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Who is Jordan Gray?

Who is Jordan Gray?

I have always been a sensitive, intuitive, big-hearted person. When I was growing up, this was taken advantage of.

I was bullied relentlessly from the ages of 5-15 and I came to think of relationships as something to fear and avoid.

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Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners
Nov 11, 2015
Jordan Gray
Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners
Dirty talk can feel like walking through a minefield. Most people feel completely embarrassed and ridiculous at the thought of trying it, because they’ve never been taught the basic guidelines. In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker suddenly...
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11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man (or How To Fight Entropy 101)
Sep 29, 2018
Jordan Gray
11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man (or How To Fight Entropy 101)
You know what I’m really tired of? Articles that promise the fastest, easiest, lowest-barrier-to-entry bullshit tips on how men can improve themselves. Since when are we all after the quick and easy silver bullet? Have we collectively become that lazy as a society that we’re all perpetually...
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10 Simple Ways To Immediately Be More Attractive To Your Man
Jan 9, 2019
Jordan Gray
10 Simple Ways To Immediately Be More Attractive To Your Man
Looking to be more attractive to your man? What a beautiful intention! Go you! Over time, it’s not uncommon for the passion, sexual tension, and romantic energy to dwindle in a relationship. Now, this isn’t an inevitability of being in a long-term relationship (I know many couples who have highly charged...
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50 Powerful Sex Tips For Men
Jan 20, 2018
Jordan Gray
50 Powerful Sex Tips For Men
Looking for cutting edge sex tips for men? I've released hundreds of articles of sex advice through the years... and if you're new to my site it can seem a bit overwhelming to sort through. So today, I decided to do a best-of-the-best collection of my fifty sex tips for men. My female readers...
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I Believe In Loving Like You Give A Shit
Dec 13, 2015
Jordan Gray
I Believe In Loving Like You Give A Shit
I believe in loving like you give a shit. I believe in being overly affectionate in public. Even if it means that those who are envious label you as 'that couple' or tell you to get a room. I believe in flirting with someone you’ve been with for years. I believe in seeking out our barriers to intimacy...
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How To Develop Your Masculine Edge: 9 Steps To Becoming A Beast
Mar 25, 2017
Jordan Gray
How To Develop Your Masculine Edge: 9 Steps To Becoming A Beast
Are you looking to develop your masculine edge? Do you sometimes feel like you lack passion, fire, or courage in your life? Do you find yourself feeling lacklustre, being boring, or overly nice? Do you find it difficult to stay motivated in your career path, attract romantic partners that you're deeply...
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Latest Blog Posts

7 Of My Favourite Things That Make My Life Better
Aug 3, 2023
Jordan Gray
7 Of My Favourite Things That Make My Life Better
Over the last 10+ years of my writing reaching over 100 million people all around the world, I've been asked a lot of questions. What's my favourite sex toy, favourite cologne, favourite non-toxic dish soap, etc. etc.... Well today, I won't be talking about any of those things. But I will be...
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I Had Sex With Over 300 Women, And Then Got Married
Jul 30, 2023
Jordan Gray
I Had Sex With Over 300 Women, And Then Got Married
Between the ages of 16-30, I had well over 300 sexual partners. At a certain point, I stopped counting... but my best guess would be somewhere between 330-380. When I've told select friends this, they are often amazed. How does someone even rack up those kinds of numbers? In reality, I was absolutely...
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'Why Am I Still Single?' 5 Reasons + What To Do About It
Jul 19, 2023
Jordan Gray
‘Why Am I Still Single?’ 5 Reasons + What To Do About It
One of the most common questions that I get from people sounds something like… “I’ve been single for so long even though I deeply want a relationship. What gives?” Over the last 15+ years of working with thousands of clients, I’ve noticed some patterns. Here are five reasons that people stay single...
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How To Not Feel Like Roommates
May 8, 2023
Jordan Gray
How To Not Feel Like Roommates
Over the last 15 years of working with people on their relationships full-time, one of the most common sets of questions I get is around 'How do I bring the spark back to my relationship that sometimes feels like we're just roommates with responsibilities? And this is a valid question. As the monotony...
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101 Things I Love About My Wife
Nov 27, 2022
Jordan Gray
101 Things I Love About My Wife
Today is my wife's 30th birthday. Happy birthday Demetra! And so, to celebrate, aside from the usual presents and cards and cuddles (which she is also getting), I decided to write down some things that I love about her. If you've been following her work for any length of time, many of these...
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How I Met My Wife
May 20, 2022
Jordan Gray
How I Met My Wife
In October of 2017, a 24 year old university student, with two names that I wouldn't dare to try to pronounce upon reading them, hired me for a coaching session through my website. When we hopped on the call, she seemed to be someone who was wanting to break free from doing what she was told was the...
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