Posts with tag coaching

One of the biggest problems that many of my clients face in their intimate relationships is battling their inner innate sense of worthiness. That is to say, they don't feel worthy of love from someone outside of themselves unless certain conditions are being met first. Well, guess what... here's...

One of the most surprising things that I discovered when I sent out a survey to my readers a few months ago is that almost 50% of my followers are self-employed and/or entrepreneurs, with a healthy portion of those people being largely online based. Along with having these kinds of readers, I get a...

I received this question from a handful of people this past week and figured I’d post my answer publicly. “I’m really starting to fall for someone… and it’s been a while since I’ve been in a relationship. Is there anything I should be watching out for? Common traps that people fall into, etc.?” There’s...

I feel like I would have benefitted a lot from being given a basic lesson in what the core emotions are, how they feel, and what they meant when I was a little boy. Alas, our emotional education is essentially non-existent. There have been times where my body, mind, and heart have been telling...

One of the worst things that we do in our intimate relationships is make assumptions. We assume that our partners receive love in the same manner that we do. We assume that our partners expect the same things from marriage. We assume that our partner defines monogamy the same as we do. The assumptions...

I have worked with countless couples over the past several years on helping them have the most intensely satisfying intimate relationships possible. And through my time as a relationship coach I have noticed a major trend. There are two primary types of couples that come to me… Couples that are struggling...

Some of my clients come to me when they’re feeling their most frustrated and hopeless. They repeat the mantras that are graffitied all over the protective walls surrounding their hearts… “There are no good ones left.” “All men are liars.” “Women just want to get close so that they can treat you poorly...

People often ask me “What’s the one piece of advice you’d give for people to have the best relationship possible?” I dislike the paint by numbers approach because every relationship needs different things. It’s all so personalized. There is no magic bullet that will make sense for every recipient at...

Every person comes into relationships with some sort of expectations. Expectations around how they want to be loved. Expectations around how frequently they will communicate with each other. Expectations around what their sex lives will look like. Truly, the potential number of expectations...

The purpose of any and every relationship in your life is healing. Whether it’s the healing you’re aware of… your ex that you want to get over, your low self-esteem that you’re trying to raise, or your sexual confidence that you’re trying to boost. The healing you’re partially aware of… the lingering...