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Do you fear ending up alone forever? Do you have a deep-down gnawing sense that you’ll never truly be happy until you find your life partner? Well, what if a magic fairy came along and promised you, with absolute certainty, that you would end up alone forever? That you would never find...

Does therapy actually work or is it just a bunch of hoity-toity bullshit for rich people who want to complain to a stranger about their problems? Myths and stereotypes abound about talk-based therapy. People think that therapists ‘shrink’ heads. Or that therapy clients are simply ‘na...

Looking for a libido boosting cocktail to supercharge your sexual efforts? If you're living a healthy lifestyle (eating well, sleeping well, exercising, etc.) then your sex drive should be in tip-top shape on it's own. But there are times when you might want a little bump in your sex drive. Maybe...

Ever thought of joining (or being in) a weekly men's group? Do you hear the concept of men's groups popping up more and more in the cultural lexicon and you're curious as to what they're all about? Over the last four years I have been a member of a weekly men's group. I have mentioned this in...

You know what I’m really tired of? Articles that promise the fastest, easiest, lowest-barrier-to-entry bullshit tips on how men can improve themselves. Since when are we all after the quick and easy silver bullet? Have we collectively become that lazy as a society that we’re all perpetually...

Porn induced erectile dysfunction can slowly ruin your love life... especially if you don't know how to effectively reverse it. Are you a relatively healthy guy, but you have trouble getting firm, lasting erections during sex? Do you need to get lost in mental fantasies to get...

You know the old story… Men are sex obsessed, sports loving, money-providing, simple minded neanderthals… and women are talkative, career-tolerating, husband-seeking, baby-making machines. Stereotypes are super useful… if you’re a hack stand-up comedian. In the real world, stereotypes simply...

I grew up in a fairly financially literate household. My dad was a serial entrepreneur with a high tolerance for calculated risk, and my mom was the more conservative one who had a mind for resourcefulness. In short, my dad earned and my mom saved, and they made a great match for each other...

An often passed around quote in 12 step groups is “You’re only as sick as your secrets.” And I believe this to be true in the most literal sense. (My opinion aside, new research shows that keeping secrets has a significant negative impact on health and well-being) When...

I sent out an email to one of my sex-specific email lists the other week and asked 10,000+ people a simple question... "What is your biggest sexual secret?" I then went on to say that they could answer that however they want. It could be a secret about something sexual they had experienced... or...