Sex

Many couples struggle with reconciling large imbalances in their sex drives. Often the man is stereotyped with having a much higher libido. But sometimes it can be the woman. And it’s also not a static thing where each person just stays “that way” forever. It’s common for the sexual energy to ebb and...

What is a penis massage? A penis massage (aka “lingham” massage, in tantric lingo) is a structured process with emotional and physical techniques designed to deliver a deeply healing and pleasurable experience. Just like a regular massage in a spa, penis massage is a form of therapy. But the benefits...

What is a pussy massage? A pussy massage (aka “yoni” massage) uses specific emotional and physical techniques to deliver an erotic full body massage that focuses on/around the vulva. However, the power of this experience goes WAY beyond traditional body massage, where she would usually just be getting...

A few months ago, I sent out an email to my email list requesting that my female readers ask me absolutely anything they wanted to know about. Within 24 hours, I had received hundreds of responses. The #1 most common thing that they asked about? Men. More specifically, what men were thinking. What...

Hey! I wanted to quickly share three relationship tools that have been bringing a lot of value to my life this past year. Whether you are in a marriage of several decades, or you are currently single and want to put some additional tools in your toolkit for the next time you find an aligned significant...

"How do I keep the sexual spark and passion alive in my relationship?" This is one of the most asked questions by couples who've passed the first-year milestone. When they started dating, there was an automatic flurry of sexual sparks. They fucked like bunnies - every night, and every morning....

I frequently get asked for my top recommendations for self-help books in the men's development and sexuality realm. So I decided to compile a list. If you don't want to read through the entire article and read about why I think each book is great, and see some of my favourite quotes from each one,...

For men, educating yourself on how to have sex that helps guide your partner in to deep states of pleasure is a very noble intention. Not only are you being a solid guy by wanting to provide the opportunity for your partner to experience the maximum amounts of sexual pleasure possible, the pleasure...

Whether you believe it or not, anal pleasure is very, very real.  Being a champion for butt stuff can be tough sometimes. It kind of feels like you’re Galileo trying to convince people that Earth is not the centre of the solar system. Nobody believes you, and some don't even want to believe you, but...

Want to make him so turned on he's biting his lip and squirming in the sheets? Implementing these blowjob positions is a quick way to do exactly that. A blowjob is a great sexual tool to stoke his arousal, or your own, and create a specific energy. But like any tool, it can be used ineffectively and...