Women know that men love blowjobs. That’s a given. But what if you could hear men’s first-hand responses to the question, ‘What is the best blowjob you ever had?’
I recently sent out an email to my men’s email list of thousands of men asking them this exact question, “Men, tell me about the best blowjob you ever had.”
Their responses did not disappoint.
Below, I’ll share seven of the best written responses that I received from men directly. Enjoy!
Men Describe The Best Blowjob They Ever Had
1. “It was so good that my hands went numb.”
I was dating this woman who was incredibly sweet. She had a very nurturing side and I felt so loved by her. She was always doing little cute, thoughtful things for me, and just had a really good heart.
And yes, she also gave incredible blowjobs.
The first time she ever went down on me, it was so good that my hands went numb. Literally. It was as if all of the blood was rushing from my extremities to my cock. Like she built up so much sensation and pleasure in me that my body was just like, ‘Okay, no more blood for your hands… we have to keep up with what this woman is doing over here.’
She moved out of the country, otherwise I would have married her. Her skillset was truly otherworldly. It is still the benchmark that I’ve compared all blowjobs to ever since.”
2. “I’ll never forget it for the rest of my life.”
“My now-wife/then-girlfriend and I went to a really fancy restaurant. It was our first time there and it was also her first time meeting my parents. She had been to the restaurant once before and I hadn’t.
She was dressed up in a really gorgeous (but still appropriate to meet the parents in) dress that accentuated her body well.
After exchanging some pleasantries and putting in our drink orders, she said something about how she wanted to give me a quick tour of the place. This restaurant had a bunch of different rooms so it made sense as a thing to say.
But I never could have predicted what happened next.
So she leads me over to the co-ed bathroom area. The sinks/hand-washing stations are all open and co-ed, and then there’s a bunch of individual bathroom stalls lining each side of the room. We get there and she just pulls me into one of the stalls. At this point, I still have no idea what’s happening because she had such a convincing game-face on. It felt like she was just genuinely excited to show me all of the different parts of this fancy restaurant and so I assumed she was just going to show me the inside of these spacious, gorgeous bathroom stalls.
But nope! We get into the private stall, she locks the door and immediately goes for my belt buckle. Within seconds my pants are down around my ankles and my cock is in her mouth.
I kid you not… it is the fastest I’ve ever cum in my whole life. I probably went from completely soft (again, I didn’t know that a blowjob was coming because she never alluded to it at all) to ejaculating in her mouth in under 60 seconds. It was just that hot. I’ll never forget it for the rest of my life.”
3. “She was more aggressive than I normally thought that I liked…”
“I dated this German woman in my early 20’s. The first time we hooked up, she was more aggressive than I normally thought that I liked.
I don’t know if aggressive is the right word. She wasn’t dominant or forceful as much as she was just very into it and kind of attacked every sexual act we did.
The first time she gave me a blowjob she just totally went for it.
She used her mouth and incorporated both of her hands earlier than I normally like. She squeezed me with her hands tighter than I normally think I like. Honestly, she basically face fucked herself on my cock.
It wasn’t just enthusiasm or passion. It was like a hunger. Like she needed my cock to be in her mouth immediately.
Something about her tenacity and hunger sent me over the edge. She overwhelmed me with her desire. It was so apparent. She just clearly loved giving blowjobs and she wanted to do it her way and I came super hard, super fast. And I came super hard and super fast every time she went down on me for the remainder of our relationship.”
4. “I started feeling lightheaded.”
“The best blowjob I ever received was courtesy of a woman who was deeply misaligned for me as a long-term partner, but boy howdy did we ever have some amazing sexual chemistry.
We were both in a pretty unstable place in each of our lives and I think that the incompatibility of our connection fuelled the fire of our sex’s hotness.
I remember in one of the earliest times we were sexual with one another we were playing around with some more edge-y kink-type play, and she was in this crazy hot leather outfit.
Anyways, a minute or two into the blowjob I started feeling lightheaded. Now, I’m a generally healthy guy and I know that I had eaten well that day, so there was no reason for my lightheadedness other than her phenomenal skillset.
If I had to isolate what I think made her blowjobs so great, I would say it primarily came down to her enthusiasm. She genuinely seemed thrilled to be doing it, and that made all the difference.”
5. “She did something that no one else had ever done before.”
“I once dated an accountant who was the epitome of a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. By day she was a pencil pushing, very normal looking woman who had her 9-5 and a couple of hobbies. By night, she was a demon in the sack.
What set her blowjobs apart from any other woman I’ve ever been with, is that they were incredibly wet.
Like, saliva everywhere. Not only did she not swallow any of her saliva throughout the blowjob, but she would play with it and get it all over the bottom half of her face and would just make a big mess.
Perhaps this was so erotic for me because I grew up in a very religion-centric state and sex had always been very tidy and prim and proper… and this was just the total opposite. It was messy and raw and so deeply human. Ever since, any sexual act involving abundant wetness or sloppiness (saliva, lube, massage oil, whip cream, etc.) really does a lot for me.”
6. “Tears filled my eyes. It was a work of art.”
“The best blowjob I ever had came from a woman who was just an absolute natural. She would sometimes joke that she thought she might have been a guy in a past life because she felt like she just understood penises so well, and I would tend to believe her lol.
She was so tender and loving and intuitive with it all. On a regular basis, while she going down on me tears filled my eyes. It was a work of art, everything she did.
So gentle and sweet and patient. It would just get me right into my heart and I’ve never experienced anything like it since.”
7. “She really took her time with it.”
“What a timely question! The best blowjob of my life just happened a few months ago.
My wife and I (we’re high school sweethearts, have been together almost 20 years) had just come back from a lovely date night. She sat me down on the bed, looked in my eyes and said something along the lines of, ‘You take such good care of me. I want to do something special for you.’ Then she proceeded to give me the longest blowjob of my entire life. Now, some men might hear the word longest and think, ‘Why would you want it to be long?’, but this was something truly special.
She really took her time with it. She was very in tune with my body and calibrated her level of intensity with what I was feeling, all the way through.
Any time I started to get too close to coming, she would back off and bring me back down. Eventually, the pressure of build-up-and-come-back-down was so great that I just felt like I was in heaven. It is so special to have a partner who knows your body that well. She brought me pleasure I could never even hope to give to myself through any other means.
After at least a half hour (maybe closer to an hour) of pleasure, she had me finish in her mouth and I just melted. It was better than I could ever put into words. I don’t think a week has passed without me mentioning it and thanking her for it in one way or another.”
Be The Best He’s Ever Had
As you can see, there are many things that can give a man the best blowjob he’s ever had. But if you dig a bit deeper, you’ll discover that there are a few common through lines that guarantee you’ll be his all time best.
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Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
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