Committing To You
For a man to place two feet fully into a relationship, he needs to feel that certain key boxes are checked in his life.
When they aren’t, he won’t be able to feel a clear “Yes,” which may cause him to feel ambiguous and resistant around committing to a woman.
Based on the title of this article, you might think I’m about to talk about women’s side of things – or what it is about you that makes men wary. But it’s the exact opposite. This is not personal at all.
Because the biggest reasons that truly keep a man from being able to commit are largely within himself.
Yes, there has to be the compatibility and attraction. But there are endless instances where those two components were there between two people, yet the man’s next step toward commitment just couldn’t seem to happen.
That’s because he needs to have specific things aligned and organized within his own life in order to feel fully open to a woman, and able to choose her – no matter how good of a fit she may be for him.
The following points are things that not all men are necessarily able to see at work within themselves. But with these in your awareness, you might be able to see through confusing situations and more easily recognize the truth of the matter, to tell whether a man is truly ready to commit, or not.
Also, a man’s readiness to commit is not a value judgment on how good of a man he is. Everyone is at different stages, and ready for different types of relationships.
This is just speaking specifically to women who are seeking commitment, and have been wondering why many men they date seem reluctant to reciprocate.
This is meant to help you better discern which men are the best fit for you, and, more importantly, not take it personally if they can’t choose to be with you.
So, here are the 4 little-known common reasons why men might not be committing to you, and they go deeper than you might expect.