Hello! Jordan’s wife Demetra here.
I have a confession to make…
I used to hate giving blowjobs.
It felt like this annoying thing I was obligated to do, even though I didn’t want to.
I rolled my eyes with my friends about how it was this thing men expected from us.
I had experiences where men shoved my head down.
I often did it while thinking the whole time about how I wished it was over.
I felt tired of giving men pleasure when sex always seemed to be for them.
Giving blowjobs didn’t seem to be the act of an empowered woman.
I thought penises were kind of ugly and .. gross.
And on top of that, while guys *seemed* to enjoy it… I still felt like I didn’t really know what I was doing.
Everything changed for me when I realized what was getting in the way.
And after that, I suddenly heard things from men like… “Holy ****, that was the best blowjob I’ve ever had.”
And “How did you do that?!!”
I didn’t have to just believe their words… I could see it on their faces.
Not only did my man’s pleasure skyrocket… but my own did too. I started having orgasms and getting wet just from giving head. (?!! yes, really)
It’s a special kind of satisfaction to know that your man knows he could never be satisfied by anybody more than you.
So what changed?
Well, it was a combination of understanding the emotional blocks getting in the way, discovering two secrets to increasing pleasure, and learning the best techniques so I was completely in control of the whole experience.
I knew what would bring him to the edge, and bring him back down, no more guessing if he was about to come… I became totally in tune with his body, and I was thoroughly enjoying myself at the same time.
All of these are skills that are learnable… and they are the secrets I am going to share with you.
I wanted to spread this knowledge to other women… so four years ago, I held an event called Queen of Blowjobs. It was a massive hit, 400+ women joined, and I received messages like this one:
“So, I was definitely one of the lucky ones who experienced an IMMEDIATE shift. Like, wow wow wow wow. I asked him “thoughts” and he said “I have no words” and said I wiped him out and it was time for bed. It was amazing. For both of us. And so intimate and sexy and raw and beautiful. And I loved it. Thank you for your work.” – Danielle
My husband Jordan and I often talk about this event and how incredible it was… so this year, we decided to team up, make it even better, and create a full course together, teaching you how to become Queen of Blowjobs. (You’ll hear from Jordan below!)
This course is a combination of what we’ve both learned from coaching men and women around their sex lives, what I’ve learned from my lovers, Jordan’s experience as a man… and most importantly, my experience with knowing what emotions women need to integrate in order to make this shift.
This is especially for you if you feel the way I described at the beginning of this post.
– Anatomy and physical techniques
– How to reclaim the experience as your own
– How to make it incredibly pleasurable for yourself
– The blocks that get in the way and how to work with them
– The secret that made my partner go “… how did you do that??!!”
– How to be both technically skilled and deeply embodied, so you give him the best blowjob he’s ever had
Here’s a note from Jordan…