Jan 4, 2019

I Want To Fucking Destroy You

I want to make you a sweaty, bloody mess

Sink my teeth into shoulder and tear off the flesh

Leave marks on you that last for weeks

Passion rushed, limbs crushed underneath

Forget your name. Forget your place.

Envelop torso so tightly, hear brittle bones break

Tongue so deep in your mouth, you disappear

A touch of tenderness, a touch of fear

I want to obliterate you. I want to fuck you to God. Press down on you until you are only a shimmering mass of sensation.

Mmmake whatever little sounds you need to

Use what little you have left of your mouth to speak

Stilted breath,
little death

Come undone with your legs around me

Devour you. Crush you. Own you.

Surrender.

Jordan Gray
About Jordan Gray

Jordan Gray has been a sex and relationship coach for over 15+ years, with his work reaching over 200 million people worldwide. His writing has been featured in Vogue, GQ, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and countless other publications around the world. When he’s not working with 1-on-1 coaching clients or writing a new article, he’s most likely to be found reading, chopping wood, or spending time with his wife on a little island off the west coast of Canada.

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