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I was in Bali, Indonesia when I met the most mesmerizing woman of my life. Covered from head to toe in flowing, elegant garments, she had the most feminine energy packed in to one human being that I had ever been witness to. And she literally took my breath away. Her motions were effortless....

Want to feel raw masculine energy coursing through your veins? Maybe you have an important date tonight. Maybe you have an important project to complete. Maybe you want to bring back the spark to the bedroom. Whatever your reason, levelling up your masculine energy is simple when you know...

The courting phase of your relationship shouldn't end just because you tied the knot. If you actively date your partner (the one that you are already with, of course), you will appreciate them that much more and your relationship will thrive. You know that investing in your relationship is important,...

Before studying attraction and human sexuality I found myself judging people a lot. When people cheated, I found no empathy in my heart for them. When men wouldn't settle down with women who were clearly amazing for them, I dismissed them as non-committers point blank. When people complained...

There is the common misconception out there that chivalry died a painful death many years ago. Is this true? Hardly. Side note: Just so we're all on the same page here… I will define chivalry as the act of being polite to someone else (this doesn't have to be a male acting politely towards a...

I was at one of the lowest points of my life a year and a half ago… I was depressed, unfulfilled, and having frequent panic attacks. I was in a relationship that drained me, a job that I resented, and felt incongruent with who I was and what I was doing. One morning, I woke up and decided that...

"Romance is for the unmarried." "Chivalry is dead." "Real men aren't romantic." I've heard these sentiments uttered by people throughout my life. And what a load of crap. The truth? All men have the ability to be romantic. Granted, many guys are afraid to do romantic things because they...

People love clinging to their excuses. "I would have a six pack… but I just can't find the time to dedicate to it." "I want to start my own business… but I've got bills to pay." "I want to travel the world… but I have kids/a job/a mortgage that keeps me in one place." Excuses...

In western society we are raised with an independence-is-the-only-way mindset. And this does so much damage to us it's ridiculous. You walk down the street and see women sporting t-shirts that say "100% single" or "I don't need no man". You hear men bragging about how long they've been single for...

Intimacy can be downright terrifying. I have had dozens of clients over the past few years who have described a sense of fear in allowing someone to see them emotionally. They feared getting close. They feared being comforted. They feared laying their heads down on their partner's chest because the...