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Today, more than ever, people are psychologically soft. We have been raised in a time of unprecedented ease, comfort, and convenience. We are, on a daily basis, guarded from the painful realities of life. We avoid real-time romantic rejection by swiping left and right on the faces of strangers. We...

Looking to be more attractive to your man? What a beautiful intention! Go you! Over time, it’s not uncommon for the passion, sexual tension, and romantic energy to dwindle in a relationship. Now, this isn’t an inevitability of being in a long-term relationship (I know many couples who have highly charged...

Looking to optimize your foreplay abilities? Wondering how you can get your partner "in the mood" for sex more often? Want to increase the overall amount of eroticism and spice in your relationship and sex life on a daily basis (in and out of the bedroom)? This is the most comprehensive and deepest...

Butt Stuff. Tushy titillation. Rousing the rump. Fanny shenanigans. Whatever you want to call it... anal play is a hugely misunderstood treasure trove of sexual pleasure. Like many people, you might feel a bit of hesitation around trying it, whether you're worried it's "dirty", have had a bad experience,...

All of my life, I have loved tending to fires. When I was a little boy, one of my grandparents owned a small cabin a couple hours drive from my hometown. In this cabin, there was a wood burning fireplace. When I was around the age of six, my dad taught me how to set up a proper fire, and I was immediately...

I want to make you a sweaty, bloody mess Sink my teeth into shoulder and tear off the flesh Leave marks on you that last for weeks Passion rushed, limbs crushed underneath Forget your name. Forget your place. Envelop torso so tightly, hear brittle bones break Tongue so deep in your mouth, you disappear A...

Yesterday, a close friend of mine asked me for ideas on how to get their physical touch needs met outside of a relationship (as they are currently single) and I realized I had a lot more to say on the matter than I would have assumed. So, in this article, I am going to dive into seven ways that...

We are in the middle of a loneliness epidemic. Nearly half of Americans reported (sometimes or always) feeling alone, and over 40% said that they don’t have any relationships that feel meaningful. Rates of loneliness have doubled since the 1980’s.  Society often rewards isolation. It...

I, Jordan Gray, am a quote junkie.  Every close friend, confidante, and fellow growth warrior in the trenches of life alongside me knows that a pre-requisite of being in my life is being comfortable with me starting every fifth sentence with the words, “That reminds me of the quote…” I...

On January 18th, 1779, a young boy named Peter was born in London, England. Peter grew up in a small home with his mother, father, and younger sister. When Peter was just four years old, his father died, and it left a terrible mark on his heart. He felt powerless and heartbroken to have lost someone...