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Every man wants to be a better lover. For many men, the thought of being unable to provide a lasting and deeply fulfilling sexual experience for his partner is something that causes stress and anxiety. You want to give the kind of sexual performance that has you hoping she’ll brag about it to her friends...

How do you find a balance between striving for greatness and finding contentment in the present moment? Striving, or whatever you want to call it- being driven, yearning, reaching for the stars- comes at a cost if you don't balance it with enjoying what you have already achieved. Whether you are...

If you chronically date partners that you feel are "safe" or that are just simply incompatible with you, it can be a frustrating habit to maintain. Maybe you are in a really good place in your life (you're fit, intelligent, personable, and *ahem* modest) and yet you find yourself sliding into relationships...

Her arms are crossed. She’s stopped communicating with you entirely. She's reluctant to make eye contact with you… and when she does look your way, her gaze is hollow and icy. You rack your brain for what you could have done… What did you say? Did your flirty banter with that waitress over lunch go...

Your sexual energy is the greatest and most potent form of energy available to you. You can either squander it or utilize it to its fullest potential and let it supercharge your life. Anecdotal evidence and emerging studies suggest that having fewer orgasms could make you into a more productive,...

Alright, buckle up. I'm going to paradigm shift how you perceive your intimate relationships for the rest of your life. There's this thing called sexual polarity. Basically, it works just like a magnet… in the way that opposites attract. This is how humans work too (with masculine and feminine...

Are you settling in your relationship? According to Dean C. Delis, author of The Passion Trap, every relationship has a reacher and a settler. A reacher is the "one-down" partner who is dating someone who is somewhat out of their league. The settler is the "one-up" partner who could do better,...

Humans are fairly predictable creatures. Because of this, we crave a sense of differentiation. We all want to be unique. We want to feel special. We want to believe that the rules that apply to all people don’t automatically apply to us. But you know something… It's okay to be human. And...

Your retinas are burning from the glow of your computer screen. Your neck is tense as you type away for the tenth hour of your work day. You forgot to break for lunch. You can feel your eyelids threatening to close; your wrists are already aching. But you just have to finish these last few tasks. After...

You're a few months (or years) into your relationship and you're wondering whether or not this particular pairing has potential. You feel like you've wasted time with past partners and you don't want to make the same mistake again. Well, you're in luck. Having counselled hundreds of people over the...