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5 Ways Your Cell Phone Can Improve Your Relationship
Apr 19, 2015
Jordan Gray
5 Ways Your Cell Phone Can Improve Your Relationship
Cell phones get a lot of flack when it comes to how we interact with each other in our relationships. But technology is a neutral entity. It’s how we use our phones that matters. Yes, if you text each other more than you talk face to face, you can experience pain in your relationship. But if you harness...
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What 100 People Said Their Ideal Love Life Looks Like
Apr 5, 2015
Jordan Gray
What 100 People Said Their Ideal Love Life Looks Like
I recently asked 50 men and 50 women a simple question regarding their ideal love life. I asked them to each complete a single “sentence stem” five times. That sentence stem was “If I were to take full responsibility in my love life…”. Their answers were inspiring, beautiful, heart-warming,...
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How To Let Yourself Be Seen By Someone
Apr 4, 2015
Jordan Gray
How To Let Yourself Be Seen By Someone
Letting someone get close enough to hurt you is a terrifying concept for most people. But when you are offered an intimate relationship with someone who has the power, ability, and desire to go deep with you, it’s a shame to not be able to take advantage of that opportunity. Whether you’ve just...
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The 3 Most Damaging Myths About Dating
Apr 3, 2015
Jordan Gray
The 3 Most Damaging Myths About Dating
When it comes to relationships, people love to blindly follow black and white rules with zero nuance. Why? Because it feels safer that way. Why tap into your own gut-level intuition when you can just follow the rules that someone else passed on to you? Here are three of the most annoyingly pervasive...
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How To Figure Out What Your Ideal Sex Life Looks Like
Mar 22, 2015
Jordan Gray
How To Figure Out What Your Ideal Sex Life Looks Like
If you’ve been reading my articles for any length of time you’ll likely know that I’m a huge fan of self-reflecting… especially when it comes to our sex lives. One exercise that I have a lot of my clients go through is setting aside an hour and writing down what their ideal sex life looks like. It’s...
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I’m Not Perfect - And No One Is
Mar 22, 2015
Jordan Gray
I’m Not Perfect – And No One Is
When people find out what I do for work, they tend to assume a few things about me. “You’re a relationship coach? So you must be like the perfect boyfriend then, right?” “What a fascinating job. So I guess you and your girlfriend never fight.” “You’re basically a therapist for intimate relationships…...
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How To Get Your Partner To Initiate Sex More Often
Mar 16, 2015
Jordan Gray
How To Get Your Partner To Initiate Sex More Often
"How do I get my partner to initiate sex with me more often?" This is one of a handful of questions that I get asked on a weekly basis that makes me internally cringe. Why? Because, while I empathize with how bad it can feel to not have a sense of sexual connection with your partner, to me the question...
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We Are Wild, And We Are Tender
Mar 15, 2015
Jordan Gray
We Are Wild, And We Are Tender
We are more wild, and more tender than we allow ourselves be in bed. Regardless of our gender, the range of our sexuality has been repressed, limited, and shamed into a corner since we were young. We are simultaneously tantalized and chastised. We are taught to suppress sexual desire… hide our bodies…...
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How To Love Your Highly Sensitive Partner
Mar 15, 2015
Jordan Gray
How To Love Your Highly Sensitive Partner
I recently received a message from one of my readers that sparked my interest. - “My wife is (what she labels as) a “highly sensitive person” or HSP. Quite often, things that I don’t see as a huge deal can make her go running for shelter for hours on end. I love her to bits and I just want to understand...
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In Praise Of Emotionally Strong Women
Mar 9, 2015
Jordan Gray
In Praise Of Emotionally Strong Women
Here’s to the emotionally strong women... The women that have done their work. The women that know the value of self-love and self-care. The women that hold themselves, and others, to higher standards. The women that have felt grief, and received the grief of their loved ones. The women who turn...
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