Posts with tag vulnerability

The Warm Hands That Thawed My Heart In Paris
In May 2013, after backpacking through Southeast Asia for three months with a friend, I travelled alone to Paris, France.
It was my first time in Europe and I was terrified.
I spent my first few days in town searching for appropriate clothes because, as it turns out, it is the ultimate faux pas if...
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The One Practice That Saves More Relationships Than Anything Else
People often ask me “What’s the one piece of advice you’d give for people to have the best relationship possible?”
I dislike the paint by numbers approach because every relationship needs different things. It’s all so personalized. There is no magic bullet that will make sense for every recipient at...
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How To Let Yourself Be Seen By Someone
Letting someone get close enough to hurt you is a terrifying concept for most people.
But when you are offered an intimate relationship with someone who has the power, ability, and desire to go deep with you, it’s a shame to not be able to take advantage of that opportunity.
Whether you’ve just...
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We Are Wild, And We Are Tender
We are more wild, and more tender than we allow ourselves be in bed.
Regardless of our gender, the range of our sexuality has been repressed, limited, and shamed into a corner since we were young.
We are simultaneously tantalized and chastised.
We are taught to suppress sexual desire… hide our bodies…...
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Strength In Vulnerability
Strength In Vulnerability
When I tell guys that my coaching practice has a strong element of getting men re-connected with themselves, their integrity, and their ability to be vulnerable, the responses are predictable.
"But isn't being vulnerable seen as weak, and therefore...
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