Sex

As much as my books and blog posts largely focus on how to be the ultimate relationship partner, I get asked by men on a daily basis how to meet and attract a quality relationship in the first place. Without further ado, here is what I have learned through 15 years of serial monogamy. While getting...

A lot of guys think that foreplay is something that you do for a few minutes before you penetrate your partner. I remember once reading that foreplay isn't what you do for the five minutes before sex, but what you do for the 24 hours before you get to bed. And while the thought was nice, something...

One of the most common questions that I get asked from my clients in relationships is "How do you stay attracted to someone you've been with for years?" I've interviewed couples who have been married from a few months to 50+ years, and they all agree - sexual attraction ebbs and flows in every re...

Societal assumptions about how men operate sexually are damaging the lives of men more than you might think. I see clients on a weekly basis who think that because they sometimes don’t want to have sex with their partners, it makes them less manly. I mean, shouldn’t they be turned on and ready to...

Have you heard of slut-shaming? It's a recent hot-topic, and with good reason. Through media, upbringing and societal pressure, women have been forced to suppress their sexual urges. This has been happening for ages and has become a widely accepted double standard. Men are allowed to have as much...

Is there anything more painful than the state of limbo that occurs when you're living in a relationship and you aren't sure whether or not you should end it? Did something change in the relationship? Maybe you're growing apart… or you're falling out of love… maybe you were never in love in the first...

No matter how many first dates you’ve been on, they are always a bit nerve-racking. You show up with sweaty palms and racing thoughts ("Will they be fun… or awkward? Will I be attracted to them? Will the date go as well as I think it might?"), hoping that you make a real connection with someone...

Have you ever suffered from bouts of erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation (especially when it mattered the most to you to perform well)? Want to feel more confident about your sex life, instead of anxious? Want to know you'll forever be able to sexually provide for your partner? AND be up...

Let's face it… long distance relationships aren't always a walk in the park. Whether you're playing duelling time zones, trying to schedule your next phone call, or just miss cuddling up with your significant other, it can often feel like a challenge to maintain an emotional and sexual connection...

This is part 4 in the How To Be A Beast In Bed series. Check out parts 1, 2, and 3. You've sexually strengthened yourself, cleared your emotional and mental blocks to physical intimacy, and now you're ready to learn how to become a better lover. Warning: these tips might shock you a bit. Here...