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Your Relationship As Foreplay (And How You Can Get Better At It)
Jun 24, 2014
Jordan Gray
Your Relationship As Foreplay (And How You Can Get Better At It)
A lot of guys think that foreplay is something that you do for a few minutes before you penetrate your partner. I remember once reading that foreplay isn't what you do for the five minutes before sex, but what you do for the 24 hours before you get to bed. And while the thought was nice, something...
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3 Ways To Set Up Your Single Life For Success In Dating
Jun 16, 2014
Jordan Gray
3 Ways To Set Up Your Single Life For Success In Dating
It's all too easy to blindly fumble around from dysfunctional relationship to dysfunctional relationship. But does that mean that that's your only option? There are things that you can do in the space between your relationships that will set you up for success in your love life. Miss these, and...
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5 Ways To Stay Attracted To A Partner You've Been With For Years
Jun 9, 2014
Jordan Gray
5 Ways To Stay Attracted To A Partner You’ve Been With For Years
One of the most common questions that I get asked from my clients in relationships is "How do you stay attracted to someone you've been with for years?" I've interviewed couples who have been married from a few months to 50+ years, and they all agree - sexual attraction ebbs and flows in every re...
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How To Finally Get Over Your Ex (Even If It Feels Impossible)
Jun 2, 2014
Jordan Gray
How To Finally Get Over Your Ex (Even If It Feels Impossible)
Having trouble getting over your ex? Do you miss the way that they looked at you? The way that they smelled? The way their hand felt in yours? Do you think you see them walking down the street when really it's a stranger? Do you still hear certain music that reminds you of them? When someone...
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The 3 Most Damaging Myths About The Sex Lives Of Men
May 26, 2014
Jordan Gray
The 3 Most Damaging Myths About The Sex Lives Of Men
Societal assumptions about how men operate sexually are damaging the lives of men more than you might think. I see clients on a weekly basis who think that because they sometimes don’t want to have sex with their partners, it makes them less manly. I mean, shouldn’t they be turned on and ready to...
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3 Unique Tricks To Make You The Best Partner Possible
May 21, 2014
Jordan Gray
3 Unique Tricks To Make You The Best Partner Possible
If you found your way to this article that means that you are automatically a phenomenal person. Seriously. What kind of person takes time out of their day to try and become an even better boyfriend/husband/partner to their significant other? An awesome person, that's who. By following one or...
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How Slut-Shaming Hurts Men
May 19, 2014
Jordan Gray
How Slut-Shaming Hurts Men
Have you heard of slut-shaming? It's a recent hot-topic, and with good reason. Through media, upbringing and societal pressure, women have been forced to suppress their sexual urges. This has been happening for ages and has become a widely accepted double standard. Men are allowed to have as much...
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Should You Date A Driven Woman?
Apr 30, 2014
Jordan Gray
Should You Date A Driven Woman?
Should you date a driven woman, or someone who is more relaxed than you? As someone who already lives their life full throttle, it can be confusing as to whether you should be with someone who can keep up with your levelled up lifestyle, or if you need someone to counteract your high-achieving ways. There...
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The Only Thing You Need To Get Right While Talking To A Woman
Apr 28, 2014
Jordan Gray
The Only Thing You Need To Get Right While Talking To A Woman
You have been raised with the mindset that you need to play it cool in order to impress and ultimately attract a woman. And the initial appeal of this way of interacting with women makes sense. Because it helps you steer clear of vulnerability (something that you have been taught to avoid at all costs). Besides,...
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7 Things That Women Will Always Be Attracted To
Apr 22, 2014
Jordan Gray
7 Things That Women Will Always Be Attracted To
If there's one thing that I've learned in my career as a relationship coach it's that guys’ beliefs about what actually attracts women is pretty ass-backwards. Men have been raised with the false belief that they should always appear detached, cool and unemotional, 24/7, or risk being known in guy...
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