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10 Ways To Be Deeply Devoted To Your Partner
How is your relationship to relationships?
For most people, it’s highly selfish and egoic.
It’s all about what they can get, versus what they can give. They operate more like entitled, co-dependent children than responsible adults.
Here’s some general advice for life: Don't be like most...
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12 Romantic Proposal Ideas For You To Steal
So you’re ready to get down on one knee and tie the knot with the love of your life…
Before we get to talking about ways to do it, let me grab my trumpet and set off some confetti cannons…
Because that is amazing! (*Cue explosions and marching band*)
The fact that you’re at a place in your relationship...
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4 Ways To Fully Receive Feminine Nourishment
Growing up, I experienced a lot of wounding with the feminine.
Bullying, break ups, being emotionally decimated at my most vulnerable...
At the age of 20, I felt like I'd had enough.
I didn't want to be vulnerable with women anymore.
I wanted to armour up. Shut them out. Punish them for how...
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Thank You For This
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you to the trees, and stars, and hot salty tears,
And my childhood guardians who let me hold on to their thighs so that I got my daily
touch.
Thank you to the women who held me through my pain.
To Libby and Linnea and Laura and Allison and Amy and all of...
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I Used To Think That Men Who Got Married Were Idiots
I used to think that men who got married were idiots.
Or, if they weren't idiots, they were at least undesirable enough that they just had to settle for whoever chose them... because why else would you tie yourself to someone for life if the reason weren't that you didn't have any other romantic options?
I...
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The 3 Most Important Things You Can Do To Have A Better Sex Life
If there's one thing I receive more emails about on a weekly basis than anything else, it's sex.
How do I get more sex from my partner? How do I have better sex? How can I last longer? How do I get my partner to initiate more?
As a society, our relationship to sex is primarily through the ego.
The...
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Does Polyamory Ever Work?
Does polyamory ever work?
I received the following letter from a reader the other day.
"I’ve been struggling for the better part of several months dealing with leaving my ex for the second time (who came back early last year love bombing me for months, then completely shifting saying he wants to...
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3 Ways Men Energetically Castrate Themselves
For nearly any man, having their balls chopped off is one of the most terrifying scenarios imaginable.
If you have a scrotum, just reading that probably made it flinch.
But if it’s such a scary idea, then why do so many of us do it to ourselves every single day?
To understand energetic castration, we...
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33 Ways For Men To Have Amazing Sex Without An Erection
Looking to have a passionate, dynamic sex life with your partner, without an erect penis?
You've come to the right place!
I've spent a good percentage of my life over the last decade talking to men about their penises.
For over five years, I was the #1 search result in the world for 'how to...
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How To Handle The Pain Of Sexual Rejection From Your Partner
Ever been sexually rejected by your partner?
If you've ever been in a relationship that's lasted longer than six months, the answer would be yes.
I recently got this email from a reader, and I decided to answer it in a long-form article, as I know that others would benefit from it.
Here's the letter,...
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