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Looking to have a passionate, dynamic sex life with your partner, without an erect penis? You've come to the right place! I've spent a good percentage of my life over the last decade talking to men about their penises. For over five years, I was the #1 search result in the world for 'how to...

Ever been sexually rejected by your partner? If you've ever been in a relationship that's lasted longer than six months, the answer would be yes. I recently got this email from a reader, and I decided to answer it in a long-form article, as I know that others would benefit from it. Here's the letter,...

In a long-term relationship and your sex life has taken a nosedive? You're not alone. Nobody gets proper training in how to sustain connection and sexual desire in a long-term relationship or marriage, so why would we know how to keep the erotic home fires burning after the initial spark wears off? The...

Intimate relationships are breeding grounds for entitlement to surface. And it's understandable that this theme would bubble up in certain partnerships. If we're being honest with ourselves, we all have an entitled child inside of us who wants life to be easier than it sometimes feels. Who would...

Every single person on the planet would benefit from seeing a therapist at multiple points throughout their lives. Whether it's for navigating a significant transition (like leaving high school, entering the work force, first experience with death, getting married, becoming a parent, first major breakup...

My partner Demetra and I have lived together for a little over a year. We are committed to each other. We talk about getting married in the not-so-distant future. And each time our relationship has gone a layer deeper, we have both had a corresponding layer of fear accompany it. "What if she...

Think your chronic masturbation habit could be negatively impacting your relationship? Well, you may be right. And you’re also not alone. If you don’t spend much time on internet forums, you probably missed the millions of men who have already been sharing their struggles in love and sex, and...

Want to dirty talk to your man in all the perfect ways that are guaranteed to get a mind-melting, cock-stiffening response? I’m about to break down the deeper mechanics of what turns him on, and give you some examples of it in action, so you can start pressing his buttons, and even improvise your own...

The handjob has become a forgotten sexual art. Since most of us tend to think of them as brief stopovers on the way to sex, they don’t get the attention they deserve, nor do they reach anywhere near their full erotic pleasure potential. When done right, a handjob can be nothing short of a mind-blowing...

For a man to place two feet fully into a relationship, he needs to feel that certain key boxes are checked in his life. When they aren’t, he won’t be able to feel a clear “Yes,” which may cause him to feel ambiguous and resistant around committing to a woman. Based on the title of this article, you...