Attraction

Clearing: The Single Greatest Connection Exercise For Couples
Dec 25, 2016
Jordan Gray
Clearing: The Single Greatest Connection Exercise For Couples
Have you ever heard of clearing exercises? They are the single greatest ways for couples to reconnect, work through arguments, and tap into a sense of clarity and ease in their relationship. Throughout the course of a relationship, many unspoken things can accumulate and begin to turn into emotional...
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You Are Allowed To Want What You Want
Nov 12, 2016
Jordan Gray
You Are Allowed To Want What You Want
Repeat after me… “I am allowed to want what I want.” Say it out loud. Don’t worry… I’ll wait. “I am allowed to want what I want.” Done? How did that feel? If you’re like most people, there’s probably a combination of a little bit of fear/nervousness, mixed in with a deep sense of peace and calm. It...
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Do Something About It
Oct 1, 2016
Jordan Gray
Do Something About It
Life expands and contracts to the degree that you courageously move in the direction of your desires. In other words, you will be consistently rewarded for taking action, or consistently punished for doing nothing. Even more simply… If you’re not happy with something in your life… DO SOMETHING...
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The Single Most Damaging Thing I Learned As A Pickup Artist
Aug 6, 2016
Jordan Gray
The Single Most Damaging Thing I Learned As A Pickup Artist
From 2009-2012 I worked as a pickup artist. Technically, it was a milder version of pickup. We taught social skills (conversational agility, eye contact, humour, body language, etc.) to people with some level of social anxiety but it was almost always within the context of approaching and dating women. And...
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This Woman Changed My Life Forever
Jul 30, 2016
Jordan Gray
This Woman Changed My Life Forever
At the beginning of 2014 I set out with the intention to fall more deeply in love with myself than I ever had before. And when I get an idea in my head, I commit to it fully. I hired a self-love coach that I checked in with at least once per week. I started working with a therapist to dig into some...
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How To Write A Relationship Contract (With Examples)
Jun 13, 2016
Jordan Gray
How To Write A Relationship Contract (With Examples)
Have you ever heard of a relationship contract (also sometimes referred to as a relationship agreement)? There have been a few references to them in recent pop culture (most notably between Mark Zuckerberg and his wife Priscilla, on the TV show The Big Bang Theory, and - a version of one - in Fifty...
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Why Your Partner Can’t Be Your Everything
Jun 4, 2016
Jordan Gray
Why Your Partner Can’t Be Your Everything
You have been sold a fantasy that can never come true. One of the worst things that the era of romantic love has taught you is that you are supposed to find a soul mate in a significant other who will be able to meet all of your needs flawlessly, often without even having to communicate their needs...
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This Is Why You Need To Repel People
May 22, 2016
Jordan Gray
This Is Why You Need To Repel People
At the time of my writing these words, I’ve been a full time sex and relationship coach for about seven years. And in that time I’ve heard from a lot of people around the world who chronically get this one thing wrong about life… Whether they're going on first date, setting up an online dating profile,...
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The Intentional Life Ep.1: Discover Your Core Gifts With Ken Page
May 16, 2016
Jordan Gray
The Intentional Life Ep.1: Discover Your Core Gifts With Ken Page
I sent out a survey to my readers a few months ago asking what people wanted to see more of, and there was a huge vote for more free video content. Well, ask and you shall receive! Introducing (drum roll please...), the first episode of The Intentional Life video series. In today's episode,...
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Three Things That Everyone Needs In A Partner
Apr 24, 2016
Jordan Gray
Three Things That Everyone Needs In A Partner
There are three things everyone needs in a partner. Find someone with one or two of these traits, and you will forever feel like something is lacking in your partnership. Find someone with all three of these things and you may find yourself surprisingly attracted to someone who you tell yourself isn’t...
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