Ass job, butt job, intergluteal sex, rump-focused outercourse.
Whatever you call it, its essentially sliding a lubed up penis between butt cheeks.
Whether or not you’ve heard of it or tried it before, you can rest assured that many people love doing it!
Some people engage in assjobs because they’re huge fans of butts and the interaction turns them on. Some people engage in them because it requires less foreplay. And others do them just to try out something new and fun.
And today, you’re in for a treat! I’m going to show you (with drawings/pictures) 18 of the hottest assjob positions that you and your partner can try out.
3 Ways To Get The Most Out Of Your Assjob Sessions
I get it. Sliding a penis around a butt in a non-penetrative way seems pretty straightforward. But there’s a few things you’ll want to be aware of to get the most out of your sexual play.
1. Consider hygiene
Since you’ll be interacting closely with someone’s butthole, you’ll likely want to consider hygiene ahead of time. Most people will want a sparkling clean sphincter before starting an assjob. Of course, for some people, that will not appeal to them, and they are free to just jump right in.
But having a thorough shower, a bath, or a quick baby-wipe beforehand will make both parties feel more comfortable and free to engage without any hesitation.
2. Use lube
As with any form of outercourse (thighjob, titfuck, etc.) you’ll most likely want to use some form of lubricant, since butt’s don’t self-lubricate.
I would most recommend using a water-based lubricant, or refined coconut oil. But really, you can use any other form of lube or oil that works best for you both.
Depending on how much of a mess you’re going to be making, you might also want to set down a waterproof blanket (or some sheets you don’t care about getting dirty) before getting started.
3. Create friction in one of three ways
You can create/toggle/modulate the amount of pressure and friction in your assjobs in one of three ways.
The man can use his hand, the woman can use her hand, or you can use particular items of clothing to keep the penis close to the butt to create friction.
Depending on which assjob positions you’re engaging in, it will be easier for each person to use their hands, so calibrate as you see fit.
18 Sexiest Assjob Positions To Blow Him Away
Alright, without further ado, here are the eighteen assjob positions that you and your partner can try out.
You may have already tried out one or two of them, but there’s something for everyone in here, as different assjob positions appeal to different people who love different body parts the most.
Enjoy!
1. The Lapdance
For The Lapdance assjob position, the man sits on the edge of a bed/couch/chair and the woman stands with her back facing towards him.
The man can use his hand to press his penis forwards to create the friction, or the woman can use her bodyweight by leaning back and into him to create it.
If the man loves having his balls played with, this can be an easier position for the woman to reach back (between her/their legs) and fondle his testicles and scrotum.
2. The Backseat Driver
For the Backseat Driver position, the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him with her head near his head and her feet near his feet.
If the woman wants to be more active for this particular ass job position, she can put her feet on either side of him and create the friction. If she would prefer to be more passive and he would like to be more active, then she can straighten her legs, he can bend his legs, and he can be the one who does most of the work. Either way, this position feels incredible and also creates a lot of opportunities for kissing, breast fondling, and physical closeness.
3. The Power-Bottom
In the Power-Bottom position, the woman lies face down and the man straddles her while sitting upright. He then uses his hands to bring her butt cheeks together to increase the friction that gravity naturally takes away.
This assjob position is called the Power-Bottom because the positions of each person can lead to a more dominant/submissive dynamic, depending on how they’re engaged with.
If your man is an ass lover who loves to touch you, this one will likely be a top-of-the-list favorite.
4. The Turnaround Tease
In The Turnaround Tease, the man lies on his back and the woman straddles him while facing away from him, upright on her knees.
It’s like the reverse cowgirl position, but assjob style.
Again, the man can use his hand/hands to push his erection forwards to create the friction, the woman can reach back and use her hand to create it, or she can just sit down/press his penis into his lower abdomen to increase the pressure. And whether the woman stays upright, leans forwards and rests her hands on his shins, or leans backwards and rests her hands on his torso (so he can have an easier time touching her breasts) is totally up to her.
5. The Cozy Crescent Moon
The Cozy Crescent Moon is the assjob equivalent of spooning. Both the man and the woman lie down in their sides, facing in the same direction, and the name places his erect penis between the woman’s butt cheeks for the assjob.
In this position, the man can easily kiss his partner on the mouth, on her neck, hold onto her hip for leverage, and touch her breasts. Whether he primarily thrusts towards her or she primarily pushes back at him (like a lying-down lapdance) is up to the couple.
6. The Chairlift Squeeze
For the Chairlift Squeeze, the man sits in an elevated position (on a chair, on the edge of a bed or couch, etc.) and the woman straddles him while facing towards him. Almost like a reverse lapdance. Then either the man reaches his hand/hands around to press the woman’s butt cheeks together or press his penis towards her, or she reaches back and applies the pressure.
This position is a real winner for men who can’t decide whether they’re ‘ass guys’ or ‘boob guys’. Why? Because they can have both at the same time. Hooray!
7. The Firestarter
The Firestarter assjob position is like standing doggy, with the woman fully bent forwards.
Similar to the Power-Bottom position, this one plays with the intentional polarization of the dominant/submissive dynamic in how each person is posed.
And similar to The Lapdance and The Turnaround Tease, the woman will have an easier time in this position either stimulating herself clitorally, or reaching back and touching her man’s balls.
8. Comfy Doggy
The Comfy Doggy assjob position is like The Firestarter but easier on the knees/with more cushioning.
It’s also easy to transition from this position to The Power-Bottom by simply having the woman bring her legs together and lying down flat.
9. Cozy Cowgirl
For The Cozy Cowgirl, the man lies down on his back, and the woman straddles him while facing towards him, with his penis being stimulated behind her.
In this position, the woman either remain upright and give him an amazing view, or she can fold forwards to transition into…
10. The Warm Embrace
The Warm Embrace is like Cozy Cowgirl but with a forward fold for the woman.
This position is a much more intimate one, as both the man and woman can engage in a lot of kissing, touching, and caressing.
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11. The Backreach Blend
The Backreach Blend is a blend of a thigh job and an assjob. In this position, the man lies on his back, the woman lies on top of him with her head near his feet, and his penis (penetrating from between her thighs) is angled towards her butt via the pressure of one of their hands.
For men who love their partners thighs and feet, this position is a dream.
12. The Sideview Sizzle
In the Sideview Sizzle, the woman lies on her side, and the man (up on his knees) slides his penis between between her butt cheeks, angled in the direction of her lower back. Ample opportunity for mutual touching with this one.
13. The Southbound Slide
In The Southbound Slide, the reverse of the Sideview Sizzle occurs. The woman lies on her side, the man is up on his knees and he slides his penis between her butt cheeks. But this time with his penis pointing towards her feet.
14. Highrise Harmony
With Highrise Harmony, the woman sits on a chair facing away from her partner, and the man stands behind her.
15. The Kneel Deal
For The Kneel Deal, both the man and the woman are up on their knees, facing the same direction. Since all four hands are available, they can be used for breast, clitoral, or testicle stimulation with ease.
16. The Standing Ovation
For The Standing Ovation, the man and woman stand on the floor, facing in the same direction. This position can feel more intimate or more erotic, depending how you go about it.
17. The Cozy Straddle
In The Cozy Straddle, the man sits upright, legs apart, and the woman straddles him while facing towards him.
For mild friction, they don’t have to use any of their hands to create pressure. For moderate friction, one or both can use their hands. And for the most friction, the man can reach his arms around and ‘bear-hug’ her butt cheeks and squeeze his penis in between his forearms and her pressed-together bum.
18. The Upside-Down Unwind
For The Upside-Down Unwind, the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him belly-up, with her head towards his feet and feet towards his head.
One of the perks of this position is that her bodyweight alone can create all the friction they need. It’s like a horizontal lap dance where gravity does half of the work.
To increase the friction further, the man can use his hands to squeeze her butt cheeks together from either side. Want to make it even more of a mutual masturbation show? The woman can also manually stimulate herself at the same time, which the man will be able to see with ease from his vantage point.
Assjobs For All!
Alright, that’s it! Those are the 18 assjob positions for you and your partner to try out.
I trust that you’ve learned something from this guide. And I hope that you get to try out your favorite assjob positions in the coming days and weeks.
And if you’re looking for more next-level sexual secrets, I highly recommend checking out the additional resources below.
Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
Ps. If you enjoyed this article, you’ll also love checking out:
– Queen of Blowjobs (video course on how to give him life-changing blowjobs)
– The 12 Sexiest Positions For Blowjobs
– 18 Sexiest Handjob Positions To Blow His Mind
– The Ultimate Guide To Thigh Jobs (& 11 Sexy Thigh Job Positions)
– 10 Sexiest Tit Fuck Positions To Blow His Mind
