Dec 8, 2019

7 Steps To Financial Freedom

The majority of the world lives paycheque to paycheque with little to no savings in the bank.

And not having money sucks.

Imagine waking up in the morning with zero debt. Imagine never having to worry about how you are going to pay for your rent/mortgage/groceries ever again. Imagine waking up with hundreds of thousands of dollars in your bank account. It’s all possible. Depending on your current situation, it might take a lot of work and sacrifice, but, ultimately, money is a game. And if you don’t know the rules, then the game is probably playing you.

And (and I know that it’s not the most-bestest writing to start a sentence with ‘and’, especially two in a row, but) if you are fortunate enough to be able to access the internet and be reading this article, then guess what, you are in the luckiest percentile of humans that have ever existed and you have more control over your financial reality than essentially all of the humans who have come before you (as I will explain further in the later steps of this piece).

Regardless of your current situation, the following seven steps will help you get to a place of financial freedom sooner than anything else.

1. Write down your current fixed expenses

You can’t navigate the stormy seas towards financial freedom if you don’t have your finger on the pulse of your current financial situation.

Write down all of your fixed expenses, so they’re staring you right in the face.

Rent/mortgage. Property taxes. Groceries. Restaurants. Gym membership. Medication. Clothing. Netflix, Spotify, Tinder Plus… write it all down.

Once you have all of your fixed/monthly/recurring expenses, right there on the page in front of you…

2. Question the necessity of your recurring charges

Question every expense that you are currently paying, so that, ultimately, you can save more of what you are making.

Do you need to be spending that much on rent or could you be a bit less fancy and live in a less expensive place for a few years? Do you have to go to a nice gym or could you buy your own exercise equipment and save $1,000/year? Do you need to eat out as much as you do, or could you save money by making yourself your own meals more often? Do you need to have your own Netflix account or could you split a family plan with someone?

In this step, you want to question both the size of each expense (could your rent/phone bill be minimized by some new decisions?) and the necessity of each one (do you need to spend $100/month on a gym membership when you could buy $200 worth of gym gear and workout from home?).

The more you can minimize your recurring expenses, the more money you will have at your disposal.

3. Pay off any debts, in order of interest rate

Not all debt is created equal. For example, credit card debt from your late-night shopping addiction is very different from the mortgage that you have (because the latter builds equity, whereas the former is like throwing your cash into a dumpster fire).

If you have debt that you are working at paying off, make paying it off one of your life’s highest priorities. Just like compound interest works in your favour when you are investing money into high-earning savings account, compound interest also works against you when have debt accumulated. The fire that warms you can also burn you.

Pay your debts off in the order of the interest rate on them. In other words, if you have a credit card that charges you 19% interest and another that charges you 5% interest, pay off the 19% credit card first so that you don’t just end up paying a ton of extra money paying off interest while barely chipping away at the principal amount.

Last note on this… when you have debt, become aware and disciplined enough that you have such a tight action plan on paying off your debt that you can name the exact date that you will have paid your debt off by. If doing the math of this hurts your brain too much to figure out (many people enter a fog when money talk comes out, which is understandable) then go to your bank and ask to speak to a financial advisor so you can get a concrete action plan to pay off your debt in a timely manner.

4. Create an emergency fund

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Once all of your debt is paid off, the next step up the leader towards financial freedom is to build up your emergency fund.

At minimum, your emergency fund should be $1,000 that you stash away in a savings account (that you can name ‘DO NOT TOUCH’) for legitimate emergencies only. And, in case it’s unclear, beers with friends does not qualify as an emergency, no matter how much community matters to you.

After that, do what it takes to slowly grow your emergency fund so that you are sitting on $20,000-30,000 (or whatever six months of living expenses looks like for you), so that you can be prepared for anything that could come up. Life happens. You might need a new set of tires for your car. Or maybe you get sick and have to take a full month off from work. Whatever comes up, you’ll be prepared. After you have six months of savings, build up twelve months of savings. When you are at that level, you should start looking more seriously into investing your excess cash flow into various investment accounts (401(k), IRA, RRSP, TFSA, GIC’s, etc.).

The point of the emergency fund is to not touch it. It’s there in case you need it, so it should be relatively liquid (a financial term that basically just means readily accessible), but ideally also accumulating interest over time.

5. Slowly integrate small sacrifices

Whether you’re looking to slowly phase out unproductive financial habits (ex. $8 iced coffee three times a day) or regularly contribute to a savings/investment account, the key is to go slowly.

Sure, some people benefit from the all-or-nothing, dive-right-in approach, and all the power to them. But your financial habits were formed over many years, so there’s a chance that it will take a bit of time to start relearning more helpful financial habits going forward.

If you’re used to eating out for all of your meals, start by just making your breakfasts at home. Or if you’ve never put any money into a savings account ever, start by putting $20 into an investment account just to see what can happen when you integrate a small habit. $20 might sound like a relatively insignificant amount of money… but if you invested $20 a week into a savings account, in 50 years you would have just under $700,000. So this stuff adds up over time.

6. Figure out ways to add more value to the world

Cutting down on your expenses and pinching pennies only gets you so far. At a certain point in your financial trajectory, it becomes much more productive to focus on how you can make more money, (and not getting stuck in the loop of continually obsessing over saving a high percentage of your low income).

Now, before you say, ‘But Jordan… we’re not all built to be entrepreneurs. I can’t just create extra revenue streams out of thin air!’… I would challenge that line of thinking.

If you think about it, historically speaking, the option of not being at least somewhat self-employed is a relatively new concept. Before the industrialization of the west, where factories and major corporations sprang up and offered us employment, people had to largely fend for themselves. So when someone tells me that they don’t have a lick of entrepreneurial tendencies to lean on, but that they do want to make more money happen in their lives, well, I call bullshit.

Besides all of that, when you look at it in the context of human history, the amount of opportunity that we all have now at our finger tips is truly unparalleled.

You can upgrade your skills and abilities (for many professions) for free by studying in local libraries, searching it up on YouTube or Google, using readily available online resources… hell, you can even take free courses from Stanford and Harvard online. You can also use the internet to create revenue streams (selling physical products, digital products, or services) in a matter of minutes. The tools have never been more readily available.

You can’t increase the number of hours that you have in a day, but you can always increase the amount of value that you can add to the world per hour. Value is what makes the world go round. Stop thinking about money, start thinking about value.

7. Put all of your non-essential money into a savings account/retirement fund that utilizes compound interest

Now that you’re in touch with your essential monthly expenses, and you also have a sense of how much money you’re bringing in on a monthly basis, your next task is to allocate the highest percentage of your money possible into a savings/investment account that utilizes the magic of compound interest.

For the uninitiated, compound interest is just a fancy way of saying your invested money makes money, and then your bonus and the bonus money that you made also makes money. And on and on forever.

Over time, compound interest works wonders for your overall savings. This isn’t 1+1=2. But rather, it’s closer to 1+1=11.

Here’s a few quick examples, just to show you how powerful this stuff is.

– Lets say that you have $100,000 in savings, and you want to buy a house in 10 years. You decide that you can invest $3,000/month into your savings account to work towards your goal of becoming a home owner. If you invest in an account that gives you an average of 8% returns year over year, at the end of that 10 year period, you will have saved/earned $770,802.13 (which is over $310,000 in accumulated interest – aka bonus money).

– You’re 20 years old, and you plan on always making a more modest income, because working feverishly to make a lot of annual income doesn’t really appeal to your values. Fair enough! If you put away just $20 a week for 50 years, by the time that you fully retire at 70 years old, you will have saved/earned $690,254.15. More than enough money to live on for the remainder of your years (since you only take out a portion of that money per year, while the majority of that money continues to make interest for you).

You get the picture. Stashing your savings away pays off, especially if you’re someone who prefers to not be super active in managing (i.e. day trading, playing the stock market, etc.) their money.

Also, if you haven’t already seen it, my article 9 Things Everyone Should Know About Money is a good companion piece to this one.

That’s it for today! I hope that you enjoyed this resource, and that you received value from it.

The long story short of it all is this: live humbly, add a lot of value to the world, and put your money to work for you. That’s the whole secret. When you go from seeing money as a thing to buy stuff with, to seeing each dollar as a seed that can grow into a money tree that creates more money, then you’re already on the path to increased financial freedom.

Also, if you are on my website’s email list, be sure to hit ‘Reply’ to an email from me and let me know what you liked the most about this piece, or if you have any requests for articles/topics you would like to see me dive into in the near future.

Dedicated to your success,

Jordan

Ps. If you enjoyed this article, you will likely also love checking out the following resources:

CASH – my video program outlining everything you need to know in order to drastically improve your relationship with money (and learn to generate more money in the process)

9 Things Everyone Should Know About Money

6 Money Arguments Couples Have (And How To Resolve Them)

Jordan Gray
About Jordan Gray

Jordan Gray has been a sex and relationship coach for over 15+ years, with his work reaching over 200 million people worldwide. His writing has been featured in Vogue, GQ, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and countless other publications around the world. When he’s not working with 1-on-1 coaching clients or writing a new article, he’s most likely to be found reading, chopping wood, or spending time with his wife on a little island off the west coast of Canada.

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