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Every week, people ask me what books I would recommend for them to further their understanding of sex and relationships. Having been someone that has been self-educating on sex, psychology, and relationships for the past decade, and having read hundreds of books on the subject, I feel fairly qualified...

This question has been asked of me nearly ten times in the past week, so I’m taking it as a sign. “My partner is excruciatingly vanilla in the bedroom… how do I change that? “She talked a big game before we ever slept together, but she’s really tame when it comes down to it. Any way to steer...

A tip that’s guaranteed to improve your relationship, hmm? A bold claim? Not in the slightest. This is absolute fact and it’s something that I’ve been recommending to my clients for years. But first, a quick story. The Money Hungry Entrepreneur With A Suffering Home Life I once had a client...

Ever heard of Fifty Shades Of Grey? It recently became the best-selling sex book of all time. While I’m somewhat glad that the book exists because it puts certain elements of kink/BDSM into mainstream culture and has started a more global conversation about these lifestyles (in a terribly misrepresentative...

Want to expand and explore your relationship to your sexuality, and you’re in a relationship (or soon hope to be in one)? You’ve found the right article. You can place this squarely under the category of “WHY WERE WE NOT TAUGHT THIS STUFF IN SCHOOL?” Oh well, One day! That’s in my twenty year goals....

As much as I have learned about people from studying human sexuality for the past decade and working with clients 1 on 1 on their sex lives… I still feel like I’m just scratching the surface. I have an insatiable curiosity when it comes to people. And I am especially curious about what they do in bed. As...

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about what makes a new relationship work or not, it’s the following… Ask yourself this question to know whether or not you should be dating the person you are and your entire life will benefit. Do you feel compelled or do you feel cornered? So...

After years of self-reflection, I truly feel like I’ve found the holy grail of relationship mindset. These four rules encapsulate so much of what I believe to be true in relationships (intimate or otherwise) that I wanted to refine them into their simplest possible form before I made them public. Well,...

Let’s face it… our current sexual education system is completely broken. Between rom-coms, pornography, and the half-assed ‘talk’ we get from our well-meaning parents, the sexual information we learn throughout our formative years leaves much to the imagination. The effect? Generations of unaware...

Let’s face it... we all love taking short cuts. And, if we aren't careful, our relationships are often taken for granted. But too many short cuts can lead to a lazy, unintentional relationship that merely exists, instead of thrives. If you want to shed years of emotional baggage, feel loved and...