Sep 1, 2024

23 Pussy Eating Positions Women Love

Want to see the best, sexiest, most effective pussy eating positions? Look no further!

Scroll your way down the following list and you’ll be a more proficient cunnilingus expert in no time.

23 Super Sexy Pussy Eating Positions That Women Love

It’s true – the majority of women love having oral sex performed on them. But men often forget that skill will only get you so far. Spoiler alert: the pussy eating position also matters.

The better the pussy eating position, the more comfortable and dropped in she will be. The more relaxed she is, the better and stronger her orgasms.

So buckle up! This is going to be one hell of a fun ride.

Without further ado, here are the best pussy eating positions that’ll have her screaming your name in no time.

1. Elevated Pleasure

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This position has a lot going for it.

The woman gets to lay back and relax in a fully reclined position. She gets to rest her leg on her man (who is off the side of the couch/bed). And if she is more sensitive on one side of her vulva, then she gets to expose more of that area to her partner who will have an easier time giving it that much more attention.

2. The Standard

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The Standard pussy eating position consists of the woman lying on her back, with the man on his belly nestled between her legs.

In this pose, the man can also use his hands to support her thighs so she doesn’t have to exert any energy holding them up herself.

3. The Cliffhanger

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For The Cliffhanger, the woman lies on her back on a bed/couch/kitchen counter/any flat surface, with her butt resting near the edge. The man (just off the bed/couch, on a lower level) then goes to town. Depending on what surface and varying height levels you use, this can be an easier pose for the man’s neck. And when it comes to pussy eating positions that you both really want to settle into, mutual comfort (and lack of neck pain) is always a plus!

4. Rear Entry

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With the Rear Entry pussy eating position, the woman stands up and the woman licks her pussy from behind.

You can play with varying height and/or level differences in a number of ways. The woman can stand on pillows, a coffee table, or a couch. And the man can stand, kneel, or crouch until you find a height and angle that works well for both of you.

Some women absolutely adore being eaten out from behind. So if you’re with a woman like that (or are you are a woman like that), then this can be a go-to in your sexual repertoire.

If you’re the cunnilingus performer and also happen to be an ass-man, then this pussy eating position will have you feel like you’re in heaven.

5. The Throne

In The Throne position, the man lies on his back on a bed, and the woman sits on his upper chest with her feet dangling over the edge of the bed. That way, her pussy is easily accessible to his mouth, and she can easily control aspects of the pressure, speed, and intensity, by taking over and grinding on him when she wants to.

For the angle of the man’s head, he may want to put a small pillow underneath it to ensure he can reach her vulva with his mouth without issue.

6. The Pleasure Booster

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For the Pleasure Booster, the woman lies on her back, and the man goes between her legs and supports her in bringing both of her legs back so that her feet are over her head.

As far as pussy eating positions go, this one can have a bit more of a dominant energy to it for the pussy-eater. Why’s that? Because he’s essentially ‘primal dom’ing’ her by holding her legs out of the way and holding them in place. Obviously, the tone, energy, and intention that you bring to any sexual act matters a lot, so this pose can feel however you both want it to.

And for women who frequently/habitually squirt, this is also a position that could help that occur with more ease. So if that’s you, make sure you put down the appropriate blankets before you start.

7. The Scoop-Up

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The Scoop Up may look challenging or awkward, but it’s surprisingly intimate. It may appear all Kama-Sutra-esque, but really, it feels like a combination of pussy eating and full body cuddling.

In this position, the woman lies on her back, and scooches forwards so that her butt is resting on her partner’s stomach and/or chest area. And the man sits with his legs out, and ‘scoops up’ his partner by the hips/thighs/quads, so that her elevated vulva is brought towards his mouth.

8. Controlled Cowgirl

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In the Controlled Cowgirl, the man lies on his back, and the woman (on her hands and knees, with her head and feet pointing in the same directions as her man’s) brings her vulva directly to the man’s mouth.

For women that have more sensitive vulvas/clitorises, this position can be highly effective because it gives you so much control over the intensity and frequency of stimulation that you receive.

And for the man/pussy-eater, this position can be lovely for a number of reasons. For some men, the smothering fantasy is a thing they enjoy. For others, being able to grab her ass so easily is a treat. And for others still, there can be a more submissive energy of having your woman ride your face that turns them on.

9. The Side Sweep

In the Side Sweep, the woman lies down on her back, and the man kneels next to her and approaches her vulva while facing towards her feet.

This pussy eating position is especially fantastic for women who adore having their clitorises indirectly stimulated via stimulation of their clitoral hood.

If you so wish, it’s also a nice segue into 69’ing and/or playing with your man’s genitals with your hands. But I’m getting ahead of myself. There’s more on 69’ing (and multiple variations of it) further down this list!

10. Standing Service

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With the Standing Service pussy eating position, the woman stands up facing towards her man, and the man (kneeling, sitting, or crouching) stimulates her from the front.

Again, this position will appeal to different women for different reasons. It could be the more Dom/sub aspect that appeals. It could be the increased control of the kind/pressure/intensity of the stimulation. Or it could be that you were in the middle of nakedly changing a light bulb in your bedroom and you and your man just like playing the lets-frequently-surprise-each-other-with-oral-sex-game! Who am I to judge?

11. Sit On My Face

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With the ol’ Sit On My Face classic, the woman (you guessed it!) sits on the man’s face.

You can do this on a bed, on the edge of a bed, or on a couch. Different angles will be easier, hotter, and more do-able for his neck than others.

As with a few of the other ones on this list, this position can give you a heightened sense of control and influence over the kind of stimulation you receive.

12. Seated Rear Entry

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With the Seated Rear Entry position, the woman either stands or kneels in front of her man, and the man (seated in a chair, or on a couch or bed) eats her out from behind.

This position can be maximally comfortable for both of you because of the amount of support you’re each receiving from the props you’re on.

And not only is it a strong pussy eating pose, but it also makes for easily accessible anilingus (something you’d want to discuss beforehand to make sure you’re both enthusiastically into it).

13. The Strongman

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Not for the faint of heart!

In The Strongman position, the man puts the woman on his shoulders, she leans her back against a wall, and he eats her out while holding her up in the air.

Now, if the man hasn’t lifted weights in a few years this could be a tricky one to pull off. But if he’s in good shape and you’re both into trying it, it can be incredibly sexy.

14. The Leg Lift

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For the Leg Lift, the woman reclines in a seated position with the man kneeling in front of her, and she rests the sole of one of her feet on his back.

Like a few of the other pussy eating positions in this list, there can be a more loving, supportive, sweet energy, or a more Dominant/submissive vibe to it based on the energy you and your partner bring to the pose.

Similar to the ‘Elevated Pleasure’ pose from earlier in the list, it can also help give your man more or less access to one side of your vulva versus the other (which for some women who enjoy having one side stimulated more than the other, is a majorly convenient plus).

15. The Leg Press

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In the Leg Press position, the woman lies on her back with her man between her legs, and with his hand on her thigh, the man holds back one of her legs in the air.

He can then feel free to use his other hand to stimulate her breasts, insert a finger or two into her vagina, or just caress her belly/legs/body with a gentle, wandering touch.

16. Backdoor Bliss

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I want to start off with, yes, I know that compared to some of the other pussy eating positions, it may look intimidating. But it is actually much easier to pull off (and much hotter to receive) than you might expect.

In this pose, the woman lies down on her stomach with her legs spread slightly apart. The man kneels next to her shoulders, facing towards her feet, and (doing the equivalent of a 10% intensity headstand) licks her vulva from behind.

Women, if you haven’t tried this before and you have ever enjoyed being licked from behind, I highly recommend trying this out.

Men, if you think this looks too difficult or strange to attempt, don’t knock it before you try it. And if her clitoris is just sliiightly out of reach for your outstretched tongue, there’s two things you can do about that. First, she can arch her body slightly so that her hips are raised off of the bed a teensy tiny bit. And second, reaching one of your hands underneath her hip/thigh area, you can use your thumb and index finger to squeeze around her mons pubis/near her clitoral hood, and gently nudge them towards your mouth. Just trust me. Get this position working and you’ll be in a league of your own. It’s quite magical, and her orgasmic results will speak for themselves.

17. 69

If you ever went to middle school or high school, then you’ve undoubtedly heard of this one.

The woman and man simultaneously stimulate each other’s genitals with their mouths, most commonly with the woman on top of the man (although the opposite can also be done).

Two of the hottest aspects of the 69 position are that it is an immersive experience, and there is always a subtle game of ‘who’s going to make who cum first and/or cum harder’ in the mix.

18. Standing 69

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For the daredevils out there who aren’t satisfied by the standard 69 position, you can always taunt gravity by standing up!

For the Standing 69, the man stands erect (x2) and holds his partner up in the air while they mutually perform oral sex on each other.

As always, make sure you’re both in good enough shape to pull this off, as it requires a lot of strength and trust (also, the ability to not pass out when the blood inevitably rushes to your head).

19. Sideways 69

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Tired of 69’ing while holding yourself up or fighting gravity? For those who love 69’ing but want to do it in a more restful way, behold! The Sideways 69.

Just like the name suggests, you both lie down on your sides and make out with each other’s genitals. Simple as that.

This pose can be an amazing way to slowly warm each other up as a form of foreplay before penetrative sex, or it can be its own main event where this is the sole focus of your sex session. It’s entirely up to you how you incorporate it into the mix.

20. The Upright Unwind

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In the Upright Unwind, the man lies on his back on a bed, and the woman stands with her feet on the floor just off the side of the bed, while she faces towards his feet.

Again, this position can have a dose of Dom/sub energy in the mix, or it can be used as a way for the woman to control how much or how intense of stimulation she receives from her partner.

Another perk of this position is that it’s super easy for the man to use his free hands to play with the woman’s breasts and/or nipples.

21. Lounging Luxury

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For Lounging Luxury, the man lies on his back on a couch, and the woman puts one knee on the couch and one foot on the floor, with her pussy over the man’s mouth.

This position can be incredibly easy on the man’s neck (which matters for your more extended oral sex sessions), and give the woman an erotic sense of taking her pleasure exactly as she wants it.

22. Pelvic Perch

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For this position and the one below, you or your partner will need to own a sex wedge. If you haven’t heard of a sex wedge before, it’s just what it sounds like. It’s a triangular wedge of material (usually some kind of foam) that you can use to prop up certain body parts to create new angles in your sexual positions.

In the Pelvic Perch, the woman lies down on her back (on a bed, on a couch, on a kitchen counter, etc.), with the sex wedge underneath her butt, propping up her hips. The man then goes between her legs (optionally, he can help hold her legs back by resting his hands on her thighs) and stimulates her like that.

For women who love having their vaginal canal and/or lower vulva stimulated, the sex wedge gives an added sense of ease to her partner to stimulate these exact parts.

23. Elevated Bliss

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Last but certainly not least, the Elevated Bliss position.

For this pose, the woman props up her pelvis with a sex wedge, and the man (lying flat on his belly) performs cunnilingus on her from between her legs.

Using the sex wedge can elevate her vulva to his mouth with such ease that it can all but eliminate any and all neck pain that the man might usually struggle with. So get ready to settle into this one for a while because he’ll be able to go all night with it.

Now That You Know All Of The Pussy Eating Positions Women Love – What Now?

Congratulations! You’ve just added several new tools to your sexual toolkit. So, where do you go from here?

Well, if you enjoyed this article on the best pussy eating positions, you’ll also love checking out the bonuses below.

Well, if you’re a man, I strongly recommend checking out the following resources:

Supercharge Your Sex Life (a course for men, that has you feel more grounded, confident, and relaxed in bed)

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And if you’re a woman reading this, I highly recommend checking out these resources:

The 12 Sexiest Positions For Blowjobs (With Photos)

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I sincerely wish for you the best, most nourishing, satisfying, comforting, ecstatic sex life imaginable. You deserve it!

Dedicated to your success,

Jordan

Jordan Gray
About Jordan Gray

Jordan Gray has been a sex and relationship coach for over 15+ years, with his work reaching over 200 million people worldwide. His writing has been featured in Vogue, GQ, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and countless other publications around the world. When he’s not working with 1-on-1 coaching clients or writing a new article, he’s most likely to be found reading, chopping wood, or spending time with his wife on a little island off the west coast of Canada.

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