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Being a loving Dominant (Dom) is something you master over time, after much practice, creativity, and self-development. This article will help guide you on your path by defining the role, as well as giving tips and examples of how to work with your sub. First, what is BDSM? BDSM stands for...

There is more to being a great submissive (sub) than just doing what you're told. A good sub is someone who consciously surrenders control from an empowered position, and actively co-creates a positive climate of obedience. To be truly obedient and a great submissive, you need to first be deeply in...

(Trigger warning for people who fear hard truths, self-responsibility, and tough love.) Allllllllright… I just got a reader email that made my blood boil. So this is going to be a rant. But don’t worry… it’ll be a valuable rant. Here we go. This email (from Laurie in San Diego, CA) landed...

The digital world and all of our devices have created tons of opportunities, but that sword has a double-edge. The technology and pace of this new way of life is constantly pulling us out of our bodies and into our heads, while throwing in an endless barrage of distractions along the way. For many...

Becoming a black-belt lover doesn't have anything to do with getting harder, faster, stronger, or memorizing anatomy charts. Yes, physical stature and core strength might improve your endurance and how acrobatic or pretzel-shaped you can get while fucking. But they're not the answer. These things can...

In the summer of 2018, I decided that I wanted to learn how to backflip. Being 6’7 (2.01m), this seemed like an impossible task. My internal dialogue rattled on... "Am I too lanky to pull this off? Do my legs have to work harder to launch my giant body off of the ground? Will I land on my head...

Men seem to think having a big penis is all glory, positives, and upsides. But that's hardly the case. Having a plus-sized penis just creates a whole new set of issues and anxieties. Guys often relish in the porn-style fantasy of dropping their towel to reveal a humongous dingus, only to have the woman...

Is your penis smaller than you'd ideally like it to be? Are you worried it's not big enough to satisfy a woman, or have good sex? If so, you're probably buying into a big load of bullshit and false ideas perpetuated by the media. I'm going to tell you why having a smaller penis is actually a good thing,...

I was talking to a client the other week, and he mentioned that he regretted a year long relationship that had recently come to an end in his life. This isn’t the first time I’ve heard someone saying that they wished they could undo the fact that an intimate relationship had taken place. If this is...

Sexting is a brand new skill we rarely ever talk about, but it’s vital to stoke a spicy relationship in the modern, digital age. Don't know how to do it, or how far to go? Feeling shy or silly about it in general? Perfect. This is your one-stop, crash course on why sexting is awesome, how to navigate...