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Last week I released the article The Best Sex Toy For Men, Ever. And, understandably, my female followers wanted to see an article written with them in mind. Now, I’ve never inhabited a female body in this lifetime, and am ill equipped to say what works best for women. So I enlisted the help of my thousands...

If you’re toying with the idea of investing in your sexual pleasure, then you’ve come to the right place. There’s a general perception of male sex toys as being silly and superfluous. I mean… why buy sex toys when you have a perfectly good hand to use? Just because it’s relatively easier for men to...

“How can I improve my emotional intelligence?” I’ve had three clients ask me this question over the last week, and whenever something pops up that frequently, I usually take it as a sign that it needs it’s own article. What is emotional intelligence? How does having it improve your life? Is it something...

Whatever pattern is trying to make itself known to you in your life, it will keep getting louder until you start paying attention to it. Have you ever had a pattern repeatedly offered up to you to learn from, but as you ignored the initial warning signs, the pattern’s only option became making itself...

According to recent studies, you make approximately 35,000 decisions per day. Throughout a 24 hour period, the thoughts run rampant in your head. What do I feel like eating for breakfast today? How many times should I soap myself down in the shower? Which shoes should I wear? Should I leave him/her?...

Your habits make you who you are. This isn’t a new concept. What you do, you become. Small actions done consistently over time add up and become much larger things. Small things done over time add up into pleasure, joy, and comfort. Those same things neglected over time lead to pain, disease, discomfort,...

“Porn is ruining intimacy.” “Porn actors are all being forced into modern day sex slavery.” “Porn is permanently damaging and messes with your brain’s arousal response.” Do a quick online search for research about pornography and you'll find that the vast majority of articles are about it’s damaging,...

I was sitting in my men’s group last night when one of the men revealed that he had been suffering with depression and suicidal ideation for the past several weeks. Without prompting, half a dozen of the guys in the room started to rattle off some of the least productive things that you can say to someone...

Life expands and contracts to the degree that you courageously move in the direction of your desires. In other words, you will be consistently rewarded for taking action, or consistently punished for doing nothing. Even more simply… If you’re not happy with something in your life… DO SOMETHING...

A few years ago my 50+ year old dad told me that he had never been happier at any other point in his life, and I thought that he was kidding himself. How could this be? As you get older, everyone you know starts to die… you only get more responsibility and things to manage… and you get all saggy and...