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Thigh jobs...? You've heard of handjobs and blowjobs... but thigh jobs? For many people, they are a foreign concept. Also referred to as thighing, thigh sex, and intercrural sex, in a subset of kinksters, explorative couples, and people saving themselves for marriage, thigh jobs are all...

Ever heard of a praise kink? While the phrase and concept was originally born out of the BDSM community, a praise kink is proof that kinksters aren't all about rough-and-tumble, heavy-handed dominance and submission. In fact, many subsets of kink are about healing and integration (arguably all...

Thinking of working with a sex coach, but not sure what you'll get out of it? Perhaps you know someone who has worked with a sexuality or intimacy coach and seen great results. In this article, I'll dive into seven of the most significant ways that people benefit from working with sex coaches. By...

A handjob's a handjob. I mean... he can basically do it himself, amirite? Nope. Wrong! Comparing a guy jerking himself off to him receiving a masterful handjob is like comparing looking at a black-and-white image of a sunrise to waking up in a world-class resort overlooking the ocean with an elaborate...

In 2019, my now-wife/then-love-interest Demetra and I were engaging in multi-hour Skype dates and inching ever-closer to the point of saying "Hey, we should meet up in person and see if our chemistry translates to the real world." Our rapport was phenomenal. The synchronicities were everywhere. It...

Ever found yourself in a relationship that drains your energy faster than water pours out of a busted fire hydrant? In a world full of diverse personalities, there are a few you might want to avoid. While by no means an exhaustive list, the following are a collection of some of the worst offenders. If...

When it comes to sustaining a thriving, healthy marriage, I believe that grand gestures are overrated. In a world of choreographed, flash-mob proposals and Pinterest-perfect breakfasts-in-bed, it's easy to get caught up in the grand gestures of love, but I think it's the little things that truly keep...

Have you ever wondered if you can go from hating blowjobs to loving them? Not just tolerating. Not getting through. But truthfully getting to a place where you adore giving them? Ever since my wife Demetra and I released our video course, Queen of Blowjobs, my email inbox has been flooded with...

At face value, blowjobs might seem like they're all the same. Erect penis, meet mouth. But once you graduate from the adolescent groping that happens in the backseat of your car, you might realize that there is a whole other realm of blowjob mastery to be had. You can incorporate dirty talk...

On a weekly basis, for the last 15 or so years, I have had someone ask me some version of: "Can you just introduce me to a healthy partner / Can you start a matchmaking service so that I can meet the people that follow your work?" Literally, every week. Here's the thing... We've all...