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Does Polyamory Ever Work?
Does polyamory ever work?
I received the following letter from a reader the other day.
"I’ve been struggling for the better part of several months dealing with leaving my ex for the second time (who came back early last year love bombing me for months, then completely shifting saying he wants to...
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3 Ways Men Energetically Castrate Themselves
For nearly any man, having their balls chopped off is one of the most terrifying scenarios imaginable.
If you have a scrotum, just reading that probably made it flinch.
But if it’s such a scary idea, then why do so many of us do it to ourselves every single day?
To understand energetic castration,...
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33 Ways For Men To Have Amazing Sex Without An Erection
Looking to have a passionate, dynamic sex life with your partner, without an erect penis?
You've come to the right place!
I've spent a good percentage of my life over the last decade talking to men about their penises.
For over five years, I was the #1 search result in the world for 'how to...
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How To Handle The Pain Of Sexual Rejection From Your Partner
Ever been sexually rejected by your partner?
If you've ever been in a relationship that's lasted longer than six months, the answer would be yes.
I recently got this email from a reader, and I decided to answer it in a long-form article, as I know that others would benefit from it.
Here's the letter,...
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7 Powerful Ways For Men To Revive A Dead Bedroom
In a long-term relationship and your sex life has taken a nosedive? You're not alone.
Nobody gets proper training in how to sustain connection and sexual desire in a long-term relationship or marriage, so why would we know how to keep the erotic home fires burning after the initial spark wears off?
The...
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5 Steps To Working Through Entitlement In Relationships
Intimate relationships are breeding grounds for entitlement to surface.
And it's understandable that this theme would bubble up in certain partnerships.
If we're being honest with ourselves, we all have an entitled child inside of us who wants life to be easier than it sometimes feels.
Who would...
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The 4 Most Valuable Things My Therapists Ever Told Me
Every single person on the planet would benefit from seeing a therapist at multiple points throughout their lives.
Whether it's for navigating a significant transition (like leaving high school, entering the work force, first experience with death, getting married, becoming a parent, first major breakup...
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3 Things To Do About Fear Of Your Partner Dying
My partner Demetra and I have lived together for a little over a year.
We are committed to each other. We talk about getting married in the not-so-distant future. And each time our relationship has gone a layer deeper, we have both had a corresponding layer of fear accompany it.
"What if she...
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7 Ways NoFap Improves Your Relationship (And Your Life)
Think your chronic masturbation habit could be negatively impacting your relationship?
Well, you may be right. And you’re also not alone.
If you don’t spend much time on internet forums, you probably missed the millions of men who have already been sharing their struggles in love and sex, and...
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83 Dirty Talk Phrases That Drive Men Wild
Want to dirty talk to your man in all the perfect ways that are guaranteed to get a mind-melting, cock-stiffening response?
I’m about to break down the deeper mechanics of what turns him on, and give you some examples of it in action, so you can start pressing his buttons, and even improvise your own...
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