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Although this is the first time I’ve written about it publicly, the issue of sexual abuse is one that is very important to me. I have had multiple friends and lovers who have had sexual abuse in their past (either early childhood or later in life) and, with the average statistic saying that 1 in 3 women...

While sexual technique is certainly a part of every amazing lovers skill set, it’s mayyyyybe worth 10-20% of the entire package. Because the truth is… when it comes to being an amazing lover, your presence, passion, and desire for your lover will trump that twirly tongue thing you can do ten times out...

I’ve written about sex exercises for men in the past, but not like I’m about to today. A lot of men have nerves/anxiety around their sexual performance because they aren’t sure if they’ll be able to have the level of control over their bodies that they hope for. Which makes it so vital to remember the...

I received this question from a handful of people this past week and figured I’d post my answer publicly. “I’m really starting to fall for someone… and it’s been a while since I’ve been in a relationship. Is there anything I should be watching out for? Common traps that people fall into, etc.?” There’s...

There is a serious affliction sweeping the world. People are fucking. But that’s not the bad news. Not at all. The bad news is they’re fucking like they don’t give a fuck. Imagine being on a Hawaiian beach for a visually stunning sunset… but standing with your back to it. Imagine being offered the...

Have you ever had the experience of walking into a room and seeing dozens of people having sex with each other? Well, until last year, I hadn’t. My heart was pounding on the way to the venue. My girlfriend (at the time) and I made small talk with our cab driver to take our minds off of the fact...

Is your sub-par sex life seriously sucking as of late? Do you wish you had sex more often with your significant other? Do you wish you both spent more time on foreplay? Do you wish that, just once, your partner would be the one to initiate sex? Here’s a novel idea… Ask them. No matter how emotionally...

I feel like I would have benefitted a lot from being given a basic lesson in what the core emotions are, how they feel, and what they meant when I was a little boy. Alas, our emotional education is essentially non-existent. There have been times where my body, mind, and heart have been telling...

One of the worst things that we do in our intimate relationships is make assumptions. We assume that our partners receive love in the same manner that we do. We assume that our partners expect the same things from marriage. We assume that our partner defines monogamy the same as we do. The assumptions...

I have worked with countless couples over the past several years on helping them have the most intensely satisfying intimate relationships possible. And through my time as a relationship coach I have noticed a major trend. There are two primary types of couples that come to me… Couples that are struggling...