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Who is Jordan Gray?

Who is Jordan Gray?

I have always been a sensitive, intuitive, big-hearted person. When I was growing up, this was taken advantage of.

I faced challenges from the ages of 5-15 that made me fear and avoid relationships…

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Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners (116 Examples)
Nov 11, 2015
Jordan Gray
Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners (116 Examples)
Dirty talk can feel like walking through a minefield. Most people feel embarrassed at the thought of it, because they were never taught the basics. In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the would-be dirty talker freezes up. “What should I say? What do they want me to...
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11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man (or How To Fight Entropy 101)
Sep 29, 2018
Jordan Gray
11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man (or How To Fight Entropy 101)
You know what I’m really tired of? Articles that promise the fastest, easiest, lowest-barrier-to-entry bullshit tips on how men can improve themselves. Since when are we all after the quick and easy silver bullet? Have we collectively become that lazy as a society that we’re all perpetually...
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10 Simple Ways To Immediately Be More Attractive To Your Man
Jan 9, 2019
Jordan Gray
10 Simple Ways To Immediately Be More Attractive To Your Man
Looking to be more attractive to your man? What a beautiful intention! Go you! Over time, it’s not uncommon for the passion, sexual tension, and romantic energy to dwindle in a relationship. Now, this isn’t an inevitability of being in a long-term relationship (I know many couples who have highly charged...
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50 Powerful Sex Tips For Men
Jan 20, 2018
Jordan Gray
50 Powerful Sex Tips For Men
Looking for cutting edge sex tips for men? I've released hundreds of articles of sex advice through the years... and if you're new to my site it can seem a bit overwhelming to sort through. So today, I decided to do a best-of-the-best collection of my fifty sex tips for men. My female readers...
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I Believe In Loving Like You Give A Shit
Dec 13, 2015
Jordan Gray
I Believe In Loving Like You Give A Shit
I believe in loving like you give a shit. I believe in being overly affectionate in public. Even if it means that those who are envious label you as 'that couple' or tell you to get a room. I believe in flirting with someone you’ve been with for years. I believe in seeking out our barriers to intimacy...
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How To Develop Your Masculine Edge: 9 Steps To Becoming A Beast
Mar 25, 2017
Jordan Gray
How To Develop Your Masculine Edge: 9 Steps To Becoming A Beast
Are you looking to develop your masculine edge? Do you sometimes feel like you lack passion, fire, or courage in your life? Do you find yourself feeling lacklustre, being boring, or overly nice? Do you find it difficult to stay motivated in your career path, attract romantic partners that you're deeply...
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7 Relationship Tools For Married Entrepreneurs
Feb 12, 2025
Jordan Gray
7 Relationship Tools For Married Entrepreneurs
You love your spouse. You also love your work. But some days, it feels like you’re being pulled in opposite directions. Between marketing, meetings, and (often self-imposed) deadlines, where does your marriage fit in? The good news is, balancing love and entrepreneurship isn’t about choosing...
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9 Reasons To Not Use Dating Apps (At All, Ever)
Jan 29, 2025
Jordan Gray
9 Reasons To Not Use Dating Apps (At All, Ever)
Despite millions of people using dating apps, nearly 80% of users report feeling burnt out, frustrated, and no closer to finding a meaningful connection. While dating apps claim to bring people together, some research suggests they often do the opposite - leading to higher rates of anxiety, lower...
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5 Empowering Beliefs About Sex For Women
Nov 12, 2024
Jordan Gray
5 Empowering Beliefs About Sex For Women
Ever felt like there’s more to your sex life than what you’ve been told? If so, you’re not alone. For many women, beliefs about sex have been shaped more by external pressures and societal expectations than by personal truth. Many of us carry ideas about sex that don’t serve us, beliefs that limit...
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121 Deep Questions To Ask Your Partner
Sep 17, 2024
Jordan Gray
121 Deep Questions To Ask Your Partner
Looking for some deep questions to ask your partner for greater connection and intimacy? I’ve got you covered! Whether you want to spice up date night with a question or two, or make an entire weekend-long deep-dive date out of these questions, there’s something in it for everyone. While they are meant...
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How To Know If You Are A Catch: A Quiz
Sep 4, 2024
Jordan Gray
How To Know If You Are A Catch: A Quiz
So you think you're a catch, but how can you know for sure? Your friends aren't the most reliable source to ask, because they're biased. And you can't just go ask your exes, because, you know, they're your exes. Here's what I can offer you. Read through the following 100 questions. For every...
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7 Most Comfortable Blowjob Positions For Women (Photos)
Sep 3, 2024
Jordan Gray
7 Most Comfortable Blowjob Positions For Women (Photos)
Looking for the world's most comfortable blowjob positions? Look no further! As the old saying goes... ''Blowjobs... they blow him away, but they're a job for you." But it doesn't have to be that way. When you find the right comfortable blowjob positions for...
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