Ever heard of a breeding kink?
A breeding kink, also known as a breeding fetish or impregnation fetish, is when a person gets turned on by the idea of impregnation (either being impregnated or impregnating someone else).
Now, it’s important to note that a breeding kink does not necessarily mean that the person who has it actually wants to impregnate the person they’re sleeping with. In fact, it is quite common for people with this fetish to not actually want children. Some people with a breeding kink want children, and others with a breeding kink do not want children. So the two things (the kink and the desire for children) are entirely separate.
Why Is Breeding Kink A Kink?
Upon hearing about breeding kinks, some people have the (understandable) response of, “Wait… how is this a kink? Isn’t the act of engaging in procreation the most normal thing possible, and therefore not at all a kink?”
And this is an entirely rational response to have.
But it’s important to remember two things. First, that people with breeding kinks don’t necessarily want to have children. And second, people with breeding kinks don’t just find the concept somewhat appealing, but rather, they find it to be the most erotic thing possible. They are supremely turned on by thoughts (or role play, or activity) surrounding impregnation.
In the same way that someone might like legs and find thighs generally attractive and other people find legs/thighs extremely arousing, as it is with the concept of breeding/impregnation. In other words, it is a matter of intensity and degree.
How To Know If You Have A Breeding Kink
If you aren’t sure whether or not you have a breeding kink, here are a few questions to feel into.
– Do you often find yourself fantasizing about (if you’re a woman) being impregnated, being pregnant, or (if you’re a man) impregnating someone else?
– Have you ever fantasized about being coerced, pressured, or made to become pregnant/impregnate someone else?
– Does the idea of the risk of pregnancy excite you?
– Do you have an easier time reaching orgasm with your partner when they say or allude to things about pregnancy?
– Have you ever thought about being impregnated/impregnating someone while you self-pleasured?
If you can answer yes to one or several of the above questions, then there’s a good chance that you would find pleasure in playing with breeding kink phrases and/or role-play with a safe, trusted partner.
Differences Between Breeding Kink, Impregnation Kink, Creampie Kink, And Pregnancy Fetish
Some people who have heard of breeding kinks might be familiar with other tangentially related kinks and fetishes. And while many of them certainly have overlap with each other, they are indeed different sexual desires.
Here are the main differences between breeding kink, impregnation kink, creampie kink, and pregnancy fetish.
Breeding kink: breeding kink and impregnation kink are the most similar of the four on this list, so the difference is worth explaining. It’s also important to note that definitions will inevitably vary from person to person, couple to couple, because everything to do with sexual intimacy is infinitely nuanced and personal. The way that I see it, breeding kink often ties to more Dom/sub undertones because the impregnator uses the body of the impregnatee to carry their offspring. Whereas…
Impregnation kink: is more about the act, moment, or idea of impregnation, regardless of whether or not children are intended to result from the act. For example, a woman could be on birth control and still enjoy role-playing an impregnation kink with her partner.
Creampie kink: with this fetish, the act of ejaculating inside of a woman’s vagina is the most arousing part. Again, regardless of whether or not impregnation/children are intended as a result (in fact, they often aren’t).
Pregnancy fetish: and finally, the pregnancy fetish is an intense attraction to a woman who is already pregnant, especially visibly pregnant. To a person with a pregnancy fetish, it is often irrelevant whether or not they were the person who impregnated the pregnant woman. Simply being visibly pregnant is the external turn-on for a person with a pregnancy fetish.
Ways To Safely Explore A Breeding Kink
For obvious reasons, breeding kink (more than certain other kinks) is one that you want to be especially safe, sane, and consensual about.
You want to make sure that you and your sexual partner are on the same page about what it is that you’re doing, and what turns each of you on the most about it.
First, we’ll get into why it’s important to explore your breeding fetish with a safe and trusted person, and then we’ll get into a few examples of ways that you can explore your desire.
Why It’s Important To Choose A Safe, Trusted Partner
The potential consequences of a breeding or impregnation kink are more serious than others, so it’s necessary to only practice this kink with someone who you fully trust.
Have you known your sexual partner for some time? Do you know them to be honest, trustworthy, and a clear communicator?
Whether or not you and your partner actually want children, it’s important to discuss what your deeper desires actually are with each other.
For example, are you both actually trying to get pregnant, or is it just the idea that is sexy to you both? If you do want a child to come from the sex you’re engaging in, are you clear about the responsibility of raising a child? If you are not looking to conceive from the act, are you clear about the birth control methods being utilized?
A breeding kink isn’t something to play with lightly. You want to make sure, going into it, that you and your partner are on the same page about what it is you’re actually engaging in.
7 Ways To Safely Explore Your Breeding Kink
It’s vitally important, when safely exploring your breeding kink, to understand a few crucial things – otherwise there could be lifelong, unintended consequences.
1. Safe, Sane, and Consensual
The expression, ‘safe, sane, and consensual’ (often abbreviated SSC) is a common one in the extended BDSM/kink community. In essence, it means that everything sexual that is occurring was fully understood and agreed upon by all parties involved. In other words, you knew what you were getting into and you were an enthusiastic yes to all of it.
With a breeding kink, the idea of engaging in it from a safe, sane, and consensual place is even more important.
Especially if/when playing with dynamics where ‘consensual non-consensual’ is the tone you’re both going after, it’s vitally important to know that you’re both engaging in a form of sexual play that you both love.
If one of you thinks one thing, and the other partner thinks another, then that isn’t truly consenting, and it can bleed into a form of power abuse. So having these conversations ahead of time, and even having a safeword for certain sexual engagements can be necessary.
2. Know whether or not you both intend to make a baby
One of the most important things that you and your partner can be on the same page about is whether or not you actually are trying to make a baby together.
Do you both want children, now, and with each other? Or are you just engaging in the breeding kink from a more mental/emotional/verbal place?
Get clear on what your shared intentions are with this, and make sure that you’ve discussed it well ahead of time.
3. Discuss birth control with each other
Based on whether or not you’re actually trying to conceive, the topic of birth control would also be a relevant one to discuss.
If you both want to try to actually conceive, then no birth control is required.
But if one or both of you do not want children (now, or at any point in your life) then the discussion of birth control is a must.
Is she on the pill? Are you timing your intercourse when you know she’s far away from ovulation? Will you use condoms?
You can absolutely still engage with a breeding kink with a consenting partner even when you have birth control in the mix. Just like with most kinks and fetishes, reality does not have to logically align with the fantasy.
4. Beware edge play that pushes boundaries too far
With a breeding kink (more than certain other role play type fetishes) it is crucial to be on the same page as to what you’re both actually engaging in.
And especially with certain role play type scenarios (eg. consensual non-consensual), you want to make sure that you’re engaging with a safe partner who will never push your boundaries too far.
A simple example would be if you were engaging in a female aggressor role play (more on this shortly) and the woman insinuated that she secretly hadn’t been taking her birth control for months while engaging sexually with her man, when they both knew that he didn’t want children. For some people, this would be pushing the dynamic too far and could cause genuine fear (and not in a sexy way) in the person hearing it.
Obviously there’s always going to be a unique line (per couple) as to what registers as hot and risky and what registers as disrespectful and cruel. Walking that line of eroticism will always be up to the people engaging in the sexual activity. This is another reason why only engaging in breeding kink play with a known, safe, trusted person is so important.
5. Discuss the type of dirty talk you’re comfortable with
Similar to the last point, you may want to discuss beforehand the type of dirty talk that will appeal to you both during the act.
Especially if this is the first time you and your partner are engaging with this particular fetish, communication is key.
It can be reassuring for both parties to hear the ballpark type of things you’d each most love to hear.
Do you want it to be more loving? Do you want it to be more lustful? More forceful? More submissive? The sky’s the limit.
Discuss your ideal dirty talk beforehand, and you’ll both be in a better position to provide the best sexual experience possible.
6. Start slow and work your way up
For couples who are trying out their breeding kink for the first time, you’ll likely want to start slow instead of just launching into it.
This could look like trying out a few choice phrases right before your partner starts leading up to their orgasm. It could just be something that you dip your toe into in the foreplay section of your sexual engagement but then not while penetrating/being penetrated. Or it could be something as simple as having your partner obviously/visibly pull off the condom in the middle of having sex (again, regardless of whether or not another form of birth control is being used).
Whatever starting slowly looks like for you and your partner, it is worth considering. No need to rush headlong into it. Start with a small, simple version of it, and work your way up to a bigger, more overt form of kink play over time.
Remember, it’s always fun to have something to look forward to.
7. Tell your partner about your desire ahead of time
Another important thing to remember is that new sexual scenarios tend to go a lot smoother (and be a lot hotter) when you’ve discussed your desire with your partner ahead of time.
This way, there’s no awkward in-the-moment surprise of just blurting out a kink or fetish they’ve never heard about from you. Naming it ahead of time also gives your partner to verbalize their consent (say that, yes, they’re into trying it out with you), and also be in a better position to give you your absolute ideal version of it.
In other words, an informed partner is a partner who can enthusiastically consent, and give you the experience of your dreams. So do yourselves a favour and name your desire ahead of time. You’ll both be glad that you did.
5 Erotic Breeding Kink Scenarios To Play With
As with any kink or fetish, there’s an infinite number of ways you can play with them to get the most enjoyment out of them.
Here are five of the most common categories of ways you can play with a breeding kink or impregnation fetish.
1. Loving couple making a baby
Regardless of whether you and your partner actually want to conceive, you can role play (or actually be) a couple that is lovingly, tenderly talking about making a baby together while engaging sexually.
Saying things like, ‘Yes, my love, put a baby in me,’ ‘I can’t wait to have all of your babies,’ or ‘I’m so excited to make you a daddy,’ while softly and lovingly caressing each other’s face would serve you well.
2. Female aggressor
This scenario and the next one (male aggressor) would count as the consensual non-consensual realm, so set up a safe word ahead of time to make sure neither of you is being pushed too far.
In the female aggressor scenario, the woman takes charge and role plays that she is using the man and his sperm to get pregnant despite his not wanting to.
In this role play, the woman could put extra energy into seducing her man, tell him that they can’t have sex until he agrees to cum in her, or (in missionary position) wrap her legs around him in a leg-lock position and ‘force’ him to finish in her despite him ‘not wanting to.’
3. Male aggressor
In the male aggressor scenario, the man is the one who insists on finishing in the woman or getting her pregnant despite her ‘not wanting to.’ Again, this is consensual non-consensual play, so make sure you have a safe word set up and that you both know each other’s limits as to what is allowed.
The male aggressor could covertly or overtly pull off his condom in the middle of sex, verbally tell her how he just has to get her pregnant, or progressively convince her that she should be a mother.
Calibration is key here, so make sure you’re practicing with a safe partner, and that you both know what dynamic and dirty talk really does it for the both of you.
4. Bondage breeding
Bondage breeding is when either partner (male or female) is tied up and made to breed with their partner.
So this could be the man who is tied up and the aggressor woman rides him until he cums in her, or this could be a woman who is tied up and made to breed with her partner who ejaculates in her.
This type of scenario can be combined with a consensual non-consensual dynamic, but it doesn’t necessarily need to be – as some people enjoy bondage for its own sake.
5. Submissive female
The submissive female role play can have some overlap with the loving couple dynamic and/or the bondage breeding dynamic, but it can also be its own thing.
With the submissive female dynamic, the woman exists to please her man, and breed with him as many times as he wants. The submissive female vibe has an undertone of ‘I exist for your pleasure’/’I exist to give you babies.’
This dynamic can be combined with the aforementioned role play scenarios, or stand on its own.
55 Breeding Kink Phrases To Say During Sex
In the next three sections, we’re going to dive into some beginner breeding kink phrases, and then some more advanced ones.
Pick a few of your favourite, tuck them in your back pocket, and try them out the next time you and your partner are being sexual.
Beginner Breeding Kink Phrases
– I want you to get me pregnant
– Yes, impregnate me
– I’m going to get you so pregnant
– Please get me pregnant
– Yes, cum in me
– Breed me, my love
– I want to have all of your babies
– I can’t wait to have all of your babies
– Yes daddy, put a baby in me
– I want to have your babies
– Yes, make me a mommy
– I can’t wait to make you a daddy
– Promise me you won’t pull out
– I promise I won’t pull out
– I can’t wait to see you be a mommy/daddy
– You’re going to the best mom/dad
– I want you to make my belly swell… get all nice and big
– Make me pregnant
– I want to give you so many babies
– I need you to knock me up
– I’ve wanted you to knock me up for so long
– I’m so fertile right now, and I’m all yours
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Advanced Breeding Kink Phrases
– I want to feel you cum inside me later tonight
– I want you to give me all of your cum
– Cum deep inside of me
– I want to feel you cum inside of me
– I love feeling you cum inside of me
– Don’t ever pull out
– I bet you could get me pregnant with just one load
– I want to milk every last drop out of you
– Yes, give me that cum, nice and deep
– I want you to breed me
– I need to cum inside of you
– Yes, fill me all the way up with your cum
– I want you to cum deep in my pussy
– I’m going to come so deep inside you
– Yes, fill me with your cum
– I want you to cum in me every single day until we’re parents
– My wet pussy can’t wait to take in all of your cum
– My wet pussy is so hungry for your cum, daddy
– That’s it, keep cumming in my tight pussy
– I’m not going to let you pull out
– Yes, fill up my pussy, with all of your warm cum
– I want to feel my pussy dripping with your cum
– I want to feel your cum dripping out of me for days
– Do you like feeling my tight pussy wrapped around your cock… milking out every bit of your cum?
– I want to feel you drip down my pussy legs, and down my thighs
– Imagine when my big juicy tits are full of milk
– When I’m pregnant, I’m going to ride you just like this
– I know that you just got me pregnant, I can feel it
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Things To Say After Engaging With An Impregnation Fetish
In the aftermath of engaging with your kink, you can also say some of the following things.
– You are going to be the best mommy/daddy.
– Raise your hips so I can put a pillow under you… I don’t want any of that cum dripping out of you.
– (Putting hand on belly/womb) I can already feel you getting pregnant
– That one did it… I can feel it.
– Do you think it’ll be a boy or a girl?
Alright, You Made It!
You made it to the end of the article! I hope that you enjoyed reading it, and that you got some fun and sexy ideas to play with.
You definitely don’t need to feel like you should memorize all 55 dirty talk phrases for your particular kink. Simply take a few of your favourites, and try them out with your partner the next time you’re sexual with one another.
Also, if you want to dive deeper into my work, I highly recommend checking out some of the additional resources linked below.
Dedicated to your success,
Jordan
Ps. If you enjoyed this resource on breeding kink, you’ll also love checking out the following:
– Supercharge Your Sex Life (video series that helps men become more confident lovers)
– Queen of Blowjobs (video series that helps women give your man the best blowjob of his life, guaranteed)
– The Ultimate BDSM Guide For Beginners
– What’s A Praise Kink & 121 Praise Kink Phrases
– 47 Best Blow Job Tips That Make Him Worship You
– Submissive Dirty Talk: 171 Sexy Things To Say To Him
