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Ever wondered exactly why men love blowjobs? Besides the baseline explanation of 'they feel good'? The majority of men don't primarily love blowjobs because they're an act of submission. Or because it means he gets to momentarily feel powerful. Or because he sees it as payback for all of the things...

I was walking home from the grocery store today when I witnessed something truly special. It gave me a tremendous feeling of hope for humanity, and I'd like to share it with you. ... A mother was walking down the sidewalk with her son. She was in her 30's. She walked in a straight line. And she was...

You hear the advice of "love yourself first" from so many sources throughout your life. But what does that actually mean? While I think that it's wrong/damaging/ridiculous to tell people that they can't be loved by others until they love themselves (*ahem*... of course you can... you not loving...

A few weeks ago, I received a first-of-it's-kind email in my inbox. A long-term client of mine (named Joseph) told me that he and his wife of twelve years were going to take an extended vacation with each other. Their shared business was essentially running on autopilot and they had more than enough...

Ever wish you could last longer in bed? Increase your sexual stamina? Have sex for hours without stopping? Well, I have good news. You're not alone! This is by far one of the most commonly asked questions that I get from my male readers… so today, I want to answer this question to the fullest extent...

I was lying on the sidewalk. Cold, January concrete supporting my head. Tears streaming down the sides of my face towards my ears. Over a dozen pairs of feet raced by me before someone acknowledged my strange placement. “Are you alright brother?”, an eventual stranger asked. “I think I might be having...

On a monthly basis, my readers send me hundreds of various questions about sex, sexual pleasure, and sexual satisfaction in intimate relationships… "How do I bring back the spark to my sex life with my wife/husband/partner?" "How can I let my partner know what I want in bed... without...

On the heels of the success of my article What Amazing Sex Feels Like For Women, I've had multiple requests to write a follow up from the male perspective. And I aim to please! So, this time, I reached out to my five most eloquent, self-aware male friends (who are all non-writers). Then I asked them...

I believe in loving like you give a shit. I believe in being overly affectionate in public. Even if it means that those who are envious label you as 'that couple' or tell you to get a room. I believe in flirting with someone you’ve been with for years. I believe in seeking out our barriers to intimacy...

A first-of-it's-kind question landed in my inbox a few days ago... Here it is in its entirety (shared anonymously with permission from the sender): "I got out of a relationship a few months ago (okay, six months ago) and I've been doing pretty well. My life is going well, I like what I do, and...