position, do whatever you need to to get as comfortable as possible. Use as many pillows as you need so that you can engage in this one for as long as you need to.
12. The Tittyfuck
For the breast-loving men out there, tittyfucking is a real winner.
The visual (and the idea) of your breasts being incorporated into the sexual play is very hot.
You can take turns stimulating him with your mouth and then your breasts, or if you’re particularly flexible and/or well endowed in the chest, you can stimulate him with your mouth and breasts simultaneously.
If your man adores your breasts, this particular blowjob position should be a regular in your sexual routine.
(Want to learn how to fall in love with giving blowjobs? Check out this bonus video interview featuring my wife and I, from our Queen of Blowjobs program, on this exact topic.)
Blow Job Positions Are The Beginning, Now It’s Time For The Next Level…
There are several factors that make up a great blow job. Being aware of his point-of-view in each position and showing off your body are a big piece of the puzzle.
Pair this with the notes on your own mindset and energy in the Queen of Blowjobs video program to bring the two together and you’ll have the full arsenal at your disposal.
Think of these blowjob positions as a super sexy set of tools in your sexual tool bet.
Remember to work arousal dynamics by starting slow and creating some distance, then gradually giving him more to see and more to touch. Switch up the power dynamic with more “service-based” positions when the time is right.
Most of all – get playful and saucy, and have fun!
Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
Ps. Did you enjoy this article? Great! Then you’ll also love checking out:
– 18 Sexiest Handjob Positions To Blow His Mind
– The Ultimate Guide To Thigh Jobs (& 11 Sexy Thigh Job Positions)
– Queen of Blowjobs (video program for women who want to give life-changing oral sex to their man)
– Inside The Male Mind (video series for women)
